My Experience in SaReGaMaPa Forum - Page 36

Originally posted by: soulsoup

I was avoiding this post just due to the fear of getting bashed for not mentioning someones name 😕😕 Oh well – let me say few things about my experience in IF SRGMAP section – if I miss someone's name – please forgive me. 😛

I joined IF during quite late stage of C2005, after Nihira's elimination. I was really angry – wanted to voice out somewhere, my friend Ashu informed me about IF and I registered one day. Who knew about the wonderful journey ahead.

Old members are aware of the battlefield situation of the forum that time. Given one chance every members of one camp were ready to tear off the opponent camp members. Poor Jem was totally going bonkers that time. But I wasn't a nice kid either - jumped immediately into the battleground and formed alliances within couple of days. Together with Appa, Abhi, Skudbhai, Rahul, TaarCheera, Temasek and many others , bashed many people of the 'other camp' those days. If someone digs out all those old threads – Bhaskar will sure ban me now for instigating fights! 😛 😆😆

In between all those chaos – Abhi was banned (first time), and man, what a fight I had with Priya and Bhaskar over PM. 😆😆 After that fight was over we formed a trusting relationship and I am enjoying that comradely till date – it became stronger day by day. 😊

Few of the other members apart from our 'gang' also warmly welcomed me – first one was Angela – I still call her 'little angel', till date she is one of the sweetest people I know in IF. Zahida and Varsha ji was also very friendly from the day one of our interaction. Slowly I made many friends in the 'enemy' camp too – like Manisha, Bratati and Anshuman. Apart from the bashing I use to also enjoy the music related threads by Kishore Bhakta, N Sinha ji and Abhi.

One day Bhaskar asked me if I am interested to become a Viewbie – not knowing what I am stepping into, I agreed! Barnalidi use to provide lots of moral support those early clueless days of my new job. But slowly I started enjoying that too and in the process earned titles such as Pandu Hawaldar and TaleBan! 😳

Now let's shuffle the timeline and talk about some great people I came across in my life in IF.

Sahana and Jaya are two extraordinary woman I found in IF – great articulated thought process, well balanced IQ and EQ – true representative of today's Indian woman – You GO GIRLS! 👍🏼

I found unconditional friendship of many in IF - Bhaskar, Adi, Daisy, Abhi to name a few. We crossed the border of cyberspace and entered into each other 'life'. I never knew virtual friendship can be like this.

My day seems to be incomplete without the regular dosage of humor and 'backhand slap posts' by Shady, Deep, Appa, Jadooo and few others. Skudbhai too, before he registered himself at Shadi@barbadi.com 😒

I came across the jovial bunch of youngsters bubbling with energy (by their attitude – not age) who made me feel young too - Angie, Vinnie, Shubham, Amogh, Bratati to name a few.

I don't have a sister in real life – but my life in IF is blessed with some great sisters – best of them are two Anu, Anuradha and Anushree – they never fail to brighten up my day! 😊

I enjoy healthy debates – naturally relished the interaction with Qwerety, Anshuman, Karan etc. Special mention of Rahul – he is my alter ego – also we share the same birthday– that makes the whole situation spookier! 😉

Talking about IF without our resident research group people, Qwest dada, Vijay, Swar_Raj or Barnali di is impossible. They transformed a musical reality show forum into an information resource center of Music. 👏👏👏

I never actively took part in the chatty threads for prolonged time – but love those guys too – Respect, Nonny, Sri, Sangeeta, Chukki…why I can't recall any guys name…ooh ok – Iron, Ahmed et all! Although Sunil bhai is now resident member of the chat threads; but I am a big fan of him – due to several reasons. He actually influenced me to write my first serious post here.

I miss one of the great friends of mine in IF – Mistimoni, we had 100s of PM exchanged – regarding music, literature and everything under the sun. Exactly the same age group of mine, but growing up in my neighboring country made such little difference in out cultural taste buds. She is busy with her research work now! 😭😭

So far my life in IF was a GREAT one and my expectations from the future are nothing less either. 😃

Again – please forgive me if I missed someone.

Anolbhai, so happy U mentioned Ur sis I know that U are always there to guide me and Ur wonderful stories, and are a very sensible person...


Memory, Abhi(want to mention he was a treasured member here)

Anolbhai. I too remember theday Abhi wasbanned it wasduring aballooncontest and happened tobe in the thread that it happened...and remeber also telling abhi to actpeacefully since he was upset(and ban was 4 some prior reason)...and he mentioned how Anol/Soulsoup was a great person and I agreed since Anol had very good posts esp the post on Hr and marketing scheme...It was great...

Well when it happened I had pmed him and told the matter and he said he was aware..and talking to priya andbhaskar(mods) who themselves were also suprised attheban ...yet had to go along with it..and were trying hard to handle the situation and get him reinstated....

