What is SO wrong about it ?

I know, I might again get laughed at or tagmarked as a Blind Kabir fan, but I still couldnt understand why are we going overboard with the Kabir Tarini relationship? I mean, suddenly people have started finding faults in their most natural and spontaneous of interactions ! What is SO wrong / weird in it, if two people have mutually decided to move on from a certain juncture in their lives? Just because they committed a mistake at a certain point they should dissolve their original relationship of friendship and behave like total strangers ? Just bcoz a broken man seeked comfort a woman's arms in one weak moment, they should be having sexual tension between them even now ! How dare Tarini puts a rumal in Kabir's pocket or adjusts his collar that too before her younger brother! How dare she touches him and gives him advices ? She should only be hating him ! Why do we expect these characters to behave according to OUR standards? And when have they behaved according to set social norms, on this show? No matter how much we preach, how many of us would ever feel secure in a relationship with a divorcee? Very few, I believe !
And Anita Ji, how dare she gets convinced about the dedication of a man who did not care about his life and vowed to not leave her daughter even when it meant death for him! Even then, she should be sitting with the story of some damn ONS ! Indeed, she's a careless mother !
And Ananya, how can she be sooo "mahaan" to accept Tarini and Anurag even when she sees that Kabir has literally lapped up her relationship with Ronnie inspire of knowing all about Ronnie's "real" feelings for his girlfriend! Of course, that is nothing important because Ronnie didn't have an ONS with Ananya.

So, here we talk about not being judgemental and end up judging all the relationships and characters only on the basis of a darn ONS for which one of the parties have been gifted with nothing but life long guilt and remorse !

I am sorry if I sounded harsh but I had to pour this out !

PS. Its not about Kabir or Tarini or Ananya. My POV would have been the same for any X, Y or Z characters !

Agree...and before this ons thing I remember all were like they share such a beautiful.close relation and all...hope the cvs now dont ruin this relation...I mean the man has no one with him..his family is not with him.for some reason...its such a big day for him..so whats wrong if his friend is there...

Originally posted by: sonyjknum

Agree...and before this ons thing I remember all were like they share such a beautiful.close relation and all...hope the cvs now dont ruin this relation...I mean the man has no one with him..his family is not with him.for some reason...its such a big day for him..so whats wrong if his friend is there...

I am a blind kabir fan..no problems with that label..i am biased may be..but atleast until now Tarini has not done or said anything which makes her suspect...of loving kabir...if in future there is more to her story...be it...but there was nothing wrong in her putting kerchief and alll

Exactly. What Tarini will do, is a speculation. An entirely different issue ! But what is so wrong with Tarini so far ?

Originally posted by: BedouinMe

I know, I might again get laughed at or tagmarked as a Blind Kabir fan, but I still couldnt understand why are we going overboard with the Kabir Tarini relationship? I mean, suddenly people have started finding faults in their most natural and spontaneous of interactions ! What is SO wrong / weird in it, if two people have mutually decided to move on from a certain juncture in their lives? Just because they committed a mistake at a certain point they should dissolve their original relationship of friendship and behave like total strangers ? Just bcoz a broken man seeked comfort a woman's arms in one weak moment, they should be having sexual tension between them even now ! How dare Tarini puts a rumal in Kabir's pocket or adjusts his collar that too before her younger brother! How dare she touches him and gives him advices ? She should only be hating him ! Why do we expect these characters to behave according to OUR standards? And when have they behaved according to set social norms, on this show? No matter how much we preach, how many of us would ever feel secure in a relationship with a divorcee? Very few, I believe !
And Anita Ji, how dare she gets convinced about the dedication of a man who did not care about his life and vowed to not leave her daughter even when it meant death for him! Even then, she should be sitting with the story of some damn ONS ! Indeed, she's a careless mother !
And Ananya, how can she be sooo "mahaan" to accept Tarini and Anurag even when she sees that Kabir has literally lapped up her relationship with Ronnie inspire of knowing all about Ronnie's "real" feelings for his girlfriend! Of course, that is nothing important because Ronnie didn't have an ONS with Ananya.

So, here we talk about not being judgemental and end up judging all the relationships and characters only on the basis of a darn ONS for which one of the parties have been gifted with nothing but life long guilt and remorse !

