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Posted: 11 years ago
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When the episode started I thought .. hey this one may be a good one.. we have all the current and presumed future jodis.. all in one episode. I mean we had the prodigal son and the man in uniform both appear in the same episode. Could it be any better???

There were so many jokes going on in my head I couldn't even make a mental note of them all.. but then they had to use the classic weeping willow to dampen the spirits.

Paro had my respect yesterday when she stated that its not Rudra's past she has a issue with cause that was before her but its the future with him that she is worried about cause he has not given her any rights as his wife. Infact when she recalled his vows and wept it was because she realised that he may live up to his words.
After all here was a man who was involved with a woman intimately for 8 long years and felt no emotional connect to her. How could she know she wasnt going to have the same fate??
So when she questioned him about the same.. she just wanted him to give her the reason to believe theirs was a different relationship!

However, today's episode just took off on a different route all together for me. From taking the stand that you cant force someone to love at the start of the episode, Paro moved to almost emotionally blackmailing Rudra to love her when she said " Can the king give his heart to her"??
That's a lot of pressure to put. The guy has made it more than clear in words and action that Laila means nothing to him... yet instead of going with that and giving it time to strengthen their relationship Paro wants a fairly tale... yet wouldn't accept it.

I may be able to even bring myself to sympathize with this aspect of her but what really has started to annoy me is that she chooses to listen to every crap Laila has to say instead of shutting her up. Its always Rudra that gives her a tongue lash.
Laila says some crap and Paro starts hyperventilating. This doesn't seem to be the same sorted girl who claims not to be threatened by Laila's presence. Any idiot with a pair of eyes can see that Laila is still into Rudra while Rudra is as aloof as he can be with any living creature.

Also whats with the men in the Ranawat haveli? Do the so called elders of house have nothing to say to Laila? Why cant Dilsher, who at any given time has the sharpest of tongues, tell Laila to watch it? Does the lack of television in the Ranawat haveli really create such a desperate atmosphere for entertainment???

I wish the writer would choose a more realistic way of getting Rudra to realise his feeling without Dal- chawal talk!! Why do we always have to go to the obsolete way of story telling???

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Posted: 11 years ago
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I will just brief about what i felt after the episode.
Love is not a small feeling that you can boast about it million times and that ensures the people surrounding you, its also about living your life for the person, smiling for someone elses smile. I agree Rudra was never vocal about his feelings, but does not his actions express that he cares only for paro and not for laila. It was really aweful that he arranged this whole puppet show only for her and all she thought about was he and laila still having an affair ? she even said that how he does not want her in his life ? Why do u do this paro ? It does hurt him, it was not a cake walk for him to confess his black past, but he still did, and not because he wanted you to go away or bring in laila.
He is also a human, and enough of blackmailing him emotionally, intentionally or unintentionally, she is crucifying his emotions, he is trying his level best to normalize the situation and all she thinks is that laila is innocent and Rudra can be shunned ?
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Posted: 11 years ago
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I agee 100%. I don't understand Paro right now, the CVs have made her very contradictory.
And oh yeah, Dilsher can give a piece of his mind to Rudra...and he talked to Paro...why can't he give a warning to Laila??
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Posted: 11 years ago
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However, today's episode just took off on a different route all together for me. From taking the stand that you cant force someone to love at the start of the episode, Paro moved to almost emotionally blackmailing Rudra to love her when she said " Can the king give his heart to her"??
That's a lot of pressure to put. The guy has made it more than clear in words and action that Laila means nothing to him... yet instead of going with that and giving it time to strengthen their relationship Paro wants a fairly tale... yet wouldn't accept it.



I completely agree with your post especially the part above in bold!

I felt exactly the same...Paro said she doesn't want to force him to love her...and is doing exactly that!

She also said it's not about Laila...but her actions indicate clearly that it is! If it's like Laila should stay there and Rudra should ignore her well even that's happened...the guy wants nothing to do with her...of course he would be uncomfortable with her presence...that would be the case even after he declares his love to Paro!

More than saying he wants nothing to do with Laila his actions clearly show he cares for Paro...why wouldn't she take those moments and let the relationship build?

This js so confusing...her stance of soulmates may have been affected by the revelation but her reactions and h questions seem confusing!

And yes...all her questions are in front of Laila...as if to prove a point...and now we have KCM taking advantage of this fact and pointing out things Laila knows that Paro doesn't! Of course Laila would know...the reason why isn't a mystery anymore! She hasn't erased the past...!
However Rudra has moved on and this is clear from his responses in situations where Laila tries to assert that she knows him well...he rebuffs her and clearly says something favourable to Paro!

Still...

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Posted: 11 years ago
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Originally posted by: Zeeliciousxo

I agee 100%. I don't understand Paro right now, the CVs have made her very contradictory.

And oh yeah, Dilsher can give a piece of his mind to Rudra...and he talked to Paro...why can't he give a warning to Laila??



My sentiments exactly!!

In order to spice up the episodes... they are really pep up the scenes with Laila's vampish characteristics and trying to make the viewers empathise with Paro. But contrary to that Paro's dialogues really sound contradictory to what she says a while back!
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Originally posted by: prettypri

However, today's episode just took off on a different route all together for me. From taking the stand that you cant force someone to love at the start of the episode, Paro moved to almost emotionally blackmailing Rudra to love her when she said " Can the king give his heart to her"??
That's a lot of pressure to put. The guy has made it more than clear in words and action that Laila means nothing to him... yet instead of going with that and giving it time to strengthen their relationship Paro wants a fairly tale... yet wouldn't accept it.




