Baatein--To Tell or not To Tell

Every relationship demands & deserves Openness & Frankness
where two can tell each other anything & everything

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Technically its not a big issue to hide a thing when it can refrain unnecessary confrontration...but still, sometimes little things go on becoming big deals...big issues so its better, to be just plainly & simply frank about things in relationships to avoid complications...its always better for a partner, to get to know things from partner rather than a third person...

At current situation, Ananya doesn't have a bad intention or any specific strong reason to hide Shreya's visit she just want to refrain an unnecessary confrontration b/w two exes...& practically there is nothing wrong in it...from her point of view Ananya is right...
But seeing in broader prospective ...how hiding a little fact can affect & be misused to bring in complications in her & Kabir's relationship its something wrong...
Specifically in relationships every big issue starts from a small reason...till the time Ananya reveals about Shreya visit to Kabir, she will be restless & tensed...to refrain one confrontration she will be spending rest of time in useless tension ... what Kabir meant in JSP
"kuch palon mein, apna bahut sa chain fizool mein kharch bhi kar dete hai..."
If Ananya cud have just told him, & just made her understood not to confront Shreya ...things would have been simpler...
Fingers crossed hope Kabir doesn't react as strongly as I expect..

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Kabir Ananya phone chat was just effortlessly romantic...& Kabir surprised me with his "good night darling" 🤪... last time it was for Malvika nighty darling with a kiss...very rarely he gets so expressive in words...& it was just commendable of him to guess "mere bare mein soch rahi thi ; mujhe phone karnewali thi ...dimaag mein mujhse baatchit already shuru kar di ho" ...it was really cute & romantic of him & as always smarty Mr. Sharma ...kafi ache se jaane lage hai apni GF ko😆😆😆 & I really doubt when a girl has a boyfriend like him, she can do anything but think about him...when us normal fangirls cant stop thinking...how can Ananya manage, afterall she is his girlfriend...she cant really do what he asked "don't think too much about me"

On a serious note, it was thotful of Kabir, letting Ananya know about his plan to let Mrs. Kashyap know about Shreya, but poor boy he got late aunty ji already knows...& must say Auntyji is as smart as her son in law, how she putted two & two together...just hearing name Shreya, she immediately guessed its same Shreya...just loved how Ananya supported Kabir, comforted & assured Anita... that she & kabir are always there for each other..."milkar deal kar lenge sabse" she just asked her to keep her trust in kabir..."apni beti par aur Kabir par vishwaas rakhe...kabir aapse kiya hua vaada nibhaenge" & completely agree with Ananya, more than each other's support both of them would need Anita's support the most...when they will be each other's strength Anita gonna be there individual strength...but can understand a mother's apprehensions too, as a motherly concern she is bound to be worried for daughter, her concern was not Kham-a-kha 😊😊...its not easy for a girl to day to day face her boyfriend's ex, sooner or later it wud surely effect her relationship...

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Personally I think Ananya should have told Kabir, about Shreya's visit...but Ananya didn't had heart to spoil his happy mood...after long he was back smiling...& was relaxed...I really hope Kabir doesn't get too angry, no doubts he will be a little upset but hope he will understand Ananya's point of view too...she didn't wanted him to get unnecessarily upset... he was so happy & cheery & smiling in the morning...& openly wished good morning to Ananya ...but he just melted fangirl in me how he wished morning to Baby...
It was a pleasure to see him back in fun mood with Baby & sunny ji & paaji feel sorry for u...really "aapka kuch nahi honewala ...I mean aapko kuch nahi honewala"....best of luck for next time...😛😆
Like Ronnie I also think practically Ananya was right in what she did but now it depends on Kabir, how he will take Ananya lieing to him...long back he had commented in jest "aage chalkar tum mujhse bhi baatein chupaogi"😛😆😆...& he doesn't seem happy with the idea...aunty ji not fair...beti ki poll khol di...😆😆😆(in precap)
so, all the best miss kashyap...hope before bursting out on you Kabir hears your version & forgives you soon😆 ...Seeing funside of situation it wud be better this time let boy have the fun...you can plan out a roothna manana session...😛😆
I wasn't expecting Mrs. Kashyap to reveal about Shreya's visit...as shown in precap infact was thinking Kabir wud pick up from Shreya's comment "phir se" sorry bolna chahti hoon... I was expecting him to question back "pehle kab bola"...😕😲😆

