Announcement: Introduction of Display Names on India Forums! - Page 8

Originally posted by: Supari_khala

Hi Vijay,

There is an ongoing issue in the Bollywood forum where a member is using her display name feature to attack another member. Everyone is seeing this and nothing is being done about it. Is this allowed? I reported this member to the channel moderator but she said it is out of her hands and is waiting for you to take action. I am posting this message here just to make sure this issue gets global attention. I do not think you created this feature only for people to misuse it. Please look into it and take appropriate action.

I think anyone caught abusing this feature should get a warning level increase. It is no different than attacking members.


Below are the screen shots of the three display names and they are posted below. Member misusing this feature is Carisma2. Member who is being attacked is Grumpydwarf24. This is open bullying and should be strictly dealt with. If MIDs can be outright banned for bullying, then regular members should at least be reprimanded and warned with a warning level increase for such uncalled for bullying.

I would appreciate you looking into this matter. No one should feel attacked on a forum that’s meant to be inclusive and welcoming. Thank you!

Thank you for bringing this to the moderator’s attention. I clearly do feel attacked. Even though the member rule book wise is not breaking any rules. She changes her UN almost twice a week to mock me. As many have noticed. All these names are suddenly correlating with mine? Would be too big of a coincidence to assume for anyone who has been following the politics on the Bollywood’s forum. I have PMs to show she recently had a fall out with me because I did not blindly believe everything she told me. If she can targetly me this brutally for simply not believing her ! Imagine what she can do to others ! I support my friend Supari Khala’s inquiry and demand that it be given special attention by every moderator.

Originally posted by: Grumpydwarf24

Thank you for bringing this to the moderator’s attention. I clearly do feel attacked. Even though the member rule book wise is not breaking any rules. She changes her UN almost twice a week to mock me. As many have noticed. All these names are suddenly correlating with mine? Would be too big of a coincidence to assume for anyone who has been following the politics on the Bollywood’s forum. I have PMs to show she recently had a fall out with me because I did not blindly believe everything she told me. If she can targetly me this brutally for simply not believing her ! Imagine what she can do to others ! I support my friend Supari Khala’s inquiry and demand that it be given special attention by every moderator.

She is breaking rules, it is harassment & bullying

Originally posted by: D3viL

She is breaking rules, it is harassment & bullying.

That was my concern too.. God only knows the mental anguish she is capable of putting others through

Honestly thank god for supari. I'd honestly be struggling if supari didn't have my back too.. its been a rough ride grumpy.

We both adore Supari Khala! The one thing we will always have in common! ❤️

Originally posted by: Grumpydwarf24

We both adore Supari Khala! The one thing we will always have in common! ❤️

Just that.. uff. I'll get a hold of you in another thread and list all the other things 😁

Originally posted by: Supari_khala

Hi Vijay,

There is an ongoing issue in the Bollywood forum where a member is using her display name feature to attack another member. Everyone is seeing this and nothing is being done about it. Is this allowed? I reported this member to the channel moderator but she said it is out of her hands and is waiting for you to take action. I am posting this message here just to make sure this issue gets global attention. I do not think you created this feature only for people to misuse it. Please look into it and take appropriate action.

I think anyone caught abusing this feature should get a warning level increase. It is no different than attacking members.


Below are the screen shots of the three display names and they are posted below. Member misusing this feature is Carisma2. Member who is being attacked is Grumpydwarf24. This is open bullying and should be strictly dealt with. If MIDs can be outright banned for bullying, then regular members should at least be reprimanded and warned with a warning level increase for such uncalled for bullying.

I would appreciate you looking into this matter. No one should feel attacked on a forum that’s meant to be inclusive and welcoming. Thank you!

I agree. This is open harassment and bullying. Even the member has issues with the member, take it up as an adult. I don't know even know the member being bullied, but can easily tell that they are being targeted. Please be more strict with this, and make sure bullying and harassment of members are dealt with diligently.

Lol...

Are U guys for real?

I'm Grumpy for reasons best known to me, Vijay and Minionite.

Snitch, liar... those are the names you gave me... so why do you have a problem seeing them on my display?

Do not diagnose yourselves to what I write. It's paranoia. Grumpy is a word, anyone can use any word.

Next week I was gonna be DevilishWitch.

Now can I ask for D3vils consent as he may demand the rights of the word devil-ish.

