this is the height

guyz,i am leaving this forum.yest. i put up a post-'tia as main heroine' and it waz amenable 2 debate.i had not even said nething abt tia fans but they personally attacked me n i can't bear it.

the 4'th page is full of comments when they say my remarks r stupid,i shud not hav put up the post, in fact comments such as idiotic n stupid r very common,esp. from aparna n aasma remix. but i wud like 2 point out that among tia ranveer fans lamina has responded very well, has been very logical n rational n debated very impersonally.i hav nothing against her posts but quite a few of tia's fans hav really insulted me.of course veonal is also very objective n so is niyu.but the rest hated the post n bcoz i put it up attacked me.😭😭

i thought one is allowed 2 put up topics expressing criticism etc. but i waz sorely disapointed.if the comparers or moderator like veonal has responded without making ne deletions from post,how can it be so objectional 2 receive such extreme remarks? certain members hav written in capitals--amts. 2 shouting

i def. feel upset at beiong targetted.i hav always expressed opinions critically n they r mine opinions so how can u negate them?i hav not said i want ranveer n shy 2 patch up.i said i wudn't mind if they did bcoz i feel symapthy with ranveer n not tia.wot's wrong wid dat?n even if i aid i wanted dem 2 patch up,how can ne1 call that stupid?one shud b allowed 2 express their opinions.

in fact at the beginning i had also said that tia fans may not agree so i'm sorry.I SAID THIS rite at beginning!still they didn't stop at attacking.

nishi,veonal,u ppl r responsible moderators so i am expecting an ans. from u.how do u feel abt this issue?

neelu i jus went thru the entire topic.....though not in gr8 detail but i did try to understand u r pt of view an the others too........

neelu, i have always read all u r posts particularly concernin such topics.u always say u r pt very well an since bein a an ashi-yuvi fan i never take it the wrong sense......but sometimes it so happens tht others may not understand this(which i think is rite on their part)its very difficult to be fair an just sometimes.....its not tht easy as it sounds.i am sayin this cos even i at times feel tht though may be the 4 ppl r given equal imp i tend to count scenes an c tht ashi or yuvi is seen more....i cant help it an i guess its the same 4 thee other couple too.....an when they r shown i don lke it an then even i wonder as to why cant they be fair.

they mite not have liked the very fact of u talkin abt tia like this.....which may be rite in u r sense an wrong a/c to theirs.....here neelu its very difficult to be jus an fair...cos we all our ardent fans of our favourite actors.......an as u told an i read even ithink lamina proved her point very well 😛 but me also thinks tht wht u said is true...i don have any doubts abt tht.

but this is happenin very often i feel....previously somethin happened an it did create alot of rift b/w ppl here.

i wud not like to comment more or get into deeply cos it wud simply make thins more complicated
but i will very much agree with u tht though u never intended to target any1 personally but there were few who werent very rite in wht they said..infact its them who have targetted u and havent spoken gud things an have failed to take it sportively.

an yes as saff tol i don think tht person shud speak like this.....an sayin like only good persons can understand gud ppl....dear u cant speak abt ppl like this unless u know them very well to make a comment lke this.
an ashi fans bein insensetive jus lke her......is completely untrue..an i hope not this statement or comment of hers wud make the matter more worse cos not really many wud be happy to know tht.
an yes abt neelu apologisin.....i don think she has to cos she hasnt spoken anythin wrong to any1 here personally .neelu, u feel u have xpressed u r opinion dont bother but i jus hope tht though we all xpress our opinion we must learn to undersatnd each other

neelu don take it this seriously dear.......tht u decide to leave the forum....c'mmon we all r frnds here
though i may not be a member very old but i have seen tht 1 can really xpress themselves an its really very encouragin here.doj get hurt this much dear 😛

mine may bhi a lamba post.....u may not agree with everythin here....i am sorry if i have said anythin wrong here. jus want neelu to reconsider her opinion and want things to become normal 😛 😛