Originally posted by: adi_0112
Tried my best , but cannot resist asking since you are replying so well..take your time sweety and reply in leisure for me.. no hurry... Thanks adi for asking.. as ur previous set is taking a long time, im answering to this first...
1.Why is it that people are more concerned for their fundamental rights than their fundamental duties.
Fundamental rights are one that are the birth right of a person.. He has to get those rights once he is born in this world... And a person thinks that if he is deprived of the fundamental rights, then its his birth right to fight for it.. Unfortunately he doesnot think the same for the fundamental duties to be followed...
In India when there is an accident, the person runs to the police station for complaining and get his things done.. but he never accepts that he has broken the traffic rules.. A person becomes selfish when it comes to these issues.. He wants to take care of himself and leave out the rest.. This is what happens when it comes to perform the duties...
We always try to safeguard ourselves with rights and forget about the duties to be paid.. if a person can do both things well, then im sure a country can shine really welll... After all its we who make the country.. We keep blaming the country for everything but forget the duties that we have to do which makes real difference for the growth of a country.. We dont pay tax properly, by this we are reducing the revenue for the country... now even one rupee can make a lot of difference but we never ever think of it and blame the country for everything, where we need to blame ourselves for certain things.. we consititute the country.. why not follow things and perform the duties well so that it makes atleast a little difference to the growth of a country...
2. Can a person who has earned a lot of money.. but has compromised of his/her principles be called a successful person? What defines success?
Success has its own definition.. If we say we have been successful in life, then it doesnot mean that we have earned lot of money, been financially good, achieved alll that we want in life, gained recognition, got fame etc, But it also means how well we have been able to manage things in life.. How well we have been able to face the difficulties in life, how well we have tackled the problems, how many good relationships we have earned etc... But we tend to forget the second part and concentrate only on the first...
A person who has compromised his principles for money is surely not called a successful person... Just for the sake of money he has compromised his self respect, himself for it.. When there are not principles for a person, then he looses his own identity.. Now, when he has lost his own identitiy just for the sake of money, then is he a successful person? I surely dont think so... We must not sacrifice our identity, our respect for the sake of money.. if one day we do, then we have lost ourself and in that way money has no value
3. Most of our Indian mothers don't let their sons do much work at home like cooking, cleaning etc. Same way many girls don't learn to do outside works like changing a fuse, paying bills etc. Isn't our mothers indirectly stopping their children from becoming 100% self reliant?
I agree with you on this.. Indian Mothers have been like this for the past so many years.. They teach their girl children all the house hold work so that it will be useful when they get married.. In the sameway, they see to it that their boy children get all the knowledge about the outside world other than the house... This is a trend that has been followed for a long long time... This is because it is always considered that a guy must do all work outside the house and all girls must do work inside the house...
But things are changing places.. Now days Indian Mothers do train their children for everything.. If a mom has gone out then its the child who has to cook and eat.. now take the case of SDK, he cooks because his mother leaves for office and work.. He has learnt cooking and he can be self reliant from now on.. In same way in the case of a girl child, in my house its usually me who solve all this electric problems, any outside work to be done, i do them... So, things are changing and from time to time im sure we can change this perspective that girls should do this job and boys should do the other jobs.. these are no more in existence if u ask me...
Thanks.😃 Thanks bro.. hope u got the answer what u required 👍🏼