D3vil, Supari, Grumpy.

Grumpy you got angry coz I didn't support you against my friend. Only because I've not said anything about it isn't an excuse for ppl to spread things about me. I believed you were in the wrong that time and I couldn't take a stand for you. Normally I have always been there for you.

When you told me FK is FO... u know who I stopped communication with her despite her being very nice to me.

Yes d3vil told me that about you and khala. I Didn't want you getting misled and in trouble coz that time u were super angry.

Vijay.. I really turned bwf into a nice place. I can send you details which show D3vil rejoicing when Khala hibernated. Fighting with me constantly to let the forum die. Repeatedly asking me to report Khala even after I'd fallen asleep.

Also whilst we are on the subject, Vijay if you remember end of March D3vil forwarded me a Legal Notice of Defamation case against Supari Khala which I sent you on his request? You were busy with the Easter egg comp and said you will get back to me. I don't know whether you had a chance to look into it. But I guess don't worry about it now. They are the best of friends again.

Devil calls everyone jobless, where as some of us are far more career successful than a worker in a small corner dentistry.

Grumpy

Instead you turned your own narrative. Showed them what you wanted.

Nothing of the positive I said about them.

D3vil, sups ask me I'll send you the stuff I said.

Plus you falsely accused me openly for saying something negative about another member.. when all I said was that member likes u.

I'm glad u guys came here and posted this.

Vijay is aware I'm very Grumpy at the moment.

And now he sees the hate I face from you all for himself.

Grumpy I have not consented to you sharing my emails amongst your friends. My email is a sensitive data and you could be compromising my safety.

Anyone sharing anything without my consent will be reported to the correct media handlers.

I do give you consent to share what you need for your case against me to Vijay. I trust Vijay.

In the same fashion do I have your consent too?

However, Vijay/Jayshree as board members of the Ltd corp, pls see the abuse I was given recently. Should any member be having such hatred on a youth media networking source?

Ps. Yes Grumpy we are not friends, and I don't want your name near me, let alone on my display next to MY name. So pls give me and my ego some credit. It is there bec it is not UR name.

.

And Happy Birthday Khala and Wishing you a Lovely and Happy Life

Thanks you all for your time and attention

Thank you D3vil, Supari and Grumpy.

You have backed my words with your actions.

Pls see... how much hate Supari and Grumpy show me on the forum. Accusations and attacks, name calling and defamation. False informations. Personalised attacks.

Those supporting against me do not understand, that indirectly they are supporting the actual bullies. They are paving way for gang ups.

It's a good thing I have thick skin, but there are younger members who face this daily.

I could bring a truckload of these to your door... but I'm graceful, I do not do such cries. However it is unfortunate and below my standard to come this far and bring such things into the open. I'm embarrased on their behalf.

^^^Vijay, I cannot quote the above essay by the member Carisma2 because as you know this member was blocked by me in March of 2023. Those screenshots shared by Carisma2 above were posted on the forum by me and Grumpydwarf. Those are forum posts, all public. None of those were private. Frankly, none of the stuff she posted above is relevant to this issue. Those posts in the screen shots were trashed by the moderators of BWF. Nothing more, nothing less. Dragging up reported/deleted/trashed posts does nothing. There is no conspiracy.

Carisma2 is simply using this thread to play victim and shift the narrative when it is clear as daylight she’s abusing rules of the forum and misusing the display name feature every single day.

Here are the facts. Carisma2 changes her display name daily to attack Grumpydwarf. The entire forum has seen this and many of us have reported her to the moderator. Yet, nothing is done about it because moderators do not have the authority to change display names.

Minionite the moderator told me her hands are tied and only you could handle this issue. She assured me she contacted you regarding this. I believe her. However, this bullying is getting out of hand and I thought it would be best to post it on this thread since it’s relevant to this thread. This is the only reason why I posted this issue on this thread instead of BWF. I have zero interest in anything else.

Carisma2 is gleefully misusing YOUR new feature to take digs at members because she knows moderators of Bollywood forum cannot stop her from doing it. One of your posts on here said you installed this feature to make IF more fun and more inclusive. However, this member Carisma2 is clearly abusing your feature. Please do something about it. Thank you!

Originally posted by: carisma2

Lol...

Are U guys for real?

I'm Grumpy for reasons best known to me, Vijay and Minionite.

