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Great post dear. I particularly liked the way you put it.
Thanks Sohu 😊Narcissistic behaviour defines majority of the people that we meet in life at present; I mean as you just stated, the 'I' and 'me' get more prominence than 'us' and 'we'.People are selfish(most of them), and all they want is to satiate their needs and ego at any cost. The reality of life is such, that self absorbance is slowly becoming a disease.Exactly my point! And more and more people are falling prey to it as various external factors play a major role in it (keeping aside the genetic factors in this case). I actually liked the way the Cvs gave us hint about Shreya's narcissism from the beginning and now when you join the dots you will realise why she did those stuff!And Shreya is just one among them. She belongs to a rich family and probably as a kid she had all her wishes or zidd fulfilled by her family.Bingo!! Its her upbringing that made her this way and once these stuff gets crystallized inside you its almost irreplaceable. The more you have, the more entitled and less grateful you feel and people start treating themselves as special and start believing that they can have anything in life (without even working for it)If we trust kabir's version( which I am already trusting :P ), then Shreya probably married him for a bet cause she had to prove. a point that she can get whatever she want, even if it means making KABIR SHARMA bowing down to her. And in no means could she have afforded to be proved wrong.I too trust Kabir's version ( how can I not? 😉) . I could have given her a doubt about this bet thingy but now I can not. Yes he was a bet to her and she could not have lost the bet at any cost and thus she constantly made him feel appreciated, made him to believe it was true love from her side, pursued him till he agreed and married her. There might be slight attraction from her side too but definitely no love.What I feel is, Shreya married Kabir cause of the 'bet' but then she felt it was too low of her to be with a man who was nothing but a failure. So she concocted the entire Kabir-Tarini issue( mind you, narcissists can go to any level to prove them right and innocent in everyone's eyes. Its the self love they are obsessed with), and finally got hold of a divorce. Its like saanp bhi marr gaya aur baasi bhi nahi tuti.Yes she might have married him for bet (and all those stuff about adjusting with him and his lifestyle might be mere talk from her side into trapping him) but as soon as the reality of struck her she just could not take it. She was used to life with all perks and she gave up on those perks for a man she did not even love (he was a bet to her after all) and thus as Kabir said she changed completely (and her so called love vanished). Now those things which used to appreciate about him in order to impress him were the things she hated the most about him. She constantly kept nagging him and calling him a failure (in my opinion it was because she was frustrated on herself for making a mistake by marrying him). There is a chance that Kabir-Tarini issue was fabricated by her by manipulating Tarini (I feel Tarini has some hidden guilt in her and that is why she so badly wants Kabir to be happy and KaYa to be together and also the reason why i feel she does not hold any grudges against Shreya for ruining her life and career. She might have realised her mistake later and hence stood with Kabir through every thick and thin after his divorce)It was when she saw Kabir rise and become a successful man, she realised probably what she had let go and her ego was not ready to endure that. Hence she is back to just claim him. Yes 'claim' is the word cause these ppl simply objectify others for their own pleasures.He is definitely a catch now for her and in order to satiate her fragile ego she came to KKN running after him. I feel there is emptiness in her life too which is causing the desperation inside her to get Kabir at any cost. Whatever she is up to is just to satisfy her ego and personal interest!! She never loved him and won't ever!She is so self-absorbed that she is underestimating Ananya and KaYa big time! Woman you gonna be defeated so badly you have no idea!Being narcissists has got to do with psyche of the people, its a disorder I feel. And that's what is probably the root cause of all the problems in the world. If people can be a little like Miss.Kashyap, then the world would be such an amazing place to be in.I won't actually call it a disorder. I feel these traits are adaptive in nature and there are lot of factors that influence you and make you a narcissist. It depends on you how you will be using it - in a constructive manner or in a destructive manner.Indeed the world would become a more better place if people can be even a little like Ananya and that is what draws her towards her character. She is one of a kind seriously! Kabir Sharma is so lucky to have her!P.s: sorry for the long rambling. LolRambling? Are you kidding me 😛?P.p.s: Ankita was really good in her portrayal. The fun begins in Monday. ;)Not a fan of her's but yes she deserve all the praises. Waiting eagerly for Monday and some post-proposal KaYa moments 😳
Thanks again for such a wonderful reply 🤗
