A woman or a mother ? It looks simple but it's not that easy! - Page 2

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Posted: 11 years ago
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A mother's love is the most selfless love, all other loves pale in its comparison. A woman who can abandon her child ( because she wants to LIVE her life ) is THE MOST SELFISH/ LOVELESS person. If a woman couldn't love her child who is a part of her then can you expect that woman to love someone else ?? Regarding Mala, as of now I despise her . Rest,let's see .
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Posted: 11 years ago
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Originally posted by: ttt1


Is it okay to be in a love less relationship because she is a mother
Relationship breaks there are repercussions , and children face it the most
But isn't it a better way to deal with a broken relationship well and not let the hatred or mistrust reach the child rather than be together like mohini
She sdid her children no good , meaningless relationship also are bad for kids , unnecessary fight can leave a bigger scare at times
Like disher he was there physically but traumatized the kid by poisoning him what is the point that US bad parenting as well


agree!! its endless topic for debate. we have to wait and watch. i am against abusive marriage with constant fights but loveless marriage is different if both partners have their own space then staying together for children becomes meaningful. its my personal view.
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Posted: 11 years ago
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Originally posted by: mpat

Absolutely not!!!

A woman should first and foremost be loyal to herself. She should strive for the happiness she wants for herself and in that can she then nurture those close to her, be it husband and/or children either living in a family unit or separated. Children are responsibility of both parents not just mothers!! Sometimes easier said then done!! Many thoughts on this subject, but don't care to write an essay.

Having said that, in this story we don't know the circumstance in which Mala left home so no judgement. I am sure Mohini had a big hand in it since she wanted her sister to be hated by all those who loved her and also to take over the property for herself and in the process also demoralize Dilsher and Rudra. Mala did come back for Rudra but he was no longer at the haveli. For all we know Mohini probably promised Mala that she would take care of Rudra as her own. Besides Rudra was not abandoned...Dilsher was there!!



She can be good mother and a wife only if she is happy... if she is unhappy she can not even be a good person, forget rest of the roles

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