Member Of The Week:-uknaik99 - Page 173

Originally posted by: ans24us1

dnt worry.. Daisy has changed her AV... she has a remix artist as her AV 😊

ok😆Priety is getting Famous around here

I see Jaya's questions screaming out - 'Equality for women!, Why Unfair Bias against women!'. I have a few questions here where you have to explain the unfair bias against men, and yes, there is a lot of it. Shady here is my version of answers….

1. Why is it that a father never says anything to his beloved daughter, but is ever ready to scold or even hit a son, if he does something wrong? Beti hamesha ladli hothi hei.. hv you heard about Papp's Boy.. it is always Papa's girl.. Boy should be deltted like boys.. if father mother's them sissy ho jayenge.. Mard ka banenge

2. Why is it that a girl can choose what she wants to do in life - or even if she wants to study further or not - but a boy is pushed into parents' preferred professions like Doctor or Engineer even if he doesn't want to do it? Because Boy was suupose to take care of his family.. in these fileds he gets more money and name.. Jaabki Ladki usually shaadi kar ke chali jaathi hei.. if the girl has more qualification she will get more prestigious proposals… this is all calculation..

3. Why is it when a girl is sitting jobless at home, the parents don't say anything and simply shower love on her, but when a boy is sitting jobless, he is scolded and told to mend his ways and get serious and forget friends and find some work? Again the same answer … Beti paraya dhan hei.. I hv seen so many friends of mine who are highly educated are sitting at home because her family never allows to go for a job.. namesake degree tho hai.. because ladke wale poochenge na tumhari ladki kitane thak padi hei…

and on the other hand a Boy should take care of a family.. tomarrow when he gets marry he has to take care of wife, kids.. if he sits jobless.. then he won't get respect in society and noone wl give him their girl…

4. Why is it that in India, when married people separate, the man has to pay alimony to his wife, but the wife is never expected to, even if she is richer than him. It is Indian way of thinking that it is husband who suppose to take care of wife.. so he has to pay the alimony.. incase the woman is richer than him.. he won't ask for the alimony by asking he is insulting his manhood.. mard hoke Biwi is paise mang the ho chi.. chi.. 🤢🤢

5. Why is it that when separating parents fight for custody of their child, all other factors being equal, the court feels the mother is better capable of bringing up the child?

It is natural Shady.. it is the mother who nurture the child.. child needs his/her mother more than father during the growing years.. it is policy of nature…

6. Why is it that when a woman slaps a guy, everyone thinks the guy must have done something wrong, but when a guy does that, they think he is torturing the woman?
Because man is physically more powerful while women are delicate by nature.. she may touture him by mentally not by physically.. if you see a woman slapping a man that means that guy has crossed all his boundry…

7. Why is it that almost all the GMs of India Forums are female, and the only male (added recently) has a female on his AV? I agree with SDK that women have mothering nature and all members in IF are KIDS (you bet they are) they need mothering touch as well as discipline.. and about Bhasakr bahiya everyone knows that he is Aaman'ka Diwana… 😊😛😉

Kavita,

THanks for so paiently answering my questions. I really enjoyed it.

and well you have done a great job.. 👏👏👏 .For some personal reasons, i could n't be more frequent than what i was..but i defintely tried reading your replies.. actually reaching those pages in the midst of all the commercial breaks by itself was a herculean task.

You are a great person Kavita and I guess my poem to you says it all.

Good Luck & God bless.

Originally posted by: adi_0112

Kavita,

THanks for so paiently answering my questions. I really enjoyed it.

and well you have done a great job.. 👏👏👏 .For some personal reasons, i could n't be more frequent than what i was..but i defintely tried reading your replies.. actually reaching those pages in the midst of all the commercial breaks by itself was a herculean task.

You are a great person Kavita and I guess my poem to you says it all.

Good Luck & God bless.

Thank you ADI... Thanks for the wonderful poem and Thank you for visiting this thread dispite being not well.. looking forward to your Tenure 😊😛😉

Kavita..

bumping my poem to you as my thank you..