I am sorry if I sounded harsh but I had to pour this out !

PS. Its not about Kabir or Tarini or Ananya. My POV would have been the same for any X, Y or Z characters !

Thank you for posting this. I was very tempted to, but then generally don't respond to negativity of the forum due to the fear of more negativity on my post:). I don't understand 3 things;

- Tarini and Kabir have come a long way. 8 years is enough to get over feelings, if any, resentment if any and discomfort if any. They have been thrown in this situation where they have stood for each other and really become each other's family. If there was a sexual tension ever, it's long dead. I don't know about others, but my ex bf is now my best friend and everyone knows it.
- why should Tarini explain anything to Ananya? She has not hurt or betrayed Ananya nor is she the one dating Ananya. And if Ananya is ok with it, why would Kabir keep talking about the same issue. He has proved time and again he loves her to pieces and she's convinced. So am I
- we don't know what he's hiding yet, so I don't see the need to jump to conclusions, to call him selfish, to say he takes the relationship for granted.

These are just my thoughts, not directed towards anybody so please don't take offence. I have some problems with the serial as well, but being constantly judgmental is a little irritating.

I totally agree.. And I don't mind either of being called as blind Kabir fan either.. I am in the middle of writing my analysis for the day.. Posting a part of the take I made the day after the revelation about ONS.. I raised some similar points

Exactly, so why thn cant she b there on the most imp day of his best friend's life to share the joy when she had been there for 8 long years in his loneliness, grief, and his life of repentance? Doesn't thr fship deserve the respect?

absolutely nothing wrong.
Just for imagination, the situation is viseversa-Ananya had a husband like Shreya,who ruined her life and Ronnie was there just like Tarini.they did same mistake in past but now they are trually just best friends. On her engagement day,Ronnie ties dori of A's blouse or help with her earrings..did we have same feelings or irrited with them?

Originally posted by: tingding

Thank you for posting this. I was very tempted to, but then generally don't respond to negativity of the forum due to the fear of more negativity on my post:). I don't understand 3 things;

- Tarini and Kabir have come a long way. 8 years is enough to get over feelings, if any, resentment if any and discomfort if any. They have been thrown in this situation where they have stood for each other and really become each other's family. If there was a sexual tension ever, it's long dead. I don't know about others, but my ex bf is now my best friend and everyone knows it.
- why should Tarini explain anything to Ananya? She has not hurt or betrayed Ananya nor is she the one dating Ananya. And if Ananya is ok with it, why would Kabir keep talking about the same issue. He has proved time and again he loves her to pieces and she's convinced. So am I
- we don't know what he's hiding yet, so I don't see the need to jump to conclusions, to call him selfish, to say he takes the relationship for granted.

These are just my thoughts, not directed towards anybody so please don't take offence. I have some problems with the serial as well, but being constantly judgmental is a little irritating.

Even I have a lot of complaints, specially the reporting aspect. But I fail to understand the hullabaloo over this ONS !

Originally posted by: violette

Exactly, so why thn cant she b there on the most imp day of his best friend's life to share the joy when she had been there for 8 long years in his loneliness,grief,and his life of repentance? Doesn't thr fship deserve the respect?

In my humble opinion, I think it shows the strength of their friendship. That you privilege a friends happiness over your rights. I don't think Ananya or Kabir have any problem with a public statement of Tarini and Kabirs friendship. It's been done for Anita, who comes from a different generation and thus could thus take time to accept this part of Kabirs life. How wonderful to have a friend who understands you without u having u say a thing. But then they have always shared this bond and for me the ONS does not diminish or disrespect it. Not disagreeing just putting my view forth. We all come from different experiences and thus have different view points.

Originally posted by: meenu0527

absolutely nothing wrong.
Just for imagination, the situation is viseversa-Ananya had a husband like Shreya,who ruined her life and Ronnie was there just like Tarini.they did same mistake in past but now they are trually just best friends. On her engagement day,Ronnie ties dori of A's blouse or help with her earrings..did we have same feelings or irrited with them?

Yes! I wouldn't have been irritated if there was no portrayal of sexual tension, just as there wasn't any yesterday between K-T. I don't get irritated when Ronnie hugs Ananya or Ananya gives Ronnie a playful punch on his arms !