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Posted: 9 years ago
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Originally posted by: Mahi78



As a big time RK fans we all think that Ananaya was harsh on Kabir, but we r forgetting that Kabir could have told her the truth before someone else, he should have told her before entering into a relationship with her. Every time he tells her only when forced by Sherya, and the moment he saw Sherya and her taunts about the gift to him he should have guessed the plan and should have told her the truth the same night or even after the first msg but he still delayed it and hence payed for it.



That's absolutely bang on. If I was Ananya I would be sick of these partial revelations. I would have kept thinking is it anything else he's hiding from me. Kabir needs to come clean on everything- the facts, the feelings, the guilt, regret everything. Their relationship will not be able to survive another blow, Ananya can't keep forgiving every time.

But even for Anu I would say she needs to realise that breaking off communication and tantrums every time are not the done thing. Kabir is not going to keep running after her always, he's a human being and not a Demi-God and is bound to make mistakes. She cannot be so uncommunicative and harsh all the time. She needs to listen, understand and then judge.
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Posted: 9 years ago
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We are beating a dead horse

This mess is entirely Kabir's fault, he hid such a important truth and even planned on getting married without telling her. I defended ananya at the beginning and even expressed my anger and disappointment with kabir. that being said, Ananya's highhanded attitude did not go down well with me. She is allowed to be angry and even slap him on an impulse but all those accusations could be avoided, they were nauseating to hear.


First of all, anger always subsides. After one has time to process everything, they look at the bigger picture and try to rationalize the situation. which ananya never did. i would never be able to throw such terrible accusations at kabir if I loved him. it is one thing to be angry at someone but it is a another thing to turn someone into a soul-selling monster. Accusing kabir of being RK's friend or Using him to climb the success ladder was brutal, at one point ananya sounded vindictive, not hurt. I have always maintained that I'm ok with her anger because it is justified, but those baseless accusations could not have come from someone who loved kabir. In addition, writers completely failed to show her inner turmoil, they could have depicted Ananya's confusion between her loyalties towards her father and her love for kabir. If they showed that, then a lot of people would be sympathetic towards her today.


so yes her anger is justified but writers went overboard with all those accusations.
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Posted: 9 years ago
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Originally posted by: pomegranate

We are beating a dead horse

This mess is entirely Kabir's fault, he hid such a important truth and even planned on getting married without telling her. I defended ananya at the begin and even expressed my anger and disappoint with kabir. that being said, Ananya's highhanded attitude did not go down well with me. She is allowed to be angry and even slap him on an impulse but all those accusations could be avoided, they were nauseating to hear.


First of all, anger always subsides. After one has time to process everything, they look at the bigger picture and try to rationalize the situation. which ananya never did. i would never be able to throw such terrible accusations at kabir if I loved him. it is one thing to be angry at someone but it is a another thing to turn someone into a soul-selling monster. Accusing kabir of being RK's friend or Using him to climb the success ladder was brutal, at one point ananya sounded vindictive, not hurt. I have always maintained that I'm ok with her anger because it is justified, but those baseless accusations could not have come from someone who loved kabir at one point. In addition, writers completely failed to show her inner turmoil, they could have depicted Ananya's confusion between her loyalties towards her father and her love for kabir. If they showed that, then a lot of people would be sympathetic towards her today.


so yes her anger is justified but writers went overboard with all those accusations.

bang on..and ppl are taking criticism of these as Ananya bashing ..which is not true...my problem was what she said and way she said...bit guess what we will see is Kabir apologising to kashyaps and promising to bring out the truth...good...who cares..damage is already done tje way Anu behaved ...worst was accusing him of doi g all this for money and selling off himself
Agrre with you if they had showed her inner turmoil...it woulnt have been this bad...and final.blow was she telli g office staff that this man is responsible for my father's mureder...really...
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Posted: 9 years ago
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Originally posted by: sonyjknum

bang on..and ppl are taking criticism of these as Ananya bashing ..which is not true...my problem was what she said and way she said...bit guess what we will see is Kabir apologising to kashyaps and promising to bring out the truth...good...who cares..damage is already done tje way Anu behaved ...worst was accusing him of doi g all this for money and selling off himself

Agrre with you if they had showed her inner turmoil...it woulnt have been this bad...and final.blow was she telli g office staff that this man is responsible for my father's mureder...really...