I met you in this forum thro a PM

Your accepting me a friend has been a treasure

Going through your posts in threads and laughing

Knowing you has been my pleasure

Your cheerfulness, strength ,vivaciousness

Beauty and brain clearly says out loud

You have made your family n friends happy

Given them reasons to feel proud

Reading your replies in MOTW this week

To questions that could have given some seizure

All I can say for you my dear Kavita

God definitely made you in his leisure

I am hoping that we will continue this friendship

laugh away here on what I have no clue

I pray may all your wishes be fulfilled

Be happy , may all your dreams come true

All the very best..cheers👍🏼

👏 👏 👏 I can't believe I missed that 👏 👏 👏

Adi.. you got your siggy back.. good.. 😆 😆

Originally posted by: uknaik99

Adi.. you got your siggy back.. good.. 😆 😆

Yes.. I was waiting for something special..and i got it yesterday 😛...so here you go..you wanted this siggy back right????😃

I might have to leave now.. i have exam tomoro and have to learn... So, i might not be there when ur MOTW will be over 😊

Here is a small thing just for you didi:

Kavitha ke liye kavitha likhne lage hum
lekin is kavitha ke baare mein kavitha likhe toh poori raat lagegi

Kavitha se milti hain hamein prerna(both ways: kavitha meaning poem and yourself - kavitha)
Isi prerna ko hum apne zindagi mein bhi apnayenge, yehi hain hamara kehna.
Agar hum se koi bhi galati huyi ho
toh hamein aap maaf kardena...
Rab se dua hain yehi
Salamat rahein yeh rishta hamara

Your MOTW will always be remembered forever in the memories:

We had debate, we had maths, we had roothna, we had manana,
But you never ever told us anything and kept on asking us questions...
I am really so grateful to you for giving me the freedom to write the answers... I am really glad to meet such a person in IF.. I am running short of words to praise you...

Thank you Kavitha di for everything... and yes, i will remember ur advise for always 😳😛

Originally posted by: uknaik99

I see Jaya's questions screaming out - 'Equality for women!, Why Unfair Bias against women!'. I have a few questions here where you have to explain the unfair bias against men, and yes, there is a lot of it. Shady here is my version of answers….

1. Why is it that a father never says anything to his beloved daughter, but is ever ready to scold or even hit a son, if he does something wrong? Beti hamesha ladli hothi hei.. hv you heard about Papp's Boy.. it is always Papa's girl.. Boy should be deltted like boys.. if father mother's them sissy ho jayenge.. Mard ka banenge

2. Why is it that a girl can choose what she wants to do in life - or even if she wants to study further or not - but a boy is pushed into parents' preferred professions like Doctor or Engineer even if he doesn't want to do it? Because Boy was suupose to take care of his family.. in these fileds he gets more money and name.. Jaabki Ladki usually shaadi kar ke chali jaathi hei.. if the girl has more qualification she will get more prestigious proposals… this is all calculation..

3. Why is it when a girl is sitting jobless at home, the parents don't say anything and simply shower love on her, but when a boy is sitting jobless, he is scolded and told to mend his ways and get serious and forget friends and find some work? Again the same answer … Beti paraya dhan hei.. I hv seen so many friends of mine who are highly educated are sitting at home because her family never allows to go for a job.. namesake degree tho hai.. because ladke wale poochenge na tumhari ladki kitane thak padi hei…

and on the other hand a Boy should take care of a family.. tomarrow when he gets marry he has to take care of wife, kids.. if he sits jobless.. then he won't get respect in society and noone wl give him their girl…

4. Why is it that in India, when married people separate, the man has to pay alimony to his wife, but the wife is never expected to, even if she is richer than him. It is Indian way of thinking that it is husband who suppose to take care of wife.. so he has to pay the alimony.. incase the woman is richer than him.. he won't ask for the alimony by asking he is insulting his manhood.. mard hoke Biwi is paise mang the ho chi.. chi.. 🤢🤢

5. Why is it that when separating parents fight for custody of their child, all other factors being equal, the court feels the mother is better capable of bringing up the child?

It is natural Shady.. it is the mother who nurture the child.. child needs his/her mother more than father during the growing years.. it is policy of nature…

6. Why is it that when a woman slaps a guy, everyone thinks the guy must have done something wrong, but when a guy does that, they think he is torturing the woman?
Because man is physically more powerful while women are delicate by nature.. she may touture him by mentally not by physically.. if you see a woman slapping a man that means that guy has crossed all his boundry…

7. Why is it that almost all the GMs of India Forums are female, and the only male (added recently) has a female on his AV? I agree with SDK that women have mothering nature and all members in IF are KIDS (you bet they are) they need mothering touch as well as discipline.. and about Bhasakr bahiya everyone knows that he is Aaman'ka Diwana… 😊😛😉

Thanks a lot Kavita - the main intention of me posting these questions has been realized.. I love your answers - just what I wanted!! 👏👏👏

P.S. I normally don't quote long answers, but this one I had to 😳😛