I completely agree with your post especially the part above in bold!

I felt exactly the same...Paro said she doesn't want to force him to love her...and is doing exactly that!

She also said it's not about Laila...but her actions indicate clearly that it is! If it's like Laila should stay there and Rudra should ignore her well even that's happened...the guy wants nothing to do with her...of course he would be uncomfortable with her presence...that would be the case even after he declares his love to Paro!

More than saying he wants nothing to do with Laila his actions clearly show he cares for Paro...why wouldn't she take those moments and let the relationship build?

This js so confusing...her stance of soulmates may have been affected by the revelation but her reactions and h questions seem confusing!



She wants Laila to stay... check.. laila is still there
She wants Rudra to ignore her.. check.. he seems to be biting her head off at every opportunity and infact paro keeps coming to laila's rescue
She wants him to work on their relationship... check.. the guy who didnt even pay for his wedding paid and got the puppet show home.. come one now!!!
She doesnt want to force him to fall in love with her... but she seems to be only doing that!!!

And whats the best part of this all.. is that she claims she wants him to confirm if he can love her back and on the other hand has plans to leave him as soon as he gets better!! Bot I would be mad if I was in his place!!
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Posted: 11 years ago
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Originally posted by: jules



My sentiments exactly!!

In order to spice up the episodes... they are really pep up the scenes with Laila's vampish characteristics and trying to make the viewers empathise with Paro. But contrary to that Paro's dialogues really sound contradictory to what she says a while back!


General viewers (at least the ones I know) are definitely not empathizing with Paro...my whole family (grandparents, parents, aunt and uncle, cousins) and some friends watch RR and yesterday they were all ranting about Paro. They hate how she's acting, all of them are confused and don't understand what Paro wants when Rudra shows her very clearly through his actions and even through his words now that he cares for her, that he wants her...that he feels for her in a way that he has never felt for Laila.

My grandpa was so upset he said he couldn't go to sleep until he'd ranted all his angry feelings out to me 😆 His biggest problem is how Paro isn't kicking Laila out of the haveli...and how Paro is acting so kind to her...not putting the churail in her place when she speaks crap...but is lashing out on Rudra...when he hasn't done anything...in fact all he's indulged in are actions that prove that he WANTS Paro...not that he wants her out of his life
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Posted: 11 years ago
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Originally posted by: prettypri

However, today's episode just took off on a different route all together for me. From taking the stand that you cant force someone to love at the start of the episode, Paro moved to almost emotionally blackmailing Rudra to love her when she said " Can the king give his heart to her"??
That's a lot of pressure to put. The guy has made it more than clear in words and action that Laila means nothing to him... yet instead of going with that and giving it time to strengthen their relationship Paro wants a fairly tale... yet wouldn't accept it.




I completely agree with your post especially the part above in bold!

I felt exactly the same...Paro said she doesn't want to force him to love her...and is doing exactly that!

She also said it's not about Laila...but her actions indicate clearly that it is! If it's like Laila should stay there and Rudra should ignore her well even that's happened...the guy wants nothing to do with her...of course he would be uncomfortable with her presence...that would be the case even after he declares his love to Paro!

More than saying he wants nothing to do with Laila his actions clearly show he cares for Paro...why wouldn't she take those moments and let the relationship build?

This js so confusing...her stance of soulmates may have been affected by the revelation but her reactions and h questions seem confusing!

And yes...all her questions are in front of Laila...as if to prove a point...and now we have KCM taking advantage of this fact and pointing out things Laila knows that Paro doesn't! Of course Laila would know...the reason why isn't a mystery anymore! She hasn't erased the past...!
However Rudra has moved on and this is clear from his responses in situations where Laila tries to assert that she knows him well...he rebuffs her and clearly says something favourable to Paro!

Still...


Pri did u notice that how maithili even explained paro that its not about laila anymore, its about her and Rudra now, and laila must go. Paro tells maithili that what if Rudra still loves laila ? first of all, when did he ever say that he loved laila ? Paro still did not get why Rudra confessed to her, she thinks Rudra confessed to her because he wants her out of his life, and i can only pity Rudra here, poor guy wanted to maintain the sancity of the relationship and what he gets back ? Just once again Paro is forcing him with her delusional arguements, before it was about him being lord shiv and now about him loving laila. will there be any situation when she will actually listen to Rudra ?
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Posted: 11 years ago
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i kind of felt the same way too with Paro's questioning...why does it matter to her...how can u enforce it on R...
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Posted: 11 years ago
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Paro's thoughts and actions are very difficult for me to wrap my head around...I felt like Mohini spoke my mind today when she said, "Is ghar ka mausam har ghante badalta hai"...One moment Paro is saying she isn't upset over Rudra's past, yet all her actions show just how upset and affected she is by Laila and she is now CORNERING Rudra over this somehow painting him the villain despite his vehement denials over how Laila means nothing to him...

I honestly can't figure out exactly what Paro wants from Rudra...in one breath she tells Mohini you can't FORCE someone to love you, then by the end of the epi she's sobbing over why Rudra hasn't given her his heart yet?😕

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