Why Blood Is Not Everything

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Posted: 7 years ago
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Mothers. Sisters. Daughters.

The three most important role that anyone with X chromosome creates. Incidentally, the three most important roles where you are have to be sharing blood, to even form these bonds. No matter how much you love your husband, you are not his blood. But no matter how much you hate your mother, sister, daughter you have the connection that is literally inborn. This incredible story gives us Mothers, Sisters, Daughters.


Bound by blood. And, true to its name of Chakraview--the convoluted twists and turns of a trap, the story then twists the hell out of the concept of blood. Because it is the very blood relationships that don't work, right?


Anami and Satrupa are bound by blood, yet their relationships with each other could not be more broken. The blood connection was not strong enough for Satrupa to turn back once, to see if her daughter was alive and well.


Those nine months in the womb did not force this mother to BE a mother, to half of the children she bore. And yet, it is the Pagal Panditain, the woman who's very womb was dry of blood, who became the mother to the infant she did not bear. The true mother to Anami has been a woman who shares nothing but love, with her. And no matter what Satrupa does now, she does not deserve her daughter's love, or her forgiveness. And not bearing Anami will not stop the Panditain from getting her daughter back.


One can talk about the coincidence of Vatsalya and Anami's meeting on the Ganges river bank, her saving his life, as a blood connection. But I remember the first boy Anami actually rescued from the river. And that was Laddoo. The brother she is sister to-- little Laddoo, or the connection Laddoo feels for Anami has nothing to do with blood. And with Vatsalya, the true brother, she has shard a womb of blood with her twin and yet she senses no connection to him, watches the sun sink on his death and feels nothing more than emptiness.


That's why I think finding out who Vatsalya was will not impact Anami in any serious way, will not somehow connect her to Satrupa. Vatsalya was a stranger she met twice. She will feel sad, she will regret not knowing him. But he cannot bring out a blood bond with her, because she HAS a brother -- Laddoo. And her love for Laddoo, her concern and care for him has forced her to come to this hellhole of a house, away from her home. She has sacrificed more for Laddoo, so he can live with his parents, than she ever has for Vatsalya.


The daughter she is to the Pandit, the care, the worry this simple, good god-man feels for his non blood daughter has no parallel at all to the horrible Baldev. Anami will not let anyone speak a word about her family, the true trigger to her formidable temper is to say something to denigrate her "parents". And yet the man who's blood runs in his daughter's veins is someone Anami quite literally would be fine seeing dead in a shallow ditch somewhere. She has no sense of respect, no connection or emotion to offer Baldev--and nor does he offer anything approaching kindness, back to her.


The respect, the instinctive rage she feels for anyone speaking negatively about her Pandit is a stark contrast to the absolute contempt she feels for the man who's blood she really is. To the point where she is literally willing to fake NOT being blood to these people, to return to her adopted family.
She calls her time here, among the only five people in the world she shares blood with-- her Vanwas, her exile. Ram went on Vanwas WITH his blood, she is in exile AMONG her blood. This is a twisted version of exile--she is hoping to return to her people, who she is not related to, and away from the people she is bound by blood to. Where is her blood connection?

I love the parallels between what makes anyone family, and what makes someone "paraya" that is being illustrated here. If Lal Manzil is steeped in the aristocratic blood of these people, then Anami having been brought up literally devoid of (and away from) her blood is what has made her this strong and incredible. The story's way of saying-- sometimes blood lines are so impure, they should be rejected. The shock of the "vansh"-- literally the last of her bloodline -- unknowingly and knowingly rejecting her blood is a slap in the face of these people, who values their bloodline above all.


Hate him or love him (and I lurrvvee him!), Pujaan has run the company, and has the right to be considered for its leadership. Why should a 15 year old male still in school make final decisions for a 10,000 crore company simply because of blood? Even now, Anami does not deserve to be the inheritor based only on blood-- as she has been the first to show, by rejecting the very roof over her head. Blood does not somehow magically make you competent-- Baldev being a glaring example. Nor should it give you the right over the lives of a thousand families-- as Vatsalya said. Competence and ability in Royal Steel have both come from outside the bloodline--we have Satrupa, and Pujaan who have run the company so far, dadaji being a figurehead, and neither are blood.


Under the guise of a serial we are being shown a very important social message, especially for our culture-- that we should reject the outdated concept of arrogant aristocracy, class-ism based on people's birth and caste, and not their natures and their actions. Satrupa is fated to fail, not because Anami is not her child, but because her rationale is not true. Blood does not make bonds stronger. Blood is not a magical way to get respect, love, money or power.

Man...what a show!
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Posted: 7 years ago
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Love your writeup, as usual, navin!!! 👏👏👏
I think it is Satrupa who has actually been running the company ... not Pujan, though he must be actively involved ... as much as he is permitted. Vikram Singh has twice said that Satrupa is not his daughter-in-law but his SON ... which means Satrupa has been the one actively at the head of the company since Baldev was disinherited. Which is another reason why Pujan feels slighted ... she, an outsider, was favoured over him, a cousin ... he might not be a direct relation, but he does have ties of blood, however distant.

