why did diya give lecture to mohana

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Posted: 7 years ago
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ofcourse mohana is little bit villianous and yash is diya best friend i say little bit because unlike KM and her son and daughter in law atleast she did not do multiple attempts to murder ...all mohana is doing is kitchen politics as of now.
but i felt diya should not have given that lecture abut love to mohana

affter al if mohana did not help diya ..diya would have been in jail even if all of a sudden super intelligent ratan tried his best

also nor diya nor ratan formally thanked mohanaa after winnig the court case nor mentioned about mohana help in front of reporters ..both ratan and diya mentioned each other name in front of reporters as though they did all this by themselves ..

that was certainly wrong ..

think from mohana perspective how she feels after that ..

every one has different perspective of love .diya has her own views about love i.e love requires you not to chang the other peron ..love make su happy when other person is hapy etc ..

some persona might think differently about love ..who is she to give lectue about love to mohana ..

even though some one is r best friend there is some personal space naa..u should not cross that ..givig lecture to frisnds lover is certaily crossung that space ..

u can give lecture to u r friend ..no problem but giving lectue to friends lover is not good ..yash did not tell diya that he is suffering bcos of mohana //hen diya just imagining that how can she lecture mohana

even lets think diya assumption is true that yash is suffering ..then acording to diya logic on love ..yash might be sacrificing to see happiness in mohana eyes ..is it not what diya lectured ..u will do any thing for u r partners happiness ..she is seen asking kalimaa to give her pain and give ratan hapiness.

even mohana asked him not to resign job and ysh said i will resign for u r happiness ..

all these things subtly will change yash opinion on diya and make her bad in yash eyes def i dont see any thing wrong if mohana gets angry on diya after this

imagine some ratan friend for eg meethi character ..i certainly feel that she will become ratan friend .. giving lecture to diya on how she should behave in love and how she behaving not good i.e they have their own views on love right




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Posted: 7 years ago
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Wow Varuni... for once in a lifetime, I actually agree with you here...😆
You are right.. Diya did cross some lines by her lecture on love to Mohana.. Even i thought about it and was like...D'uh! Not a cool move!
I guess shes just soo protective about Yash's feelings and his happiness, that she couldnt stop herself from saying all that. But still.. It was not a very nice move if we look from Mohana's perspective.
And about formally thanking Mohana, yea.. even that is right. Even when Yash did not acknowledge Mohana's help in front of the reporters, I kinda felt bad for Mohana (Record...I hate her waise)... But then he did thank her in private and that doused my annoyance...but you are right, Ratan and Diya never formally thanked her.. but considering how Mohana is, I dont think it would have made a lot of difference anyway...because she would have become DiRa's enemy no matter what because of her possessiveness for Yash. And Yash did show to her time and again that his relationship with DiRa is more important for him than anything else...and that has made Mohana very insecure. Despite my thorough dislike for the girl, if I try to analyze her, I can find easily that her insecurities are very deep rooted from the time her own mom left her and all... Hence shes this posessive and dominating freak now.. 😕
I repeat...Mohana is not someone i would like to give any benefit of the doubt... But your points are valid here Varuni..
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Posted: 7 years ago
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yes mohana has her own set of insecurities ..yash actions initially increased her insecurities ..
it seems yash a little bit changed now ..he is calming mohana insecurities at this point of time diya lecturig is bad again she raised mohana security

irrespective of what mohana does thanking her would hav calmed down her a little bit but diya did not do that and now lecturing ..all these r like putting ghee in fire which already exists

u need to calm down the fire but not put ghee i it
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Posted: 7 years ago
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😆 Where did the sun rise from today? Howcome I am agreeing with you here also...Varuni? 😆😆
No , jokes apart, you are actually right here.. Dushman or no dushman, if someone favours you, you are bound to thank them.. So yea.. DiRa should have thanked her...
But then even Mohana should remember that it was Diya only who made Yash realize how much he loved her even after breaking the engagement. It was Diya only who had gone to meet her and it was because of Diya's efforts that Yash was ready to believe Mohana. Even Ratan was not into this plan with Diya, but she herself went there to see of Mohana has true feelings for Yash or not. So if Mohana did a favor to DiRa, Diya also had done a huge favor for her... What do you think Varuni?
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Posted: 7 years ago
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Varuni I agree with your all word especially about crossing the line. Though Diya knows that she should not interfere in Yana(Yash-Mohona) personal life and tells that to Ratan while applying haldi in his back. But Diya said those words to Mohona. Look at Diya and Ratan also. Their perspective about love is totally different. Though Mohona's perspective about love can be wrong(according to Diya) but still it is her life and her point of view.

Another thing is also true that DiRa didn't said thank you to Mohona cause DiRa was too busy in their life and at the end of the day we live in our own life not in others. So if Mohona is getting hurt she has enough reason to feel that.

Above all it is not Diya and Ratan whom should be blamed for Mohona's evilness. DiRa can be called bali ka bakra here. As it all started cause of Yash. Remember that day when Yash and Mohona was on Dinner date and Diya called him to remove lipstick mark from Ratan's face? Yash didn't said a word to Mohona and rushed from the spot. Mohona felt very angry. And even in real life if a girls fiance actually rushes from middle of their dinner date and goes to solve his best friends problem who won't be angry? If Mohona thinks Yash and Diya's relationship in the wrong way still it won't be incorrect for her to think like that. Another thing is Yash is not fully truthful towards Mohona about his past. Mohona opened all her past infront of Yash but he didn't do that. All relationship comes with a very good story and Yash didn't told her the full story of DiYaRa. So, by hearing the half story Mohona is making mess with Di-Ya -Ra relationship. Again she can not be fully blamed for that.

I really can not believe that I have said all these words about Mohona. 😆
Thank you Varuni for making me think about the story from different point of view. 😃
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Posted: 7 years ago
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yes yash is the cause of mohana insecurities initially ..he did not open up his past ..also leaving dinne date ,cancellg engagement etc he shud never have done that ..
fire is already there that fire is mohana insecurity.
dira or yash are not the cause of it ..her mom i the caus eof it

just yash actions in the beginning and dira not thanking .(.being busy in life is lame excuse .)

at the end of day arpita is her mom and mohana sent her to jail in saving diya

for a huge help like that diya should have said thanks ..mohana felt very bad when dira did not mention her name in front of reporters and congratulated each other instead .very bad deed from dira that day in front of reporters ..

and this lecture totally unnecessary and unwanted

yes diya also did a favor to mohana by trying to bring yash and her together
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Posted: 7 years ago
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If Mohana had not gone against her mom & brother, it would have been highly impossible for Ratan to save Diya. Forger about Dira, Yash didn't give credit to Mohana for taking this step. I felt bad for Mohana at that time. Yes, Diya should not cross her limits as a friend, though she could figure out from Yash's face that he is not happy to quit police job. However, as of now, what Mohana is doing is not right. She should not try to change Yash if she really loves him.

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