Kabir Ananya - Restoring balance in their relation

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Posted: 10 years ago
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It is important to have a balance in a relation. No one person can be stronger than the other. Anything that tilts the balance is detrimental to the health of that relation. In the case of Kabir and Ananya, so far the balance had been heavily tilted in Ananya's favor.

Ananya
She was the innocent one who entered this relation without any baggage from the past. Kabir was and is her one and only hero. Relation with him was the first one she was ever serious about.
No body ever asked Ananya what she would do for Kabir. No one had a doubt if she would be good for Kabir. They just assumed that she would keep him happy.

Kabir
Kabir carried the excessive baggage from the past.
Kabir was the one who had to make adjustments in his life to accommodate Ananya and her family.
Kabir had to convince Ananya's mom that he would keep her daughter happy and be a good life-partner.
Kabir had to convince Richa to give a fair chance to their relation and not judge him based on his past.
Kabir had to impress upon Ronnie that he is a good guy for his best friend.
Kabir was the one who always asked for that 'one chance' - to prove himself and his love for her.
He stayed humble when he asked Ananya's mom or Richa for that one favor of giving him that one chance'.
He won them over - royally - later on, but till that happened, he was the one who was on the weaker footing in the relation.
Kabir had to put his ego aside to get their acceptance.


The balance
Now, CVs are restoring balance in their relation.😊

Finally, they showed us yesterday that there is some thing about Sudhir Kashyap that Ananya may not be too proud of.

He was the man who was accused of being responsible for the death of some children because of adulterated drugs. The allegations against her father were probably just that - allegations. They were not proved to be true. He was arrested and was later released on bail. But, he went missing soon after and never cleared his name.

These are facts which Ananya and Kabir shared. I am not going into speculation if Anurag and Monu were victims of the adulterated drugs. Maybe they were, maybe they weren't. But, either ways you look at it, now Ananya also has some blemishes which she will have to live with.

As a daughter Ananya believes the allegations against her father to be false. Her sole hope for her belief was the article written by Kabir. But, the way Kabir's bhabhi said, tumhe pata tha woh Sudhir Kashyap ki beti hai, it almost sounded like, didn't you get anyone better than SK's daugter to settle down with.

Kabir's family doesn't hold Ananya's father in high esteem. That should sound some alarm bells for their relation, especially when she said, it feels good to have relatives and friends around you.

Kabir's love is enough for Ananya to accept him with all his scars from the past. Ananya's blind trust is enough for Kabir to shower her with all the love, care and affection he possibly can.

But, it is not just about them now. Kabir's folks are also involved in their relation now.

Just as Kabir has won over her mom, now, it is for Ananya to prove to the world that she is the right partner for Kabir, in spite of being her father's daughter.

Ananya has to keep her ego aside and ask for that one chance from Kabir's brother and bhahi and maybe even Tarini, for the problems in their life which are are probably because of her father - directly or indirectly.

Ananya has to prove herself to be worthy of Kabir's love, not because of her blind trust, but in spite of it -- as this would ensure the balance in their relation to be restored.

So, this is my expectation from the upcoming track.
Ananya is going to get some major jolts now. She is going to hear some bitter truth about her father, which were kept away from her, maybe for her own good (which may or may not be true).

I am not going to speculate on what the truth is, and who all kept it away from her.

But, I will say this much. I don't think Kabir is the only one who kept the truth away from Ananya. If there is something that Kabir, Shreya, Tarini, Kabir's bother and bhabhi know, it is obvious that her mom also knows, and kept it away from her.

The way I look at it, Ananya's anger at Kabir will be not for hiding the truth, but for making her believe something else was the truth. But, in spite of her anger, I would like to see her blind trust in Kabir remain the same, as that is the foundation of their relation. (I have no doubt on Kabir's love, so not even talking about it)

Some where along the way I wish Ananya would realize that it is not just Kabir but also her mom who shielded her from reality.

That realization + jealousy because Shreya might try to get closer to Kabir would make her embark on the process of getting her relation with Kabir back on track -- with better balance.
😊

Contrary to what the villain and vamp think - with better balance, Kabir and Ananya may fight, argue, or have misunderstandings, but that will help make their relation stronger, not weaker.

Note for the vamp:
Lady, your antics fast-tracked the engagement. Please continue with your plans. Don't ever give up. We want to see Kabir Ananya married! 😊

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Posted: 10 years ago
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Sorry to disappoint you dear but the dead Sudhir kashyap is not becoming negative any day. He was the most sacred connection in KaYa bond and shall remain so. Kabirs bhabhi was concerned because already her family has suffered due to this case. Only if we we could get some more of his convo with his bhaiya bhabhi we might know if his bhabhi is also concerned about Ananya knowing truth or not.

