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Mehek25

@Mehek25

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Posted: 9 years ago

#11

@Geetha...

Wonderfully written geetha...

Who is to blame is a very difficult question to answer...

Both could be said to be right in their own way...

Anaya felt betrayed by kabir because he had hidden such a big truth from her...which could be justifiable...

As for kabir...difficult to say if what he did was right or not till the reason behind it is revealed...but knowing the cvs and the show's track record I'm quite sure they'll show a strong solid reason behind his action...or if that's not possible he'll bring the culprits to book and thereby justice will prevail for the late SK...

One more thing I agree with Sharada...

No matter how hurt, upset or angry one is there can be no justification for slapping someone...if a man does it we call him a woman-beater...then why should a woman do so and get away with it...

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IAmNotActive

@IAmNotActive

Voyager

Posted: 9 years ago

#12

Originally posted by: -sharada-

My issue with the current track is not in terms of the characters and/or if they are perfect or imperfect.

My issue is only in terms of the following:

1. Do the sacred rituals to seek blessings, and then break the relation next morning. I am not able to relate to this. Maybe I am too old-fashioned.

2. Slapping is not on. Being angry or emotional is no justification for that kind of outrageous behavior.

Just imagine, Kabir slapping Ananya. Guy would have been crucified all the way to helll and back, with no scope for redemption.

Heck, some of us had a problem because he gripped Shreya's hand too hard when he shook hands with her. So, there is no way we would have forgiven Kabir for slapping ananya because he was angry or emotional.

Don't you think the rule that applies to the guy, should apply to the girl, too? Slapping is wrong, it is wrong. Period. Giving justification in terms of being angry or emotional is not going to change that fundamental fact.

3. They could have shown the leads to have tiffs in a relation, but throwing away the engagement ring is a cowardly act, to say the least.

No body can be practical, and mature at all times. But, at the same time, being angry or emotional are not justifications for the lack of some basic manners or good behavior.

Sharda, I do agree with you that we have double standards for men and women, but that's how it is. Probably we still somehwre think women are weaker sex when it comes to physical strength and hence need to be protected..

Ok, let me ask anther question.. Many of us have brothers.. Haven't we had fist fights with our brothers when we were kids? I have a brother who is about 3 years older than me, me & my bro had worst case of fist fights until he was in college, and I was in high school.. But was it domestic violence, Nooo.. Was I abused because I was a girl child? no... did my parents turn a blind eye to our fights? Yes, but only after they realised their intervention worsened the fights.. The most important part here is, I gave as good as I got, my bro could never subdue me by his fists,..

But coming to my same bro, if he hits his wife the same he hit me when we were younger, will it be seen in the same light? No, that would become a domestic violence, a physical abuse,, why so? In what way a sister is better or worse than wife? Somethings are unexplainable.. And the difference between a woman hitting a man and a man hitting the woman is unexplainable too,.

As you yourself said , no one can be mature or practical at all times, Ananya needs time to get over this phase and start thinking clearly..

Edited by Geetha_R - 9 years ago

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IAmNotActive

@IAmNotActive

Voyager

Posted: 9 years ago

#13

Originally posted by: IMAnam
The answer to your title is "NONe of them"
This post is so so on point
after reading only yesterday's epi updates that Ananya slapped Kabir I understood that why she did it that's a very on the spot apt. reaction by her it's about her father no wonder the girl won't listen to anything right now.
She's been given a series of shocks very cleverly. But the mail itself stinks it does gives the info about SK's murder and they used SK's mail account to gain her trust it was the bait on the hook and they got her trapped but if she'd take a look at the mail itself she'll know that she's been played (The repoter in her must do that soon but she'll take time which is quite natural I don't blame her for behaving the way she did)
And Kabir Sharma definitely has a valid reason for keeping everything a secret which will be revealed to us in a while. I've faith in the man just like you said he's never compromised on truth. I know he'll win but I guess we'll have to wait until he does emerge as a hero again. And I have faith in KaYa too they'll rise back strong.
This is one hell of a post you've explained KaYa and K A so extensively apt. that you deserve all the cheers loved your take.

Thank you for agreeing with me... Yes, Kabir and Ananya would emerge stronger at the end of this ordeal, both as individual and also as couple..

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IAmNotActive

@IAmNotActive

Voyager

Posted: 9 years ago

#14

Originally posted by: violette
Who is at fault u ask? We!😆

Jitno ne twists ko over analyse kiya aur story mein logic dhoondne ki genuine koshish ki vo sir phod rahe honge..😆😆😆

I know its not tht bad. Its satisfying and convenient bt its same old predictable stuff. The only consolation is KaYa chemistry, some very fine acting, and some really unique characters and yes some amazing scenes and dialogues.😳

Tht definitely makes Reporters different and watchable.

Viloette, I have a feeling it has become predictable only because the spoilers about this track was out some 10 days back and we had too much time to speculate and think of various scenarios, thats somehow made us expect something out of the box, but the creatives chose to keep it simple.

The one thing I noticed about this show, their concept is not unique it is their handling that makes the difference..

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Lizzie

@LizzieBennet

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Posted: 9 years ago

#15

I'm not taking any sides here... while Kabir may have been justified in keeping quiet for fear of his family's well-being and later Ananya's, Ananya could also be justified in hitting out (and I don't mean physically 😆) at Kabir in an extreme reaction to his betrayal as she sees it. (BTW I found Anita's reaction of throwing the ring at Kabir's face as melodramatic and filmy as the Slapgate scene😃)

Right now Ananya is seething with anger and hurt and betrayal so I can give her the BOD of not wanting to listen to any justifications from Kabir's side. Hope she does in time (or not, as I've learned to tone down my expectations, in fact completely buried them!😆)

The only thing that's bothering me is how could Kabir pursue the relationship knowing all that he knows about Ananya's dad. I had mentioned a conflict of interest and I still stand by it. How could his conscience allow him to take the relationship further? And it was him that confessed first, its not even that Ananya pursued him!

If the CVs had decided not to have KaYa together until the end for this reason, it would make more sense to me...Kabir holding out on getting together with Ananya while silently loving her and suffering, and Ananya being hurt and puzzled and we, as viewers having the angst element too. It would have been win-win😆😛 and a lot more believable. Instead of this mess right now. Of course its entirely probable the CVs didn't plan on all this back then, this is just another supposedly upping-TRP-twist.

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Rabzonedge

@rabzonedge

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Posted: 9 years ago

#16

Absolutely loved ur post... u analyse so well... hats off ...i m among nonjudgemntal forumite... i love both...

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Moner_Radio

@Moner_Radio

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Posted: 9 years ago

#17

geeta:

if i have to answer your question in one word, it would be "circumstances". circumstances forced Kabir to withdraw from the case years back, circumstances made Ananya hit out at Kabir, both physically and emotionally, today. and yes, both are correct in their respective places and POVs. coz if Kabir had hidden the truth out of concern for Ananya and the Kashyaps (although it was a very foolish thing to do on his part), for Ananya he fell off the Mt.Everest position of trust and faith she used to put him on till date with his one confession. IMO for her, it was more difficult to digest than the news of her dad's death, and hence the slap " how dare you fall off the pedestal i put you on?" now she needs some time to cope up with this jolt, before getting her thoughts clear again and understand Kabir's POV.till then we'll have to wait.

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