So Rudra was right .

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Posted: 11 years ago
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Mala, oh lady, what are you made up of ? Two minutes of bully, and u feel unworthy of it, and u run away ?
I am glad, Thank you CVs, Rudra's every word just came true tonight, and i just loved it how he asked Paro that " Arent you shattered ?. I know the feeling ".. But yeah thats a different thing that Paro was all ok..LOL

Rudra amazes me, with the kind of patience and attachement he has with someone he loves with full heart, he does give that person the privilege to dominate his heart. The current scenario is quite similar, eventhough being completely right at his stand, i loved it how only for Paro's sake he had went to talk with Mala, somewhere deep down his heart, he knows that he will listen to whatever Paro wishes for, so what if she wishes for something which gives him rememberance of how his past still shadows over his present.

There is a solid sense of understanding for Paro also, otherwise he would not have understood that what paro wanted him to do. And obviously, he does not verbalize this fact, and I am glad that he does not. Even if he does not understand her reasons for supporting Mala, but for him the only thing which probably mattered was Paro wished for something, so he will try to fulfill it.

Coming back to Mala and Paro, both the ladies amaze me. Mala, where should i start ? So this is a sacrifice for Mohini right ? Atleast thats what i can depict from Paro's speeches . Whatever it is, she really thinks that running away again could prove how superior she is ? If she would have remorse or repentance in her, she would stay back, try heal her son, make him aware that how he deserves his mother's love now and not just run away like a coward after one rant of his. Thats utter ridiculous.
And Paro, well, what with this lady ? Rudra romancing her, he is asking her to smile and all, and all she tells him is that he was taking Mala's name in his sleep ? What a timing ..LOL..
Moreover, her whole labor and effort to prove that Mala is a wonderful lady with all superior qualities has just taken a more vigorous and determined turn, it was wonderful, how after Rudra's rant about how Mala ran away again, she goes to him only to ask that will he help her to search for Mala 🥱🥱, cheesy enuff. I think we all expected Paro to react like this only, so it did not shock me that she was still in Mala worshipping mode.
Anyways I am glad that Rudra atleast tries to understand her side and support or help her, unlike her.

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Posted: 11 years ago
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All I want to say is that Rudra has always supported Paro no matter what. This guy loves the ones he loves with all his heart and he's fiercely loyal. Come what may, he will be there for you! He can kill and get killed just to protect his loved ones. His actions speak louder than words and we have seen that time and time again. His only fault is that he expects some love and support in return but gets disappointed! And he still supports them!
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Originally posted by: .Kiran.

All I want to say is that Rudra has always supported Paro no matter what. This guy loves the ones he loves with all his heart and he's fiercely loyal. Come what may, he will be there for you! He can kill and get killed just to protect his loved ones. His actions speak louder than words and we have seen that time and time again. His only fault is that he expects some love and support in return but gets disappointed! And he still supports them!

hey Kiran :)
I still wonder how much more he can give or say to Paro to prove his love ? His verbal confession really does not matter at all now, because as you said his actions are just what he feels. I must say he not only tries to protect her but also ensure that she never feels isolated, tries to live upto her expectations, try and understand her and change himself accordingly. It is plane sad that how after constant and tall claimings Paro comes off as so insensitive to his feelings.
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hey Kiran :)
I still wonder how much more he can give or say to Paro to prove his love ? His verbal confession really does not matter at all now, because as you said his actions are just what he feels. I must say he not only tries to protect her but also ensure that she never feels isolated, tries to live upto her expectations, try and understand her and change himself accordingly. It is plane sad that how after constant and tall claimings Paro comes off as so insensitive to his feelings.


Hey Megha:)

Well, he loves her so there's no "how much for how long". He loves her and that's where it all begins and ends!

With Paro, while her heart is in the right place, I feel there are times where she just pushes him to reconcile with his mom because she thinks he needs to. She needs to understand that those wounds have run too deep for too long and nothing can cure them. Sometimes it's better to cut off the rotten organ and move on rather than keep trying to cure it and keep suffering in the process. Rudra's mom abandoned him and the only reason she came back is because Laila got her here. Not because she wanted to! So, Paro needs to stop with her Mala worshiping and at least try to know the whole damn story before reaching to conclusions and assume that they both want to reconcile. Mala hasn't made any effort to reconcile and Rudra does not want to. So, I don't know why Paro feels the need to unite the two. And oh just because Rudra misses his mom does not mean he needs to let go and forgive his mom. He has fond memories of her and most of all, she is his mom. Of course he will miss her but that doesn't mean take away the suffering of 15 years because of that same mom. He has learnt to move on without her and he was trying to. So leave this matter to him.

Like today she completely ruined the moment by bringing up Mala. He was trying to make her smile and he seemed happy and light-hearted romancing with her but she had to ruin the moment by bringing up Mala. Just let it go man. Ughh I don't know. It's frustrating to see Paro always trying to push Mala down his throat without understanding his pain or understanding the whole damn story. Whereas, he always tries to make her happy and supports her and even let her have her way! Heck he even went to talk to Mala and tomorrow he will look for Mala just for her. But our mahaan Paro will think he did it because he cares for his mom.🥱 Sometimes, she just fails to show her understanding when the need arises. Of course we all know in the end we will have the reconciliation between mother and son and everyone will be singing praises of Paro baisa because that's how things work here! But personally I always felt Rudra never wanted to reconcile with his mom and he was trying to move on with Paro. Oh well...
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Originally posted by: .Kiran.


Hey Megha:)

Well, he loves her so there's no "how much for how long". He loves her and that's where it all begins and ends!

