Its high time that Rudra gets an explanation from Dilsher & Mala .

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Posted: 11 years ago
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Last night's episode was not a bad one, good in a sense that much focus was given to Rudra's emotions and his struggle to bear all these, suddenly his life has so many dimensions, and he feels disconnected and cheated by the surroundings, where his haunting past is hindering his beautiful present and somehow he wants to erase all the wounds, every those memories that can affect his married life, his love life, and the only life he wants to lead with much peace and satisfaction.
What i found sick and pathetic was Dilsher and Mala. These two characters are equally coming off very self centered, self focussed, and self pretense. They themselves cannot justify their acts, leave Paro being the mediator. Why was all the giggles, and reliving the memories with utmost happiness, and behaving carefree as if they are still a couple and can move on ? I think i agree with Mohini here, that Paro has hardly been able to fix her own married life, but is busy in reuniting Mala and Dilsher ? I don't understand that is it easy for Dilsher to forget that Mala is someone else's wife now, yes she is Tejawat's wife and not Dilsher's, and its wonderful how Mala and Dilsher also suffers from selective amnesia as they tend to forget it or behave that this phase never existed.

Coming back to Rudra, its high time he gets an explanation from Mala and Dilsher. One is busy slapping him for being brutally honest, yes Rudra has uttered the ultimate truth to Mala but in a harsh manner. And Dilsher is behaving as if Rudra is the villain here, its him who is responsible for all the hatred and disgust Rudra has for Mala, and how conveniently Dilsher took a U turn and is behaving as if Mala was always this angelic and Rudra should worship the angel. RIDICULOUS .
Mala on the other hand, again pitying for herself, crying buckets of tears to explain how she is a poor sould, how she deserves her son's love, and how her son should not hate her ? Wow lady, you have amazed me with the amount of intilligence you have shown to get back your son and his love.
If Mala and Dilsher remains busy in self pitying and cornering Rudra instead of explaining him that what had happened, and how both have wronged him, with ofcourse an apology for being the worst possible parents ever, then how can Rudra even think off reconcilation ? Is it really easy for him to see his parents giggling over their past memories, laughing hard when he does not get a moment of peace to share with his wife ? Afterall he is a human too, who needs a support, who needs momentary peace and cannot die every second to find happiness for future. And he himself said that how he has moved on with so much of struggle and thus he cannot go back and get himself into the misery again, especially when he does not want to lose Paro. How hard is it to understand ? For Paro i just want to say that its good that she wants Rudra to unite with Mala, but why is she pushing the wrong party here ? I mean she is asking the victim to go and make an effort and has put the sinners, that is Dilsher and Mala on pedestal . WHY ?

Highly disappointed with the current track, especially the way CVs will showcase the Mala and Rudra rconcilation, it has become all about how Rudra needs to sacrifice his suffering and accept everyone and everybody without any kind of effort or remorse from the other party only because he is madly in love with his wife and his wife wants him to do that. This is just beyond ridiculous đŸ„±

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Posted: 11 years ago
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hello priya .. i think u are at work ..😆. i was in work too, and still had to make this post on Rudradev .đŸ€”
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Posted: 11 years ago
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Hey dex, lovely and awesome post as usual couldn't agree more, except one bit.
I'm not disappointed in current track. I like the pace it's going on, the cvs r slowly showing its dilsher who is the culprit, it's better this way than one hasty confession where dilsher comes out the villain within 5 mins. Everything is building up, the story is progressing to a centre point where we will hv the grand confrontations between everyone. So patience is the virtue here. But we can't deny the fact that yes in all this rudra is the one whos suffering most.

Lovely post.
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Posted: 11 years ago
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Well said Dexterrocks - I also feel that Parol should not rush Hottie Rudra and go on their honeymoon and then come back and slowly and slowly sort out mommy and daddy issues for Hottie. I know she has best intentions of bringing his parents together but his head is not in the right place at present and he is not prepared to listen to anybody.
I am finding mother's acting and emotions boring and cringe worthy and do fast forward them.

I hope this track ends this week and they go on their honeymoon. And that honeymoon turns out be an explosive one.

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Nice post. .really hate dilsher for slapping rudra. .rudra was absolutely right...the way dilsher and mala were sharing their sweet memorie sorry can't digest because they both are answerable to their son and this mala she really gets on my nerves and paro baisa refuse to go to honeymoon just because of mala..poor rudra really need some peace. ..cvs totally ruined this track.
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Posted: 11 years ago
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Originally posted by: dushturain

Hey dex, lovely and awesome post as usual couldn't agree more, except one bit.