Agree that neither Vatsalya nor Anami ... yet! ... deserve to be the head of the company ... though Vatsalya was to be figurehead more than head, under the guidance of Satrupa and Pujan. Anami currently deserves to be neither ... she is a fish out of water in these surroundings. But then Avdhoot, as shown in the episodes, is even less capable ... and far less worthy.

The rest of your post ... about Anami ... nature vs nurture 👏👏👏

Am so happy to see you on this forum! Look forward to more posts from you. 🤗
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Posted: 7 years ago
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Hi NM,

Superb post as always. Have you caught up on all episodes ?

What I gather from the episodes till date is Pujan did not contribute much to the company. It was Satrupa who toiled and slogged for the betterment of Royal Steel.

Coming to the point of Satrupa giving away a child. To all of us it is a heartless and selfish act. To just give away one because Guruji said so.

But just imagine for a moment that she had to choose for a very pressing reason - one among the two kids. I am not here referring to why she did not even contact Anami all these years. Just about choosing. Let us say Panditayin had to choose between Anami and Laddoo.

Who will they choose and why - is where the complexity lies. Till then in general people will be by birth good (like the Pandit family) or bad (like the Pujan family)

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Awesome Write up!

Your absolutely right that blood isn't everything. Anami's driving force is her parents who have brought her up and made her into who she is today. But the irony is that she does have some characteristics of her mother Satrupa in her. No matter how much she likes to disagree you can see the similarities.

Satrupa has been running the company and the house. It wasn't Pujan much. She mentioned this in last week's episodes where she has sacrificed so much but what has Pujan and Baldev given to the family and royal Steel, probably nothing!

Satrupa was a loving mother to Vatsalya and the complete opposite to Anami. I don't think that will change anytime soon but eventually Anami will learn to appreciate her mother the way she is. Her other mother who isn't Pagli Panditayan. I am not saying that what Satrupa did is wrong or right, justified or not. She did what she thought she had to do after she lost her first set of twins.

Its as JJ mentions above, the complexity of issues that draws people to the show. Its a superb layered show that shows everyone has a past. They aren't what they seem and the beauty lies in the enigma of these characters.

Its a superb Show. I haven't been this excited to watch anything in years in desi soap land.. 😆
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Posted: 7 years ago
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Napster, Pujan has no contribution to the running /managing of Royal Steel...Infact he has been living off his uncle Vikram all his life...he is such a low life creature that I wouldn't mind him being fed to animals and I am not being cruel 😳.
Regarding Satrupa, yes ...what she did with Anami was bad,very bad indeed but I will still wait for her reasoning to the WHYs of it ...in hindsight it's very easy to say what should or should not have been done but at THAT particular moment ,when a decision has to be made , one reacts to the best way they think possible..there are always many IFs and BUTs to any given situation ...good or bad is realised later IMO.
I think Anami will FEEL the connection with Vatsalya ...she felt it strongly when he died ( I don't know WHY you felt it was mild )... blood may not be thicker than water but it DOES leave its imprints and shows its IMPACT .
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Posted: 7 years ago
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Hello Napster!!

Wonderful post.

I have watched only first few episodes till now. Blood is definitely not everything. Satrupa and Anami are bound by blood but they are more bound by hate (from Anami's side) and greed for power from Satrupa's side. basically the base of their relationship is itself wrong. Satrupa sees Anami as a substitute to her son. As Anami rightly questioned Satrupa would never have sought her if her son was alive. Satrupa has given no evidence of her love for Anami. She needs Anami for LalMahal. She doesn't need a daughter, she needs a heir to the empire.

About Panditain, as I said in JJ's post, she is been too glorified as a mother. True she loves Anami, but here as JJ said if given a choice between anami and Laddu, who will she choose. In a moment of lapse, she did blame Anami for Laddu's drowning.

Don't think there will be any change in the dynamics between Anami and Satrupa even if she knows that Vatsalya was her brother. In fact she will hate her mother more and will blame her for his death.


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Superb post NM... 👏 👏
I love how you describe the contrast in Anami's life being with her foster parents and the real parents.. At the moment there is nothing to bond Anami with the people she is linked by birth.. and she is not ready to forgive Satrupa for abandoning her and bringing to Lal Mahal forcefully anytime soon..
this might be the punishment for Satrupa for giving up the child she has given birth to..
Keep writing dear 😊
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Good post!👏
I know that SR is doing everything for Anami now but that does't take away the fact what she did and the truth is SR would never have brought back Anami if Vats was still here. So sometime i do wonder, what is important to SR, Anami or the power?

