Before succumbing to Bhed-Chaal

While, typically, I neither practice nor preach anthropomorphism, I'll beg your indulgence in this one instance of failure.

'Bhed Chaal' ... there's been an assertion that I'm bent on picking a fight ... that's oh so close to the cusp of absurdity, that it may topple over a la Humpty-Dumpty ... I'll tell you why ... in just a bit ... there's also been an exhortation to cease responding since I am clearly starved for attention ... in other circumstances I should defer to the superior knowledge of these (perhaps) self-anointed psychologists ... but I really must assure you that I do know myself better than my detractors ...

It is often the case that a contrarian and his/her views are anathema ... 'we have no need of anything you have to say ... begone, scat, shoo!!' ... has happened with surprising regularity in human history ...

First - the fight part. Has anything I've said led anyone to believe irrationality to be an aspect I display? Come, come, surely not! Don't people participate to seek and gravitate towards the like-minded? Haven't all you undying fans been similarly motivated to converse? Well ... surprise! That's what prompted me too! And in this I don't especially mean locating people who are on the same wavelength as I am ... au contraire ... it's to seek those who are willing to communicate such that we may each know another better, and, where needed, expand our horizons (in that, I am a perpetual motion machine - ordinarily something that defies all known laws of physics) ... I've tried this experiment and proven myself right ... picked up some wonderful people on the streets of IF ... on that other forum ... I tell ya - I was shore floored when I discovered them gals ... now, we speak on a daily basis ... over the phone ... over the internet ... webcams and all ... wonders of wonder! Hallelujah! And all that rot!

Second - the stifle response part ... OK ... you could all respond to that by being unresponsive to me ... wherein lies the benefit pray tell? Why would one exhort others to be silent anyhow? Should that not be left as a personal choice? Reminds me of an elementary school playground ... 'don't speak to her, she's mean!' ... at least 2 amongst you have had the wherewithal to at least be defense counsels - one being the young actor himself! Awesome! In both cases, I hope I've been able to show you my zany side ...

C'mon ... you can talk to me ... my bark's infinitely nastier than my bite ... it takes a lot for me to bite ... a whole lot!! It's happened ... but that time the stuff had toppled over that precipice of absurdity ... and lay shattered never to be put back together again ... not by all the King's horses ... not by all the King's men ...

Hey, i liked the way you penned down your thoughts, and the frustration... hmmm sometimes replies dont come out the way they are desoired possibly. But whatever i shall levae that to you. Welcome and have a good time :)

@SValeCalgal: Honestly I don't think you're getting the basic point here....it's not about ppl following a 'bhhed chaal' and just talking to like-minded ppl....differences in opinion otherwise also exist on this forum...but there is surely a better way to put it across......

I think this person summed it up best in her response to your earlier post....

Originally posted by: cloudz

Anyway as an aside - while it is great to voice opinions because that's what a forum ultimately is (rather than a temple for people to worship something), and I do appreciate your wit, is it really necessary to use a condescending tone while responding to others? I'm not too frequent a visitor to the forums apart from trying to find those youtube links so I'm not sure if I have the right to question the tone someone uses (and i apologize for that). But well, it's just a thought.

You don't have to love this show but surely you don't need to sound so patronizing towards the ppl who may happen to like it either.

And it's rather amusing that given that these are probably the only shows on TV right now that are NOT so over the top filled with ridiculous nonsense, your continued insistence on dismissing these shows as if they have no redeeming qualities whatsoever surprises me to say the least. Oh well....as it's been said before....to each their own.

and the frustration

@SValeCalgal: I'm not smarting about anything.....if discussions are what you are aiming for in this forum, then all I can say is that it would make it easier for everyone if you tried being more approachable.....I don't like the characters of Sona-Mona or Mahi's mom in MW either but that hasn't inspired me to make posts continuously dismissing these shows as a whole.....

Maybe it's just me, but I don't really understand your sense of humor or the tangents you keep on taking off on.....I'm just stating this honestly....which is why like I said earlier it's better if I bow out from this discussion.....I only posted to clarify what I think is your misunderstanding about this forum's supposed "bhhed chaal"

Sadly, none of these options are open to us.

I'm not smarting about anything

Ever heard of being too wordy? You're a victim. Simplicity is underrated, but you should definitely try it out. Maybe you'll receive more responses about the show, its plot, and characters and have an actual discussion related to it rather than gathering up posts that make it seem as if you are fond of hearing your own voice.