Originally posted by: neelakshi1985
i read the entire debate...interesting points on both sides...but i HAD 2 reply 2 this
i am sorry if tia-ranveer fans get mad at me,thatis NOT my intention but i will not mince words--in short i will b very frank n brutal😆
1.The first charge made against ashi-uv by all tia-ranveer fans is that their luv is sumwhat inferior 2 tia-ranveer's in fact even in this post there is a very condescending slant 2 the sentence 'we can't deny they were in luv'
O.k. wot is love?can it b defined by 1 single parameter?eg-- love is when 2 ppl look at each other n blush,luv is when they keep crying but don't do nething 4 each other....but love is not fighting,love is not misunderstanding,love is not doing small things 4 each other...--well,but of coursthe first is 4 tia-ranveer n the second ashi-uv.i wud say their love is EXTREMELY real,deep n complex.Ashi's love 4 yuvi made her travell all the way 2 goa,forgetting her own self,just 2 tell him of yamini's lies.it waz strong enuf 4 her 2 always inspire him,pretend 2 go arnd with him so his dad wud not scold him,2 stand up for him....
yuvi's love 4 ashi waz strong enuf 4him 2 never bear 2 c her upset,2 organise things 4 her,2 save her from black gang,2 save her time n again from ppl like aditya,2 always b near her when she was sad or lonely...
as 4 tia-ranveer wot hav they ever DONE 4 each other?ranveer did not take her side in the pallavi conflict or the time she waz modelling, did not introduce her 2 his mom,did not tell her abt the changing of subjects ...as 4 tia,she haz tried her best but not gone after him when he left 4 sanganer(only after pri n meher cancelled tickets she joined them),did not call him back,2 make arjun punish him...
2.tia-ranveert fans seem 2 feel that bcoz ashi n uv talk n fight their love gets spoilt --frankly which lovers don't fight?fighting does not show that they dislike each other,it only shows that love is repressed in their case n that bcomes the only way of expressing it!!!every1 expresses love differently.even tia-ranveer often fight n call each other'camel'and 'cactus' etc.--its only a small form of affection.
and pls pls don't forget their dating sequence--when ashi n uv dated they were heart,soul devoted 2 each other,no one was taking advantage of each other.but wehen tia ranveer were 2gether,ranveer waz easily divided b/w her n his 'duty', u say that yuvi cares more 4 c.d.s than ashi???/if he had,wudn't he hav tried 2 win them instead of contnuing 2 date ashi n lie 2 sid?but ranveer had a choice-HE made his choice of remaining distant from her.
3.THAT YUVI MADE THE BET 2 HURT ASHI - WHEN yuvi made the bet it waz under pressure of sid.it waz not 2 hurt ashi--in fact he had cum back 2 his room after comforting ashi who waz cring 4 her mother!!!so the only rsn he said he wud do the bet waz bcoz he wantedf 2 prove sid wrong ashi didn't love him.when they were 2gether do u remeber how perfect every moment waz?😳😳he never even thought of himself,only ashi after that
4.that they do not express enuf-- thei way of exessing i wud say is much more open than tia-ranveer's!!!they hav so many more options than jst looking at each other.wot fun is there in starinh neway?😆
see,both the couples love each other.no love is better than the other.its just that they hav diff. ways 2 express n voice it.ashi--uv is rooted in a moreday 2 day,yet emotional balnce n tell u.ashi uv may fght,insult each other;but in rality they r happy 2gether.all's well that ends well😳😉