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Shreya darling going too overboard with Sorries, I was like kitni baar sorry bolegi...I mean so many sorries don't look genuine...it makes other person doubt her...atleast it made me doubt her, I think Kabir too, no wonder he looked so bored when she was aplogising & just forgave her & apologized himself... ...thinking she will go again with her sorries...😆😆😆
But everything said & done, if Shreya is genuinely sorry...then I guess its very thoughtful of her to apologise from Ananya individually & Kabir Ananya as a couple... Kabir was splendid how he now goes on publically announcing of him & Ananya being together without any inhibitions... "bahut bada thanks hum dono ki taraf se, in khoobsurat shabdon ke liye..."... 😃😃

Aur Meri taraf se bhi "thanks to Shreya" that got sarcastic Kabir Sharma back...😳😳 was missing him since long...infact since Manav bhai's absence...Kabir was indeed sarcastically rude to her..."jab tak kahogi nahi, main kaise keh sakta hoon mind karunga ya nahi...Mind karne layak hui toh zarur karunga"....he was literally too much...boy doesn't give other person chance to takeover him...so sharply & smoothly he cuts with words 😆😆😆 literally "kaat dalti" other person's confidence 😆😆

Hope Shreya got message quite loud & clear that these two together not gonna be easy to deal with...😊😊 & it will take a lot from her to make them part if she plans to do something like that... 😊😊 infact individually too they are tough to break...I guess Shreya may have realized same when she apologized to Ananya back home, it was good to see how Ananya stood strongly for Kabir & confidently confirmed that she knows without Shreya telling her that Kabir has moved on from past...😃😃 at no stage Ananya showed that she is not intimated by presence of Kabir's ex wife be it in her home or in their life...she fully trusts Kabir.

If Shreya has a hidden intention & a scheming plan up her sleeve, in dat case too, her apology is a smart move...😛as it just cleared her image atleast from Ananya's mind if she was thinking her to be a jealous ex wife...& with her perfect innocent act, will make Kabir take time to reveal her real intentions she will get enough time in hand to reach her real intention...😆😆
In either case this apology sequence gonna be beneficial for Shreya...😛😆

I don't know if its only me but Shreya's visit to Ananya's house somewhere gave me not so positive vibes or may be I am just reading two much b/w lines...😕😕 but still, Shreya visit to Ananya house really seems dangerous... specifically if by any chance she & Kabir together are related with Sudhir Kashyap's case😕😕... Hope my assumptions turn false...cause revelation of anything similar will be a big setback for both Ananya & Mrs. Kashyap...Coz if back then Kabir hadn't revealed whole truth about Sudhir Kashyap...then boy he is in serious trouble for sure...😆😆

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Lets see how Kabir gonna react, all the best to his GF 😆😆

Good luck to the couple...😛😛😆& kabir sir, oops Kabir the boyfriend zyada gussa nahi dikhana ka on your GF...😊😊😃 she just wanted to save you from another confrontration from ex wife ...
as for Miss kashyap, jaane se pehle was exclusively for you...😆😆😆baatein chupane se kuch pal ka vilamb kharid lete hai...only to realise later, that it wud have been much better if had just simply tell things at the time they happen.

p.s."wonder if we can have Ananya manaofying Kabir this time round...

p.p.s--Dont make big deal out of it Kabir...please...girl was just looking out for you 😛😊😊 you looked all handsome smiling in red ...so happy & cheery didn't want to spoil your mood 😛😆

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There are no secrets that time does not reveal. - Jean Racine

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Episode 83
August 11,2015

@ purnima... bang on as always... 😃hayeee tum kithna sharmathi ho yaar😉... kya rajeev ithna pasand hai???😳 waise mujhe bhi woh bahut pasand hai ... agar clone mil jaaye toh bhi chalega...😉 well, what is your take on precap and this week's cliffhanger of anita's visit to shreya??? a detailed analysois please😳

Excellent as usual. I have a very ominous feeling since yesterday's episode. Sudhir Kashyap's case is definitely linked to Kabir and Shreya's break-up. We have to wait for the khulasa to Anita and then we will get the truth from Khurana, laxman and tarini.