And I think Ananya has already proved her love by accepting him with his past. And now if she's angry on him and he has to prove his love, there's no harm in it. Some lessons are learnt the hard way.
Edited by Malika - 10 years ago
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Posted: 10 years ago
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Lovely post sharada ... I do have similar feelings and yesterday I did mention this on Geethas post that I really think that Sudhir kashyap has been faulty at something may be pressurised or majburi ... donno yet but something that will hurt Ananya and makenher realize how Kabir chose her for him and can love her to this extent.
Lets wait n watch whatbthe cvs have for her. I am sure it woukd be something worth watching, Shreya might get a chotu wala sucessful but not for so long. She will fail miserably and would be asking forgiveness in tons (shayad woh bhi fake wala).
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Posted: 10 years ago
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sharada i loved your take on this. even i was thinking on the same lines.. lets see whats in store for us?//
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Posted: 10 years ago
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@-sharada- : Nice thought - balance in a relationship.
But, if Mr Kash is guilty, how is Ananya responsible for it? She didn't even know about it! So how does her apologizing bring about balance?? 😲

If it was all about Ananya knowing what her father has done and hiding it from everyone and then apologizing to Kabir's family, then there could be a balance. 😃

Otherwise, this theory may not be right! But, I liked your thinking. Very hatke 😊



-Rekha
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Posted: 10 years ago
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Frankly I don't want Mr Kashyap to be guilty..I agree with Malika that he is the most sacred connection in KaYa bond and I will like him to remain so as well..Also Kabir's bhabhi was concerned about Kabir (maybe she is aware of the danger that revolves around SK's case) but she was also genuinely warm towards Ananya (just like dada) in the end..Had she been holding any bitterness/disgust against SK and/or his family she would not have been able to be kind towards her or her family..It was clearly visible from her expression that she despises Shreya but with Ananya and Kabir she was just distant in the beginning but at the end she did appear to be pleased with their alliance irrespective of her concerns!
Edited by idonkno - 10 years ago
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Posted: 10 years ago
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Originally posted by: Danseuse


@-sharada- : Nice thought - balance in a relationship.
But, if Mr Kash is guilty, how is Ananya responsible for it? She didn't even know about it! So how does her apologizing bring about balance?? 😲

If it was all about Ananya knowing what her father has done and hiding it from everyone and then apologizing to Kabir's family, then there could be a balance. 😃

Otherwise, this theory may not be right! But, I liked your thinking. Very hatke 😊



-Rekha


Thank you! :)
I was going about it in terms of how society views things. it is like, your dad goes to jail for a crime, the whole family pays the price for that. Khandaan ke naam ke kalank types..

The way bhabhi commented about her being SKs daughter reminded me of that thought process, so felt Ananya would have to win their trust and respect for what she is instead of their looking at her as SKs daughter.

I am not sure if I am able to present my thought process very clearly here..thoda complicated hai. 😊

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Posted: 10 years ago
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Agree that CV's should not make sudhir kashyap guilty, because he is one of Kaya's strongest foundation. Kabir's Bhabi only said that out of concern, to me it did not sound like she harboured any ill feelings towards SK. in addition, she was very sweet to ananya and overall seemed happy with the alliance.
Guilty or not, ananya should not have to apolagize to anyone. whatever happened was not her fault and I know society views things differently but there isn't anything to feel sorry about

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Posted: 10 years ago
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Originally posted by: Malika

Sorry to disappoint you dear but the dead Sudhir kashyap is not becoming negative any day. He was the most sacred connection in KaYa bond and shall remain so. Kabirs bhabhi was concerned because already her family has suffered due to this case. Only if we we could get some more of his convo with his bhaiya bhabhi we might know if his bhabhi is also concerned about Ananya knowing truth or not.

And I think Ananya has already proved her love by accepting him with his past. And now if she's angry on him and he has to prove his love, there's no harm in it. Some lessons are learnt the hard way.


I don't mean to say SK is negative. i meant to say, perceived to be negative. Usually it is innocent until proven guilty, but with media trials, it is guilt until proven innocent. And in SKs case, he didn't hang in there for long enough to be proved innocent. Something happened before that.
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Posted: 10 years ago
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Wow beautiful post Sharda
Though I doubt SK will be guilty
Bhabhi was concerned because of the event not the oersin I guess
Edited by NandiniRaizadaa - 10 years ago

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