Point: Anolbhai, is a trustworthy and sensible person and hats off to him👏

A R A I S O N A S E A S O N O R A L IFE TI M E

4 ALL MEMBERS:


People come into your life for a reason, a season, or a lifetime. When you figure out which it is, you know exactly what to do.

When someone is in your life for a REASON, it is usually to meet a need you have expressed outwardly or inwardly. They have come to assist you through a difficulty, to provide you with guidance and support, to aid you physically, emotionally, or spiritually. They may seem like a godsend, and they are. They are there for the reason you need them to be. Then, without any wrong doing on your part or at an inconvenient time, this person will say or do something to bring the relationship to an end. Sometimes they die. Sometimes they walk away. Sometimes they act up or out and force you to take a stand. What we must realize is that our need has been met, our desire fulfilled; their work is done. The prayer you sent up has been answered and it is now time to move on.

When people come into your life for a SEASON, it is because your turn has come to share, grow, or learn. They may bring you an experience of peace or make you laugh. They may teach you something you have never done. They usually give you an unbelievable amount of joy. Believe it! It is real! But, only for a season.

LIFETIME relationships teach you lifetime lessons; those things you must build upon in order to have a solid emotional foundation. Your job is to accept the lesson, love the person/people (anyway); and put what you have learned to use in all other relationships and areas of your life. It is said that love is blind but friendship is clairvoyant.

BHASKAR ,
Our new Global Moderator and my Pal

4-U(I have already mentioned my interaction withbhaskar on pg 2)




Simple Friends vs. Real Friends


A simple friend has never seen you cry.
A real friend has shoulders soggy from your tears.

A simple friend doesn't know your parents' first names.
A real friend has their phone numbers in his address book.

A simple friend brings a bottle of wine to your party.
A real friend comes early to help you cook and clean.

A simple friend hates it when you call after he has gone to bed.
A real friend asks you why you took so long to call.

A simple friend seeks to talk with you about their problems.
A real friend seeks to help you with your problems.

A simple friend wonders about your romantic history.
A real friend could blackmail you with it.

A simple friend, when visiting, acts like a guest.
A real friend opens your refrigerator and helps himself.

A simple friend thinks the friendship is over when you have an argument.
A real friend knows that it's not a friendship until after u've had a fight.

A simple friend expects you to always be there for them.
A real friend expects to always be there for you!


I think ofbhaskar as a Real one and he may as well think of mebeing a real/true one too.

Reasons
-he is there to guide U
-he helps those out in a tough situation
-he goesby the rules ,however,he allows some liberties
-he is good at heart, easygoing, and wants to see all get along
-Above all, he tries to stay neutral

I personally want to thank him on opening this thread😊
thanks new global Mod😊

Just flipping through the pages of this threads I found these!!
Thanku all 🤗

Man - I am going to print this out and show it to my wife - she never knew I am such a great guy 😆

Originally posted by: teenindia_usa

Anolbhai, is very special, he has advised me rt or wrong, he has given

me support and always concerned about my wellbeing, he is eassygoing and sensible..

Originally posted by: radz_2cool

I can't forget Anol bro whom I pmed only twice but he is a very really nice bro and after

becoming a viewbie he stopped bashing Himesh ji .

Originally posted by: shadyhtown

When I finally got tired of the Krantikari stuff, I decided to make friends. And I did. My

first was Anolda - I used to bother him all the time with my PMs arguing over this and that

and complaining about the Mods, and he always patiently replied. What a guy!

Originally posted by: manjujain

I did find people here caring once they know you. I met many people and

have interactions with them and glad to meet Shady, Adi, Anol da, Sri, Pallavi ji, Varsha

ji, Jadoo ji, Jaya, Chukkna, Meena, Anushree, Daizy & Vinnie.

Originally posted by: Awww

Anol and I have developed a trusting relationship. He was not a Viewbie when I

become friends with him.

Originally posted by: jayc1234

Anol - I have seriously become your fan.. Its amazing to see how you handle

it all so well.. So cool and yet so focussed.. And yet sharing a piece of your mind with

others while maintaining the hot seat stature.. You are an inspiration...

Originally posted by: ans24us1

Anol da - A member in IF whom i have always looked upto for the kind words and the witty comments.. He is all in one.. We can take advise from him and a very patient person in IF for the right job.. His explanation to things will make u agree to wat ever he say.. Thank u anol da for all the patient replies to my stupid questions and being my elder brother...

Originally posted by: Bhaskar.T

After few weeks I got some really good friends here. Anol being the best and very trusted one.

