A third person spoils the ideal combination of a couple... as in No, I won't join you"three's a crowd😛😆😆a third person literally spoiling the privacy of a pair of lovers & nothing proves its better than "KaYa+Ya" dinner date 😆 & I bet no one else but Kabir wud agree with me more ....when he was expecting a b'ful dinner date time with his GF only to be joined by his ex biwi😛😆
For once Khalid's philosophy "Throw positivity to universe ...& universe will throw back to you" didn't seem to work ...😆😆😆 lolz after so much Sakaratmakta few hours back...Shreya's unexpected barging in the dinner date was literally what we call "positivity ki band bajana"...
Boy, Kabir was pretty positively excited for dinner date, infact Ananya too she was positively looking forward to spend good "quiet" time with Kabir.
I don't think anyone cud have guessed Shreya gate crashing KabirAnanya dinner date...poor Kabir, his face was worth watching when he entered & saw Shreya...😆😆😆 so loved Kabir's poker face & his sarcastic smile...😆
I really wonder how much control he must have to have exercised not to just confront Shreya the way he wanted & in tone he wanted instead so killingly sweetly he asked "tum yaha kya kar rahi ho?" if hadn't known him better it wud have seemed he was seriously sweet...poor him being a public place cudn't reacted as desired...
I guess Kabir forgot to comment Shreya "what happened to "I will be professional always"😆...when Kabir had invited for promotion party she refused but didn't thought twice before joining on a "personal date" considering this was more personal thing to barge in...& cant help but feel Kabir's pain of loneliness, though he said it sarcastically but he just showed his lonely side... "har koi apne ghar mein, apni family ke saath nahi rehta... tum dono ne milkar jitni baar akele khana khaya hoga😒, usse kahin zyada baar, main akele kha chukka hoon...😔ab bhi khata hoon"
Though seeing Shreya turning up & man having dinner with his ex wife & current girlfriend, situation seemed literally straight out of any K serial...with the guy stuck up b/w two ladies...poor boy just cudn't do anything...Girlfriend having too big of a heart & ex wife don't have the decency to refuse Ananya's invitation...guess that's what she wanted to do spoil their date...it doesn't matter if it was coincidental or intentional...date toh spoil honi thi hogayi...😆😆😆 though Kabir surprised me with his order, did he order Shreya's favourite ...Really Kabir!!! You remember her likes & dislikes...strange...On second thoughts Kabir wud have preferred akele dinner all by himself instead of having two ladies for company😆😆😆 ...it wud have been much simpler dinner...Bet, he wudn't have such a stressful dinner in his whole life...😆😆 as dinner is supposed to have a relaxing time...but boy, had toughest of dinner time.😛😆😆
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Everything said & done, I will have a little sakaratmakta out of this *spoiled* dinner date too...😆😆 for one, its gonna be a lesson for Ananya darling that's its not always not good to be good, sometimes its important to be possessive about your "we" time with your partner... I would have said same, if KabirAnanya had bumped into Ananya's friends instead of Shreya...when it comes to spend time alone with your partner, specifically you put in so much effort & time...partner can really find it rude...& if its an ex, then a dinner cant get horrible...
Secondly, Kabir seems to have a back up plan set in his head, how he gonna deal with Shreya, not with direct confrontration but with more with strategy...he is just playing along, to just get to know what exactly this lady is upto...coz its not very "the Kabir Sharma" for Kabir not to realize what Shreya is doing by barging in dinner, mentioning about his likes & dislikes...
Guess, Kabir's jaane se pehle was exclusively for Shreya, " jab hum kisi ke karib rehte hai, toh usse jaan ne bhi lagte hai" she may feel that time she had spend in past with Kabir, gave her a chance to know Kabir ..."Kisi Ke Karib hone mein, Kisi ke Karib rehne mein farq hai" even now, if Shreya thinks if she stays close to Kabir, spends time with him she will be able to know him, whats going on his mind & wull be able to defeat him...whereas, the fact is, just being close to a person is not important to know a person, its requires to know a person's emotions, feelings to know anyone closely.
A part of JSP, can be for Ananya too, being in love as a GF she may feel close to Kabir, but more than that, its for her to realize to understand what are certain things, that may hurt Kabir, irrespective how cordial professionally he tries to be with his ex biwi, but still he can never be too much cordial to have dinner with her, or be best of her friends...😆😆😆 Before inviting her, Ananya should have thought from Kabir's point of view of too, considering she knows how much Kabir detests Shreya.