I'm not disappointed in current track. I like the pace it's going on, the cvs r slowly showing its dilsher who is the culprit, it's better this way than one hasty confession where dilsher comes out the villain within 5 mins. Everything is building up, the story is progressing to a centre point where we will hv the grand confrontations between everyone. So patience is the virtue here. But we can't deny the fact that yes in all this rudra is the one whos suffering most.

Lovely post.


i agree that the pace is good now, its limited and balanced.
Only problem i have is Dilsher and Mala getting a free pass without even apologizing to Rudra. Rudra deserves and explanation and an apology too, because he suffered the most and that too with no fault in this matter. It won't be easy for him to absorb the truth that his father was abusive because till date he stood up for his father no matter how much Dilsher had iudra has illtreated him.
I would love to see the confrontations, and i want Rudra to tell these two that how these two are responsible for the damage in Rudra's life, and how whatever Rudra has achieved in life is solely because of his own honesty and talent.
Its hard to believe that selfish creatures like Mala and Dilsher have such an honest and selfless son.
Alas, its Rudra who is suffering again, being constantly pushed by everyone for something where he should not be the one to initiate but the other party who is busy and happy enjoying playing self pity games .
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Posted: 11 years ago
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i havnt watched the episode yet ,read the WU , i found dilsher more incorrect in this case here are my reasons
he has seen his son , he knows what he fed into him , he regrets what he did , but to repent is not through his son , to repent is to clarify with his son ...that i agree

i agree with dushturain the slap was more to show who was at fault here in the entire chain of events , had dilsher been not not at fault the slap wouldnt have happened , the slap was guilt

i see that happening soon ,

mala the issue is megha , i am sympathetic towards her , she may be weak but she faced the worst situation possible from a queen like set up to being kept captive by her loving husband , she has no where to go , nothing to do , as far as ranawats are concerned they are not her own people except rudra , there is no sense of belonging for her , irrespective of whether mala did right or wrong , i think she has faced a lot of atrocities to bounce back quickly , she has nothing in her plate to feel good about herself or her actions
dilsher is in a more stable state he has a son who loves him immensely , he has a family who will support him and takes him as the elder , he has a sense of belonging , so he should take the initiative and talk to rudra and clear the issue for good or bad
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Posted: 11 years ago
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Originally posted by: DexterRocks


i agree that the pace is good now, its limited and balanced.
Only problem i have is Dilsher and Mala getting a free pass without even apologizing to Rudra. Rudra deserves and explanation and an apology too, because he suffered the most and that too with no fault in this matter. It won't be easy for him to absorb the truth that his father was abusive because till date he stood up for his father no matter how much Dilsher had iudra has illtreated him.
I would love to see the confrontations, and i want Rudra to tell these two that how these two are responsible for the damage in Rudra's life, and how whatever Rudra has achieved in life is solely because of his own honesty and talent.
Its hard to believe that selfish creatures like Mala and Dilsher have such an honest and selfless son.
Alas, its Rudra who is suffering again, being constantly pushed by everyone for something where he should not be the one to initiate but the other party who is busy and happy enjoying playing self pity games .


I'm sure mala and disher will apologise to rudra. They HAVE TO...

however I think rudra will believe mala once he is told about dilsher's abusive behaviour mainly because firsthand he knows abt dilshers ill treatment of himself. Rudra will give both of them piece of his mind no doubt, he already has remember he said "if it's all between you two so where did I fit in yr life???" He even said to dilsher "why did u keep pushing poison into me???"I m sure there's more to come from rudra..


And also, though I find Paros character OTT most of the time I think it was correct decision by her not to go on honeymoon. This is the difference between her and Laila. Rudra used to visit Laila to run from his miserable past and Laila accepted that. And again rudra is trying to prevaricate his past and Paro refused. There's no doubt rudra is suffering again, he is been suffering whole his life for his selfish parents but it's time to put a stop to it by facing it.

Rudra is the ultimate Bali ka bakra between two parents, he hates mala after knowing everything he will hate dilsher too. It's just sad the situation he is in, he will suffer either way.