And Anami's foster parents are the prof that there is still goodness in this world!
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I agree with you that heart relationship are powerful but you agree or not it's only suitable in reel life or ideal world or in 1-2 percent people in real life
But the truth is blood overpower everything in real life
Even here you think anami really would not get affected when something happen to satrupa or baldev now no she will clearly not
If she will go now but after sometime the news of her mother being on death bed or her father then she will not come here
Ya previously If it would be the case she would have not got affected like today she is not affected by twin brother death
But now how much she try but will not forget her parent
They will always be her part
If she really is not affected by her parent then she would be not having so much hurt why her mother left her she in the LAL Mahal would not be breaking things and throwing tantrum would not have felt bad that baldev doesn't consider her his daughter or would have not thrown attitude to him his one sentence in the start would not have affected her she would be not this much eager to know the secret of her mother room she would not have affected by satrupa one angry word
She is affected the part is she wanted always that the person who has given birth should only have nurtured her otherwise she never would have the remorse why PAGLI PANDITAYIN not given her birth
She is so much hurt that her birth parent left her she somewhere always felt great full to PAGLI PANDITAYIN she always has a debt on PAGLI PANDITAYIN as she has nurtured her
Even take the case of PAGLI PANDITAYIN does she not love LADDU more than anami if she would have really considered her own daughter she would have never uttered a word bin Maa baap ki bacchi it shows that somewhere after LADDUcame she was not able to show that right if something would have ever happened to LADDU by mistake by anami would PAGLI PANDITAYIN have not make her leave her life
Why anami not uestioned PAGLI PANDITAYIN that why you said this why you told that I am bin Maa baap ki bacchi she never ever questioned that
And about vatsalya ya when she will know that who vatsalya was she would get very much affected and I feel that she will stay here even after DNA test result would be negative only for giving punishment to true culprit
She got very much connected to him as they were twins not only brother sister she got that much affected yes that she thought about him when going to sleep she preserved the thread given by vatsalya when it broken it was that twin bond ya medical science even is not aware of that what actually twin share between if there was no bound then vatsalya would have never said that he feel complete whenever he come to Banaras she would have not felt that something she has lost after her brother death and many more
If today she will come to know that the person she met that day is no more she will feel sorry but when she will know he was her twin brother than she will just feel what a sister feel for brother loss
I have seen in real life that's why I am saying this no adopted child I have seen has no question regarding their birth parent how much they are loved irrespective of that
My father friend adopted a daughter who was birth daughter of his brother she was pampered alot I have grown up with her but when she grown up and came to knew the truth it devasted her although she refused to admit the birth parent her parent but she was affected
Only I have seen one case and there it sustained only because they both were adopted child and the couple was not having own child
Evening real life when your some uncle love you most treated always like your own child if they were not having child then even you will not be able to assert or feel that right which you will feel with your parent I have seen this case even
I say I love my cousin sibling equal to my brother but when I consider this fact deeply then I feel no I love my brother more than anything how much I try to love them equally but is not successful
My parent one wrong decision I feel hurt I question them I hurt them but never ever feel same when my chote papa does the same although I am more vocal and close to him from childhood age as my father is army although I am not attached with my father much but I always consider certain right on him
BUTTOM LINE I WANT TO SAY ONLY ONE THING IN IDEAL LIFE HOW MUCH YOU THINK THAT HEART RELATION IS POWERFUL BLOOD IS NIT THIKER BUT IN REAL WORLDIT MATTER MOST ONLY 1-2 PERCENT PEOPLE REALLY ARE GENUINE
Heart relationship always ask us to respect the other oblige the other for what they have done for you but heart relationship give you right to assert your right on the birth parent how much you want but you can't let go off the days when you spent 9 month in your mother womb you can't dismiss the blood of DNA flowing in your body it is always a part of your life how much you try you can't erase it and this is reality
Anami is always grateful have a lot respect but she somewhere feel that she is devoid she want to assert that right which she somewhere lacked after knowing the truth
I always have planned that I will adopt a child and give birth to a child as I want to experience that 9 month of pregnancy but after seeing the condition of some adopted children around me i fear of society and more than that of myself will society ever do justice to that adopted child will they consider him or her mind will I be able to justice with it
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Posted: 7 years ago
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A nice write up there napster
Loved the parallel with respect to Anami's vanvas amongst her own blood..coz she doesn't consider any of them her own
She is doing all this for the family that raised her..even though she isn't their own blood

I do feel realising that Vatsalya was her brother..is going to have an impact on Anami..will probably be one of the reasons she stays back..
In all likelihood it won't change how she sees Satrupa..heck for all you know it makes her more bitter towards Satrupa seeing as how much she cared for Vatsalya but didn't even bother checking on the daughter she ditched..

I don't hate Pujan..he makes the dynamics interesting..of course he is evil to have plotted and murdered his nephew for the property and business he feels should be his..but is there any merit to his claims
It's been alluded quite a few times that it was satrupa who basically helped Vikramaditya the most to keep the family and business running smoothly
Pujan must have done his bit to help..and to be in the good bbooks..but all that was because he coveted and expected everything to be his and not because he wanted to help..

However it's an interesting debate in general (not particularly related to Pujan).. as to who inherits family business..someone who hasn't done anything but gets everything coz he/she happen to be born in the owners family. Or a relative who has worked hard to run and expand the business..

The USP of the show is the dynamics between different relationships..the have so many shades to them unlike most other shows where things are black and white with only flimsy misunderstanding being the reason for twisted drama

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