Originally posted by: jayc1234

Bhaskar - A BIG THANKU to you for giving all of us a gem of a thread... 😃Most of us spend a good part of our lives here and have shared a whole lot of our real lives to some of our trusted ones here.. We all knew in our hearts what we felt just being on IF and sharing moments of happiness, but you gave us an opportunity to pen down our thoughts... And am sure, like me, many others found it so difficult to find words for expressing the feelings deep inside... 😊 IF has been one amazing place where the line between real and virtual has vanished for many of us, and we could just touch each other for real.....😛

Thanks everyone for your incredible posts on this thread...👏 Its not easy opening up a part of ourselves and expressing what we feel, but we all have made it happen... There are emotions we possibly still could not express through our posts, and perhaps its best to leave certain things to feel and understand😳

Is IF Family me hum 'Sa Re Saath Hai' 🤗🤗

This is what I felt and didn't post though this a special thread.

Met some very good people whom I felt I knew them for long and made some good friends who make me feel good to be at IF. To name few:Manju didi, Govindji, Adi, Jaya, Deep, Amogh, Shady, Anu's, Rakhee, Chitra and many more.

I started reading PMahesh(Priti's) posts initially before being a member. Also started liking Abhi's posts. I miss those posts. Most of them seldom post these days, to name few, Qwest, Kishore_Bhakta, Soulsoup(Anol's) analysis, Surpremi's analysis to name few started attracting me to come to IF.I was silent reader for a long time, then, when the login screen started coming in the screen, I managed to scroll in between and read the posts. Then, it became inconvenient and became a member. Though did not post much.

Now, it's sometime, that I came to know many here. It's good to be here.

Well I joined IF during the on going Maha Yudh of SRGMP C'05. While bashing the opponent parties I made quite a few nos.good pals in IF …but some of them stopped coming to IF now a days. But we try to keep in touch thru mails. Only BAPIGUA ditched me badly. Anol was the very 1st person who pmed me for other topic than SRGMP…he sent me few beautiful snaps of his sweet lil princess and few snaps of scenic beauty of Singapore…..I always seek help of Anol when ever I m disturbed by any IF members and like a bro./best friend he makes the situation under control………..I always secretly appreciate his vast knowledge in any field may it be serious or humorous. I always enjoy reading his posts……….....Anol keep my trust on u and be happy always. 😊

Well I accidentally stumbled across the FORUM in the early days of January in order to get things off my mind which were bugging me terribly ..including VINIT's MIMICRY and SAPTAK's elimination from CHALLENGE 2005 ..When my first post was a success .I gained enough confidence to visit the forum regularly ..At the time very people were members of SRGMP edition ..but the nos began to increase once the show reached its climax ..The first people I knew were Abbhilash and a member named Surya ....Then as time went on I began to merge into the cAMP OF debojit SUPPORTERS AND i DARESAY i DID MORE CAMPAIGNING FOR debojit THAN most other members in the forum ....AND IN TIME i came to know people like Appa Da Taar chera ..Surpremi ..etc etc ..But then I took a 2 month break due to my exams during which the no. of members increased 100folds And this time ..I HAD my favourite singer SAPTAK in the spotlight and supported him more than anyone else..and on this renewed journey ..I met wonderful people like Amogh ..Rage ..JAYADI ..Bratati ..Angela ..MEETU ..Bangboy ..Anol Da..etcetc THISplace has been the ideal place for me to make friends and also to spend my free time ..VIVE LA IF !!!!

P.S. Please orgive me if I miss someone's name

Originally posted by: SHUBHAMSG

..I HAD my favourite singer SAPTAK in the spotlight and supported him more than anyone else..and on this renewed journey ..I met wonderful people like Amogh ..Rage ..JAYADI ..Bratati ..Angela ..MEETU ..Bangboy ..Anol Da..etcetc THISplace has been the ideal place for me to make friends and also to spend my free time ..VIVE LA IF !!!!

P.S. Please orgive me if I miss someone's name

Shub that is real sweet and appreciate the mention...and ok
saptak is good...

Pareh Rulezzzzzz

[Quote=deepboy]
meri yeh shayari ki aakhri koshish..
kahin galati bhi hoti hain..
toh pehle se hi maangte hain
aap sab se maafi ki bakshish..

kabhi kabhi main sochta hoon
ki yeh jeevan kitnaa anmol hain
ji kare khul ke jiooon
is bandish mein bhi kinti azaadi hain..

mere desh ki hariyaali aur mamta bhari gaaon
panghat mein tertaa hua kagaaz ki naaon
har andaaz mein choti choti khushiyaan
kisi chori ki muskaan jaise suraaj ki kiraaniyaan
sur ki sagar mein sargam ki mel
woh pehli choowaan woh chumban ka khel
fir bhi har saans ko parakhte chale hum
anjaan sah chale hazaaroon gum..
par har lamhaa yehi ahsaas dilaataa hain..
aye musafir chalta chal..
jeena jo hain jitne saal
kahin bhatak na jaaye tu apni manzil se..
kyunki jab tak saans hain..
zindagi ka ahsaas hain
par kabhi socha hain kisine yeh bhi..
ki har saans mein jalti hain yeh zindagi..
phir bhi ki ek ek saans ke liye tadapte hain hum..
kaash us pingre mein woh totaa nahin..
baandh lete saare aansu aur duniya ke gam..

par yeh dharti phir bhi sundar hain..
sooraj ki kirnein yahan roz chamakte hain..
aashaon ke ujaale yahaan bhaag chumtein hain..
aye manav tujhe kis baat ki daar..
agey badhte jaa..
aur dekh..har saans mein kitni zindagi hoti hain..