Snitch, liar... those are the names you gave me... so why do you have a problem seeing them on my display?

Do not diagnose yourselves to what I write. It's paranoia. Grumpy is a word, anyone can use any word.

Next week I was gonna be DevilishWitch.

Now can I ask for D3vils consent as he may demand the rights of the word devil-ish.

D3vil, Supari, Grumpy.

Grumpy you got angry coz I didn't support you against my friend. Only because I've not said anything about it isn't an excuse for ppl to spread things about me. I believed you were in the wrong that time and I couldn't take a stand for you. Normally I have always been there for you.

When you told me FK is FO... u know who I stopped communication with her despite her being very nice to me.

Yes d3vil told me that about you and khala. I Didn't want you getting misled and in trouble coz that time u were super angry.

Vijay.. I really turned bwf into a nice place. I can send you details which show D3vil rejoicing when Khala hibernated. Fighting with me constantly to let the forum die. Repeatedly asking me to report Khala even after I'd fallen asleep.

Also whilst we are on the subject, Vijay if you remember end of March D3vil forwarded me a Legal Notice of Defamation case against Supari Khala which I sent you on his request? You were busy with the Easter egg comp and said you will get back to me. I don't know whether you had a chance to look into it. But I guess don't worry about it now. They are the best of friends again.

Devil calls everyone jobless, where as some of us are far more career successful than a worker in a small corner dentistry.

Grumpy

Instead you turned your own narrative. Showed them what you wanted.

Nothing of the positive I said about them.

D3vil, sups ask me I'll send you the stuff I said.

Plus you falsely accused me openly for saying something negative about another member.. when all I said was that member likes u.

I'm glad u guys came here and posted this.

Vijay is aware I'm very Grumpy at the moment.

And now he sees the hate I face from you all for himself.

Grumpy I have not consented to you sharing my emails amongst your friends. My email is a sensitive data and you could be compromising my safety.

Anyone sharing anything without my consent will be reported to the correct media handlers.

I do give you consent to share what you need for your case against me to Vijay. I trust Vijay.

In the same fashion do I have your consent too?

However, Vijay/Jayshree as board members of the Ltd corp, pls see the abuse I was given recently. Should any member be having such hatred on a youth media networking source?

Ps. Yes Grumpy we are not friends, and I don't want your name near me, let alone on my display next to MY name. So pls give me and my ego some credit. It is there bec it is not UR name.

.

And Happy Birthday Khala and Wishing you a Lovely and Happy Life

Thanks you all for your time and attention

Thank you D3vil, Supari and Grumpy.

You have backed my words with your actions.

Pls see... how much hate Supari and Grumpy show me on the forum. Accusations and attacks, name calling and defamation. False informations. Personalised attacks.

Those supporting against me do not understand, that indirectly they are supporting the actual bullies. They are paving way for gang ups.

It's a good thing I have thick skin, but there are younger members who face this daily.

I could bring a truckload of these to your door... but I'm graceful, I do not do such cries. However it is unfortunate and below my standard to co kime this far and bring such things into the open. I'm embarrased on their behalf.

Now who is whining? 🤔

Cos apparently complaining to mods and Vijay about something comes under whining and used for taking digs on that person.

P.s. - @ Cari - couldn't quote that person as apparently I'm blocked by them hence quoting you as you were witness to that uncalled for attack on me

Originally posted by: NathuPaapi

Now who is whining? 🤔

Cos apparently complaining to mods and Vijay about something comes under whining and used for taking digs on that person.

Talking about bullying.

Vijay you might remember when a certain member posted screenshots of their dms in a thread to show how they were being abused and harassed by an mid. At that time I requested you to introduce the feature of making the dms buddy only as an option, which I'm glad and grateful that you did.

However the irony is that the same person is now liking posts of newbie members (obviously MIDs) bullying, mocking and harassing Carisma and me, the same person who stood by their side when they were being abused & harassed by mid.

And then they have the audacity to come here and talk about bullying and what not.

Vijay, just FYI, just cos of some people's bullying, ganging up and abuse we had to shift our happy place - the singing thread into a private forum. The same people who encouraged or passively supported those mids are now playing victim here and blaming others.

I'm out of this as I've given up all hopes now. I'm just here to have a good time with my friends who are not on any other sm platform. Rest all I can't be bothered about. Seen everything now.