I guess we have to suffer mala and dilsher's self pity games for few more days then it will be interesting to see whether rudra forgives both his parents or only mala.
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Posted: 11 years ago
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Originally posted by: dushturain


I'm sure mala and disher will apologise to rudra. They HAVE TO...

however I think rudra will believe mala once he is told about dilsher's abusive behaviour mainly because firsthand he knows abt dilshers ill treatment of himself. Rudra will give both of them piece of his mind no doubt, he already has remember he said "if it's all between you two so where did I fit in yr life???" He even said to dilsher "why did u keep pushing poison into me???"I m sure there's more to come from rudra..

Yes i do expect Rudra to behave and react sensibly and not worship Mala or dilsher after knowing about Dilsher being abusive. Yes he will defo listen to Mala because afterall he is not as selfish as they are. All i want is an apology which he deserves to get, no matter who was more at fault , both had wronged him, so he is the victim. Its amazing how Dilsher has always illtreated Rudra and still Rudra takes a stand for him only to get slapped by him. The final nail in the coffin will be that he will be aware of his father's abusive nature.

And also, though I find Paros character OTT most of the time I think it was correct decision by her not to go on honeymoon. This is the difference between her and Laila. Rudra used to visit Laila to run from his miserable past and Laila accepted that. And again rudra is trying to prevaricate his past and Paro refused. There's no doubt rudra is suffering again, he is been suffering whole his life for his selfish parents but it's time to put a stop to it by facing it.

I agree, she has the right intentions and not going to honeymoon is debatable, but i dont agree that Rudra wanted the honeymoon to run away from misery. Here his fears were in play, i felt more that he is afraid of losing Paro in the crowd, he has been a person with nil happiness in his life, thus he wants to keep his paro with him and duniya jaye bhaar mein. Didnt u notice how he told Mala that if her actions hurt Paro then he will be always there to heal Paro and the same goes for his baapusa too. In short Rudra has an ideology that Mala will end up at hurting Paro and Dilsher with her so called goody goody acts.

Rudra is the ultimate Bali ka bakra between two parents, he hates mala after knowing everything he will hate dilsher too. It's just sad the situation he is in, he will suffer either way.

Its plane sad, being their only son, he did not get an ounce of love and on top of it betrayal from both of them. And its pretty much sad that how he had to face Tejawat and Mala's truth, that thing stabbed his already broken heart and now it kills him how everyone surrounding him behaves carefree about that matter.

I guess we have to suffer mala and dilsher's self pity games for few more days then it will be interesting to see whether rudra forgives both his parents or only mala.

He will forgive, as i said his love is not selfish, if not for his own sake, then he will do it for Paro there is where the difference lies. I am quite dissapointed that he was slapped yesterday and probably forced to ask an apology from Mala, i hope he doesn't agree with it. He has all the reasons to blast off both his parents and show them their true colors.

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Posted: 11 years ago
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Originally posted by: ttt1

i havnt watched the episode yet ,read the WU , i found dilsher more incorrect in this case here are my reasons

he has seen his son , he knows what he fed into him , he regrets what he did , but to repent is not through his son , to repent is to clarify with his son ...that i agree

i agree with dushturain the slap was more to show who was at fault here in the entire chain of events , had dilsher been not not at fault the slap wouldnt have happened , the slap was guilt

i see that happening soon ,

mala the issue is megha , i am sympathetic towards her , she may be weak but she faced the worst situation possible from a queen like set up to being kept captive by her loving husband , she has no where to go , nothing to do , as far as ranawats are concerned they are not her own people except rudra , there is no sense of belonging for her , irrespective of whether mala did right or wrong , i think she has faced a lot of atrocities to bounce back quickly , she has nothing in her plate to feel good about herself or her actions
dilsher is in a more stable state he has a son who loves him immensely , he has a family who will support him and takes him as the elder , he has a sense of belonging , so he should take the initiative and talk to rudra and clear the issue for good or bad


thats what makes me more sick Priya, that Mala knows that she is no more a ranawat, she has no ties with anyone except Rudra and still she is all happy with everyone, bonding with everyone, and not making an effort to explain to Rudra. And with explanation i mean showing remorse and proper logic to him and not telling him her stories of self pity and self grief. In that case Rudra has the upperhand.
Dilsher as u said has all the advantages and stability and still he is also not taking any effort, i dont know where to bang my head, but these two characters have given me immense headache lately.
Paro well, in all the drama she has less to do these days, she is being a support in Rudra's struggle, great to hear , thats it..

I want Laila and Tejawat back, seriously last 2-3 scenes of laila-Rudra were a stress buster, i hope i get some more instead of obnoxious bonding of Mala and Dilsher.đŸ„±

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