Aap ki koshish acchi hai jari rakhiya do not say that it is aakhri koshish.

Originally posted by: soulsoup

I was avoiding this post under the fear of getting bashed for not mentioning someones name by mistake 😕😕 Oh well – let me say few things about my experience in IF SRGMAP section – if I miss mentioning some name – please forgive me. 😛

I joined IF during quite late stage of C2005, after Nihira's elimination. I was really angry 😡😡 – wanted to voice out somewhere, my friend Ashu informed me about IF and I registered one day. Who knew about the wonderful journey ahead.

Old members are aware of the battlefield situation of the forum that time. Given one chance every members of one camp were ready to tear off the opponent camp members. Poor Jem was totally going bonkers that time. But I wasn't a nice kid either - jumped immediately into the battleground and formed alliances within couple of days. Together with Appa, Abhi, Skudbhai, Rahul, TaarCheera, Temasek and many others , bashed many people of the 'other camp' those days. If someone digs out all those old threads – Bhaskar will sure ban me now for instigating fights! 😛 😆😆

In between all those chaos – Abhi was banned (first time), and man, what a fight I had with Priya and Bhaskar over PM. 😆😆 After that fight was over we formed a trusting relationship and I am enjoying that comradely till date – it became stronger day by day. 😊

Few of the other members apart from our 'gang' also warmly welcomed me – first one was Angela – I still call her 'little angel' 😊, till date she is one of the sweetest people I know in IF. Zahida and Varsha ji was also very friendly from the day one of our interaction. Slowly I made many friends in the 'enemy' camp too – like Manisha, Bratati and Anshuman. Apart from the bashing I use to also enjoy the music related threads by Kishore Bhakta, N Sinha ji and Abhi.

One day Bhaskar asked me if I am interested to become a Viewbie – not knowing what I am stepping into, I agreed! Barnalidi use to provide lots of moral support those early clueless days of my new job. But slowly I started enjoying that too and in the process earned titles such as Pandu Hawaldar and TaleBan! 😳

Now let's shuffle the timeline and talk about some great people I came across in my life in IF.

Sahana and Jaya are two extraordinary woman I found in IF – great articulated thought process, well balanced IQ and EQ – true representative of today's Indian woman – You GO GIRLS! 👍🏼

I found unconditional friendship of many in IF - Bhaskar, Adi, Daisy, Abhi to name a few. We crossed the border of cyberspace and entered into each other 'life'. I never knew virtual friendship can be like this.

My day seems to be incomplete without the regular dosage of humor and 'backhand slap posts' by Shady, Deep, Appa, Jadooo and few others. Skudbhai too, before he registered himself at Shadi@barbadi.com 😒

I came across the jovial bunch of youngsters bubbling with energy (by their attitude – not age) who made me feel young too - Angie, Vinnie, Shubham, Amogh, Bratati to name a few.

I don't have a sister in real life – but my life in IF is blessed with some great sisters – best of them are two Anu, Anuradha and Anushree – they never fail to brighten up my day! 😊

I enjoy healthy debates – naturally relished the interaction with Qwerety, Anshuman, Karan etc. Special mention of Rahul – he is my alter ego – also we share the same birthday– that makes the whole situation spookier! 😉

Talking about IF without our resident research group people, Qwest dada, Vijay, Swar_Raj or Barnali di is impossible. They transformed a musical reality show forum into an information resource center of Music. 👏👏👏

I never actively took part in the chatty threads for prolonged time – but love those guys too – Respect, Nonny, Sri, Sangeeta, Chukki…ummm why I can't remember any guys name 🤔…ooh ok – Iron, Ahmed et all! Although Sunil bhai is now resident member of the chat threads; but I am a big fan of him – due to several reasons. He actually influenced me to write my first serious post here.

I miss one of the great friends of mine in IF – Mistimoni, we had 100s of PM exchanged – regarding music, literature and everything under the sun. Exactly the same age group of mine, but growing up in my neighboring country made such little difference in out cultural taste buds. She is busy with her research work now! 😭😭

So far my life in IF was a GREAT one and my expectations from the future are nothing less either. 😃

Again – please forgive me if I missed someone.😳

thanx for counting me in kids Anol😆😆