With Paro, while her heart is in the right place, I feel there are times where she just pushes him to reconcile with his mom because she thinks he needs to. She needs to understand that those wounds have run too deep for too long and nothing can cure them. Sometimes it's better to cut off the rotten organ and move on rather than keep trying to cure it and keep suffering in the process. Rudra's mom abandoned him and the only reason she came back is because Laila got her here. Not because she wanted to! So, Paro needs to stop with her Mala worshiping and at least try to know the whole damn story before reaching to conclusions and assume that they both want to reconcile. Mala hasn't made any effort to reconcile and Rudra does not want to. So, I don't know why Paro feels the need to unite the two. And oh just because Rudra misses his mom does not mean he needs to let go and forgive his mom. He has fond memories of her and most of all, she is his mom. Of course he will miss her but that doesn't mean take away the suffering of 15 years because of that same mom. He has learnt to move on without her and he was trying to. So leave this matter to him.

Like today she completely ruined the moment by bringing up Mala. He was trying to make her smile and he seemed happy and light-hearted romancing with her but she had to ruin the moment by bringing up Mala. Just let it go man. Ughh I don't know. It's frustrating to see Paro always trying to push Mala down his throat without understanding his pain or understanding the whole damn story. Whereas, he always tries to make her happy and supports her and even let her have her way! Heck he even went to talk to Mala and tomorrow he will look for Mala just for her. But our mahaan Paro will think he did it because he cares for his mom.🥱 Sometimes, she just fails to show her understanding when the need arises. Of course we all know in the end we will have the reconciliation between mother and son and everyone will be singing praises of Paro baisa because that's how things work here! But personally I always felt Rudra never wanted to reconcile with his mom and he was trying to move on with Paro. Oh well...


Kiran its not only you, i think many of us also think alike. Yes Rudra never wanted to reconcile with Mala, esp after he found out that she was tejawat's wife, this chapter for Rudra got closed, his suffering and desire for his mother's love had turned out to become disgust and loathe, and he wanted to let go, and move on. He did that also, he had moved on, and now at this point he really does not need Mala, his main motive, desire, need and love is only for Paro, he does not need a substitue for his mother which Paro wants to provide him, NO. Paro has only one problem that she is rather delusional, she thinks the way she assumes things, they will go in that direction, and the worst is she does not get reality checks alos after multiple warnings and explanations from Rudra.

I was superpissed that during the angaan romance all Paro thought about was Mala, like WTH, who behaves or even thinks like that at such situation ?

@bold:- thats the ultimate truth of Rudra, when there is love, its just there, he does not know to reason it, all he does is doing everything which can make Paro happy, no matter if its about searching or talking with Mala, no matter even if it means that cornering his 15 years of suffering and embracing what Paro wants to. He is all about her, and i guess she still needs a confession from him of that sorts, which he will give her soon.
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Posted: 11 years ago
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Lovely post. .paro really spoil rudra's romantic mood, poor guy always want to get close to paro. .but yeh paro bhi na...I hope she will come out of mala worshipping mode.
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Posted: 11 years ago
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Originally posted by: .Kiran.

All I want to say is that Rudra has always supported Paro no matter what. This guy loves the ones he loves with all his heart and he's fiercely loyal. Come what may, he will be there for you! He can kill and get killed just to protect his loved ones. His actions speak louder than words and we have seen that time and time again. His only fault is that he expects some love and support in return but gets disappointed! And he still supports them!

Well said baisa.
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Posted: 11 years ago
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Its frustating to see that how Dilsher and Paro does not acknowledge Rudra's efforts, Rudra is trying atleast, he will search for Mala only for Paro's sake.
I thought Paro would be shocked seeing Mala running away, but she was not.
I would love to see Rudra and Mala reconciling but not like this, they must show that Rudra's words are heard too. I ahve a feeling, he will reconcile with Mala only because Paro wants it.
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Posted: 11 years ago
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Paro baisa and timing can nrv go together , rudy is all in the mood for romance and all she can come up with is 'mala'.i wanted that scene to be longer .
even after mala leaving , paro going behind her is not rite , usually proof milne ke baad she goes to rudra side , and now acc. to some scroll promo the mala worshiping is going to continue .

The best part for me was shirtless jalak of ashish 😳 , gosh when will he go fully shirtless
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Paro really needs to learn in the moment. When she said, someone may see them, that was sensible as they were in the open courtyard. But talk about him calling out his mother, what was that? Why was she even thinking about anything else. She should listen when her husband tells her to clear her mind.
We all know since Mala - Paro reunion, she wants to play happy family and not loving couple. So not really surprised when she asked him to go after her favorite runaway.
As much as I would like to believe, I don't think Rudra is through with Mala. I think he still wants answers for her actions. I don't think he longs for her presence and affection anymore. He is too wrapped up with Paro to need anybody else right now. It's high time she realises it.
Mala is one of those people who never grow up. They always need to be petted and pampered. If they don't find affection and care with someone, they will simply move on. They don't know that people have to be won over. Only babies get away by just being cute. Since the two people who she cared about, Rudra and Mohini are upset with her, she left. How stupid is that? Did she try to explain herself or defend her actions or atleast apologise for throwing her family away? No, so why should either of them embrace her back into their fold. What happened to all the lessons about love, family and devotion that she supposedly taught Paro? Are those just for everyone but her. I really hope Rudra doesn't readily forgive her. Let him bring her home for his wife's happiness but let him tell her that. Let her earn his affection and trust. It's not fair to make him give it to her on a silver platter.

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