How much can Rudra do to save the marriage now ? - Page 3

Ditto. I like this quality in him. That shows his intilligence and tendecy of maintaining a self respect. He is being more patiet with Paro than any man could be at this conditions, moreover he also gives her the upperhand, if this is not love then i dont know how to define it . Paro, is just going to regret hard in future, i wish that situation never comes and she gets the realization that she is being plane stupid with her blind trust in laila.

And I agree with everything you said. Paro needs to stop and trust Rudra. She just needs for once listen to him without dismissing his every word.

Since the debacle of a marriage, Rudra has claimed to make Paro's life miserable, and although he has been a protector, he has never shown her his love.

I can protect someone without being in love with them.

How is Paro supposed to understand his protecting her to be love ? His words belie his actions. What exactly has he done for his marriage, except marry her in a nautanki, and claim to one and all that he will make her life miserable every single day ?

I know we women, when we ask a guy to stop smoking, get taken as being in love with that guy (this happened to me in college), but as a woman I can tell you that I will never trust a guy easily, not until I have it in writing in his blood.

So I don't blame Paro for being insecure, and Rudra's stating - hamaare beech mein kucch ho ya na ho - lends credence to her insecurities. Its like he is telling her - babe there will never be anything between us.

So Paro has every right to be insecure, especially when the object of his lust is in her face.

Yes, Paro shouldn't try to befrend Laila, but as Paro said - Rudra has to decide if he loves Paro, whether Laila is there or not, because, Rudra claims that he has no feelings for Laila.

Any woman would want to know of her husband's love, even though the long term goal is to leave him. This is probably womanly vanity.

Bang on... ! Exactly what I wanted to say but couldn't put in words! Right now Paro has insecurities about their relationship. She's not at all worried about what Rudra has in his past and she's made it clear to Maithali about this previously or Laila as a matter of fact!

Rudra is not able to clearly say what he feels, yes he did say that he cares for her, he is hurt when she is in pain, etc but for Paro to understand that after his confessions and remembrance of his 8 vachans, it would definitely be difficult for her to overcome her insecurities! makes sense?

What Rudra needs to say clearly is "I love you and that's what matters", but will he put this point forward??? Yet to see...once he does that TRPs will increase because another Jaiput track will be in the making 😉

She is not as naive as to trust Laila blindly, especially since Laila openly taunts her and her relationship with Rudra. Maithili has had to step in on occasions for her. Paro is not stupid to not notice that Laila is not as noble as she tries to come across as. Her so called friendship with Laila is beyond my grasp. You may not mind her presence, because your insecurity lies in your relationship with your husband, but is there a need to be pally with her and hang out and share childhood stories with her? Would any wife, irrespective of their internal relationship with the husband, hang out and chill with a woman from hubby's past who makes it a point to stake claim on him in subtle taunts?

And what is her zidd of pushing Rudra to the wall into saying what he feels? She has plans to leave him, so why this rubbish need? And she jolly well knows that his reluctance for love and a relationship stems from age old mommy issues, not Laila. So why is she mixing those up and making him feel guilty about Laila? Paro has insecurities from her marriage, but they stem from her husband's mind set about women and marriages due to his parent's broken marriage. This has been clear to her since he confided in her. So, why is she attuning his refusal to accept his feelings or assure her of their relationship to his past with Laila?

He has gone above and beyond to prove to Paro that he cares only for her. She insisted on marrying him, even though she knew he doesn't love her. She saw Bhole nath in him and some doll connection and only relied on her love fro him to get her through this marriage. So why now start questioning him and his feelings? Rudra is a man struggling with demons and this is not a revelation to her. She has always known that about him. So how about rewinding on her own preconceived ideas about this marriage and reminding herself of her eternal love and trust on him irrespective of his behavior?

This is seriously pushing him to the wall. I am amazed that a man like Rudra is time and again taking this nonsense. HAving seen his tolerance for drama, he is really going out of his way to prove a point. Just like she did by standing on one foot in the rain. She didn't need words to tell him then how much she is willing to do for his forgiveness. And now, he is doing more than he ever has to show her he cares about her, but suddenly she needs words out of his mouth. Will someone remind her that this was not the premise she had decided to stay married to him for?

Laila is going to stick in this house. Watch, because PAro will not let her go. Pushing her in Rudra's face as a bait to declare his love for her. This emotional blackmailing is not kosher at all.

To be frank, Paro is not wrong from her point of view. Rudra is correct from his. Paro is not concerned about Laila being around. She got to know the truth and inside her she is happy that she got to know from Rudra himself and she is ready to accept him but at this juncture, she can't open her mouth and tell Laila to leave! Rudra is doing that and hopefully, she's gone today but it's not that this will help her progress in her relationship with Rudra.

if you think from Rudra's point of view, he's feeling insecure about Laila being there. He has told Paro everything and he knows she's hurt but I am sure he knows deep inside that she will not stop loving him but because Laila is around, he is not able to open up to her. Guess Paro does not see this clearly enough as currently her mind is focused on knowing if he's ready to move on...

I think i rambled too much ... not sure if it makes any sense! lol!😆