As always , Amazing and perfect analysis of episode .
I have a question . Will you plz answer it?
In JSP kabir said,'' apna bht sa chain FIZOOL me kharch kr dete h''
Isn't it mean that she is taking tension without any reason.
She is worried what if Kabir comes to know that she didn't inform him about Shreya's arrival.
When Kabir will come to know about this he will understand her point and will assure that she can share anything with him without any hesitation.
What you think??

Hi dear so happy to read your reviews always and emotis you put are brilliant

Originally posted by: yawfeh

@ purnima... bang on as always... 😃hayeee tum kithna sharmathi ho yaar😉... kya rajeev ithna pasand hai???😳 waise mujhe bhi woh bahut pasand hai ... agar clone mil jaaye toh bhi chalega...😉 well, what is your take on precap and this week's cliffhanger of anita's visit to shreya??? a detailed analysois please😳

Thanks for liking & glad to know it was upto expectations...
Dont underestimate my blushing...I can blush more than this...yeh toh kuch bhi nahi hai...learning from Man himself ☺️...
Clone is very much in demand many are just waiting in queue 😆😆😆but sadly no clone ...& man he was one exclusive piece who is already hooked & booked 😳😳

Precap --i already mentioned, its gonna be a little upsetting for Kabir, as Ananya herself didn't share this fact herself...

As for Anita's visit to Shreya, I think it gonna go fine...I'm not worried about it...its just a motherly concern in her...she just wants to know Shreya & her intentions...as while chatting with her she will be able to know her better... she is a matured lady & her meeting with Shreya not gonna be any effect on KaYa relation .

Originally posted by: krazykaju

As always , Amazing and perfect analysis of episode .
I have a question . Will you plz answer it?
In JSP kabir said,'' apna bht sa chain FIZOOL me kharch kr dete h''
Isn't it mean that she is taking tension without any reason.
She is worried what if Kabir comes to know that she didn't inform him about Shreya's arrival.
When Kabir will come to know about this he will understand her point and will assure that she can share anything with him without any hesitation.
What you think??

thanks for liking...
Ananya is not worried for hiding from Kabir, but she was worried about Kabir confronting Shreya...as it wud be an expected reaction from Kabir as soon as he knows about Shreya visiting...
the JSP is about Ananya worrying about Kabir's reaction she didn't told anything to Kabir because expecting a confrontration which will ultimately affect on profession & personal life...

I also think Kabir wud not react as strongly as we are expecting, surely he wud be upset but will surely make Ananya understand that next time shouldn't hide anything from him ... "boyfriend se baatein chupana sahi nahi hai"😛😆

Originally posted by: -purnima-

Thanks for liking & glad to know it was upto expectations...
Dont underestimate my blushing...I can blush more than this...yeh toh kuch bhi nahi hai...learning from Man himself ☺️...
Clone is very much in demand many are just waiting in queue 😆😆😆but sadly no clone ...& man he was one exclusive piece who is already hooked & booked 😳😳

Precap --i already mentioned, its gonna be a little upsetting for Kabir, as Ananya herself didn't share this fact herself...

As for Anita's visit to Shreya, I think it gonna go fine...I'm not worried about it...its just a motherly concern in her...she just wants to know Shreya & her intentions...as while chatting with her she will be able to know her better... she is a matured lady & her meeting with Shreya not gonna be any effect on KaYa relation .

muaaah meri jaan... muh ki baat cheen li tumne...😳

loved ur Ananlysis, spcly the points written in starting are as usual fitting to the current situation of Kaya. Quote @purnima infact was thinking Kabir wud pick up from Shreya's comment "phir se" sorry bolna chahti hoon... I was expecting him to question back "pehle kab bola"...😕😲😆