Hello Adi – Hope you could catch some sleep yesterday night and are feeling fresh today to take in a new set of questions.😃😃😃
At this point of time, I would like to know your take on the following situations – How would handle them? 😳 Remember there are no right or wrong answers here. 😛
(Note – the situations here are completely hypothetical, but something we can come across beyond a bollywood movie 😊)
You and Brishti are best friends. Somewhere down the line, you come to know that Brishti actually sees something more in the relationship and she thinks you can make a great couple. You had never given it a serious thought in your life, but you trust Brishti so much that you agree to her proposal and are all set to get married. Your wedding preparations are on in full swing and everyone at home is also very happy with all that is happening. Suddenly a couple of months before the wedding, you meet Snigdha.. and within a month both of you realize that you were the perfect soul mates. What will you do now? Will you choose Snigdha – whom you know for a month but totally believe that she is the one to spend the lifetime with – but in the process lose your best friend and also leave your families devastated; or will you choose Brishti – one whom you have always believed the most and know will never go wrong, and forget the last month as it was never to be? Please substantiate your choice with reasons.
You come to a vacation to India and you meet Amrita. After going steady for sometime – both of you decide to get married. She is with the Administrative Service and really loves the work she is doing at the grass-root level there. Following the norm, she decides to move to Canada with you. The initial days there are fine but within 6 months – she realizes that she is missing a part of herself with the work that she left behind in India. You can see that she is very unhappy and would want to bring her smile back. Your firm has opened up a branch in India recently and is willing to relocate you. What will you do? Will you go back to India with Amrita for good and allow her to chase her dreams, knowing very well that for you it will be like starting life over in a new country far away from family and friends with the risk that you may face the same situation again after 6 months with yourself; or will you ask her to adjust to your way of life knowing that she will be paying a heavy price for this compromise?
You are doing very well in your career and your boss is really very happy with you. Your company decides to open up a new office at Colombo, and gives you the entire charge for the same. They also increase your overall compensation by 300%. However, they don't advice you to take your family along. Your wife is anyway not ready to travel as she is expecting your first child. What will you do? Will you take up this chance of a lifetime and secure the future of your family but that would mean that you leave behind your wife when she needs you the most, and it may also happen that you are not around when your child is born, or you will give up this chance knowing very well that your will never ever get such an opportunity again in your lifetime?
Its one of the best days of your life – Aamna has agreed for a dinner date for you. You are about to leave for the same, you open the door and you see Bhaskar standing on the door. Surprised and extremely happy, you do not know how to react. Of course, you don't want to tell him about the date – he may feel heart-broken. Just when you are thinking how to make Bhaskar comfortable at home and somehow ask him to hang-on for 2 hrs at home (so that u can keep the date) and come back and have a 'jomati adda' with him for a night, you suddenly get a call on your cell from Jaya. She sounds extremely depressed and wants to meet you asap to discuss something – she stays just around 40 miles from your place. Completely lost Adi is still thinking what to do and he suddenly receives another call from his boss that there is an urgent project meeting suddenly planned for the evening and Adi needs to be here, come what may! How will Adi manage the whole show?