Ananya only that kabir witnessed Sk's murder and did nothing about it for years. however she concluded the following
RG and kabir are friends, He sold the evidence to buy a luxury home for shreya, and that RG helped him become successful- don't even get me started on that public humiliation😕 I could not understand how she can make him out to be such a scum. anger is not an excuse. She was just being nearsighted, irrational and overly -emotional.
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Posted: 9 years ago
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Originally posted by: pomegranate


Ananya only that kabir witnessed Sk's murder and did nothing about it for years. however she concluded the following
RG and kabir are friends, He sold the evidence to buy a luxury home for shreya, and that RG helped him become successful- don't even get me started on that public humiliation😕 I could not understand how she can make him out to be such a scum. anger is not an excuse. She was just being nearsighted, irrational and overly -emotional.

dont worry we are already labelled insensitive blind RK fans...if only all looks the entire picture...we are sensitive towards Anu's feelings...but guess what we might get on Mon is Kabir doing the apology bit...and he should for keeping truth away but so do kashyaps ...
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Posted: 9 years ago
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Very nice post Mahi.
Yes many Will say that Ananya should not be given but I too don't agree with that.

All the points you have written are any on Dear.
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Posted: 9 years ago
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Originally posted by: sonyjknum

dont worry we are already labelled insensitive blind RK fans...if only all looks the entire picture...we are sensitive towards Anu's feelings...but guess what we might get on Mon is Kabir doing the apology bit...and he should for keeping truth away but so do kashyaps ...



I agre to both of you, both are at fault in this situation, both need to apologise the other😊

You see in our anger we sometimes utter the words which we shouldn't and that too we take that sort of Liberty whom we love the most as we know they will forgive us no matter what. That is what Ananya is doing.😊
Edited by Mahi78 - 9 years ago
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Posted: 9 years ago
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Nice update. I agree with you too.
Hope they will show something interesting on Monday.
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Posted: 9 years ago
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Originally posted by: tingding



That's absolutely bang on. If I was Ananya I would be sick of these partial revelations. I would have kept thinking is it anything else he's hiding from me. Kabir needs to come clean on everything- the facts, the feelings, the guilt, regret everything. Their relationship will not be able to survive another blow, Ananya can't keep forgiving every time.

But even for Anu I would say she needs to realise that breaking off communication and tantrums every time are not the done thing. Kabir is not going to keep running after her always, he's a human being and not a Demi-God and is bound to make mistakes. She cannot be so uncommunicative and harsh all the time. She needs to listen, understand and then judge.


100%agree
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Posted: 9 years ago
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Originally posted by: pomegranate

We are beating a dead horse

This mess is entirely Kabir's fault, he hid such a important truth and even planned on getting married without telling her. I defended ananya at the beginning and even expressed my anger and disappointment with kabir. that being said, Ananya's highhanded attitude did not go down well with me. She is allowed to be angry and even slap him on an impulse but all those accusations could be avoided, they were nauseating to hear.


First of all, anger always subsides. After one has time to process everything, they look at the bigger picture and try to rationalize the situation. which ananya never did. i would never be able to throw such terrible accusations at kabir if I loved him. it is one thing to be angry at someone but it is a another thing to turn someone into a soul-selling monster. Accusing kabir of being RK's friend or Using him to climb the success ladder was brutal, at one point ananya sounded vindictive, not hurt. I have always maintained that I'm ok with her anger because it is justified, but those baseless accusations could not have come from someone who loved kabir. In addition, writers completely failed to show her inner turmoil, they could have depicted Ananya's confusion between her loyalties towards her father and her love for kabir. If they showed that, then a lot of people would be sympathetic towards her today.


so yes her anger is justified but writers went overboard with all those accusations.


Agree with you

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