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I really wonder if Ananya is really too nave or just ignoring Shreya's intentions, I am surprised girl is not able to see through Shreya, she is quite transparent in her actions, its easily noticeable what she is trying to do... it doesn't require to be a rocket scientist to guess her intentions...the way she just accepted the invitation of having dinner, if she didn't wanted to have dinner, she cud have simply refused why to gain sympathy that everyday i do dinner alone...& to add on to doubts, the way she made specifications in Kabir's dinner...I thought being as a girlfriend, Ananya will reaslise it instantly...
A little advice for Ananya darling, though Kabir has already given her "dil bada hona chaiye ...par itna bhi bada nahi hona chaiye" 😆 & please Kabir, don't give her ideas "roz uske saath dinner karogi" 😆😆😆 ...I wont be surprised if after accepting Shreya's friendship you will find two ladies having lunch, dinner together everyday...😈
My advice for Ananya wud be ...keep few things secret to yourself, every thing happening in your life doesn't required to be shared with everyone... be it going on date, or having argument with Kabir or anything for that matter...Last time she shared her argument with Kabir to Richa, that too in very detail...& I doubt she might have shared with one of her friends about date, as she herself confessed "main sabko sabkuch bata deti hoon,sabko bata deti hoon yaha kaha ja rahi hoon dinner karne"😆😆😆 & somehow Shreya came to know about it...Because really her being at same place is really too much of a coincidence...same restaurant seems to be a acceptable coincidence but a table just beside Kabir Ananya's tale was literally too much...& just a little coaxing by Ananya she readily agreed to join...
No doubts dinner date with Kabir is surely something to be excited...but giving out too much details can be disastrous ...hope Ananya will learn from her mistake...
Felt sorry for both of them, she had done so much effort for Kabir & they cudn't enjoy a cozy twosome dinner which two of them were expecting (even we were)😆😆 ...Guess now Ananya can write a book "How to ruin a date" page 1 pt 1 😆 ..."be too much big hearted " ...courtesy demanded her to ask Shreya...but ek baar pooch liye kafi tha...why to pester & insist Shreya to join...& really miss kashyap, "Kabir yaha hote toh who "bhi" yahi kehte?" he wud have simply left the restaurant...😆
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Kabir Ananya green room sequence was just adorable, "pyaar ko blue kar dete hai"...& how just Ananya reminding about date just made him smile... Boy was excited about the dinner date...he really seemed to have too much expectations 😳😳 ...only to be deflated...😆😆 poor boy hugs to him 🤗 ...I really doubt if they gonna get another chance...waise Ananya's idea of next time dinner sounds pretty interesting "kisi aur shehar hi chale jaenge khana khane"... Kabir can think about it 😉😉...infact, CVs can think about it 😉😆...
Though Kabir, trying to cheer her up by asking for coffee & "lumbiii drive" was really thoughtful of him 😳😳😳 & what more two of them can ask "100% shreya bagalwali table par nahi hogi" 😆😆😆 ...Girl can just melt & swoon over such a boyfriend..."bas isi smile ke liye toh aajkal jeeta hoon.. ...bahut possessive boyfriend hoon, is smile ko kisi ke saath share nahi kar sakta, office ki deewaron se bhi nahi"...guess he was hinting to her if not more, she also should be little possessive & stop being so big hearted, sharing their personal time with Shreya, specifically...or with anyone for that matter.😛😆
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CVs need to be appreciated for touching on current topics & make related news item on them...& give it enough space in the episode to be discussed... It was a pleasure to see a full fledged "9 baje Kabir ke saath" a discussion with blogger Kunal...its after long time saw Kabir interviewing...
Kunal didn't seemed like an amateur blogger but seemed pretty serious kind of guy who knows what he writes & makes sure what he writes is relevant for discussion with valid explanation...& can be a good topic of debate...& Kabir Sharma instead of making an opinion or giving his point of view he just left the discussion ground open for audience.
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Hope Ananya starts to feel & analyse Shreya's actions & words as girlfriend...if not as analytical reporter...
As for Kabir, all the best hope you are able to know & guess, Shreya's actions as soon as possible before she gets successful in affecting your relationship...
All the best both of you!!!
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Episode 85
August 13,2015
Udne Ki Aasha
