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Originally posted by: DexterRocks
Finally the tension has built up amongst the characters and everybody is busy yelling at each other.
Every character here is flawed, every character has their drawbacks and somehow or the other Rudra happens to be the eye opener for each of them.Its time now that Rudra has got an eye opener, I am, glad that he overheard the conversation, it not only allowed him to counter the truth but also absorb the fact that his mother is still not a goddess, she still has her faults just with and addition that his father is not a saint either.Starting with the first scene here, the lovely showdown between Dilsher and Rudra, kudos to Rudra that he is not ashamed at what he has said or how he has said it, yes he is very much right at his stand, and does have the courage to confront his father in front of his mother and ask him that why did he pour so much of posion and hatred for his mother in his son's heart. I did expect Dilsher to use his weapon being the father and thus justify his slap to Rudra that as I am your father i do have these rights.I will slightly disagree with Paro here, as she said to Rudra that he is not the same person who has always respected women irrespective of his disgust for the gender, and how can he talkw ith his mother like that . I would be defensive here, he could only talk about his mother like that because he has the mind and brain to look beyond relationships, look at every individual in terms of their deeds, their karma, justify the consequences of their deeds and only judge them, he definitely does not judge people based on their age or sex, it is more about how much they have been loyal and truthful to their life and loved ones. Paro needs to realize that she cannot judge Rudra based on her self belief system, yes she belongs to a small village, where divine power works, mothers are goddess, fathers are gods, husbands are bholenath's roop and that is fine as long as we are in our virtual world. In reality, mothers need to experience mother hood to be respected and loved by their kid, fathers have to spend their blood and sweat to gain that honor, children have to maintain their parents dignity to earn the love, husband's have to loev and respect their wives to get that status, and Rudra belongs to that real world where he has seen none of these happenings. Rudra never judged her ideologies, atleast not in a negative manner, but i was slightly disappointed that she hit him there, it does kill him when she compared herself with Mala and accused Rudra to think of her in that line. Well may be she is just doing all these as a reverse psychology, but it didn't seem like one, i still hope its just her tactic .Rudra has only one problem, he is not good at words, otherwise he would have told Paro that he does not think about Mala in that line because Mala's importance in his life and Paro's importance in his life cannot be equated, Mala's betrayal and Paro's betrayal cannot be equated, Mala's departure and her come back is nothing equal to Paro's running away and coming back to him, Mala's falling in love with Tejawat is nothing equal to Paro falling for Rudra. The difference lies there.But i definitely love dthat how he in his own style warned her, infact threatened her to never compare herself to some characterless woman, her dignity is his love, his love for her is beyond any social norms or rituals, and he definitely does not give two hoots to anybody when it is about her.Mala's backstory as expected they painted Dilsher as the villain and Mala as the bechari, and sad part is that i still did not feel sympathetic towards Mala at all. All i thought was that the person who could lose his leg in alcoholism, a person who could be so abusive in his failure, how did Mala even have the courage to leave her only son with that person ? I mean any mother would not dare to do that, especially when Mala noticed that Dilsher hardly cared for Rudra. And one more thought that how hardworking and dedicated Rudra is that being in such an environment, he rose to fame, he shined in his career, he earned everything for himself, he does not reflect being Dilsher's son atleast.And one more food for thought is that, Mala had loved tejawat while she was in marriage with Dilsher, and that does validate with whatever Rudra thinks about her, its just his POV about his father being the sufferer and a role model will change, and what a mess, the poor guy will realize that how he was nothing but a garbage, a burden, a toy who probably was brought in this world by mistake or just because Mala and Dilsher had to sleep with each other, their was no love whatsoever and even no responsiblity also.Will wait for tomrrow's confrontation between Rudra and his parents, and i hope he gets an apology soon, otherwise Dilsher and Mala will lose the respect they earn as being Rudra's parents also. Lastly, Mohini rocks, she knows how to hit the nail at the right point, and it was lovely that in subconsicious level she and Rudra is on the same side of the story, i guess thats why when these two are having a faceoff, we love them the most.
Completely agree.. I really like Mohini's character!! RR is getting more interesting, for some reason I still want Thakur in the picture.. and see the heights of Rudra love - when Paro is taken away from him ( of course after the Big C)..We do not need new entry!
Originally posted by: sukhminderkaur7
Nice post. .but sorry I have no sympathy with mala at all..agree that she was a victim of domestic violence but she preferred her own happiness only by choosing tejawat and left her son at the mercy of his cruel father..so for me mala can not be justified. ..now coming to paro I really don't like her when she compared mala with her...love the way rudra refused to apologise.