Some temporary amnesia at work here?

Ok nice epi overall...

Things I liked:

1) The anti-climactic dream...lol I was thinking this might be Rudra's dream but I guess I should have known that Paro is the one who wants to imagine him more confused about his feelings for Laila...she is jealous whether she admits it or not😆...so the dream was a manifestation of her worst nightmare...that Rudra is still hung up on Laila...


2) Rudra blasting Laila off in the morning...lol now there's the Rudra we know and love...btw Laila is getting new costumes and earrings now? I guess that proves she's here to stay...ahh well.


3)Rudra asking for chai...Paro...awww😆...he looked so cute standing all awkwardly at the kitchen door trying to figure out how to talk to Paro...and so hurt when Paro refused to pour it for him.


4) Dilsher deciding to intervene...and making Rudra realize that Paro will need time to digest this...I'm glad that Rudra clarified that he would never have wanted to keep Paro in the dark...and Dilsher asked the all important question...what does this marriage mean to Rudra...does he truly want to save this marriage...is that why he felt the need to come clean about his past?


5) Rudra-Paro's scene in their room when he tries to ask her why she wants Laila to stay...interesting convo here😆...if I didn't know better, I'd say Paro all but asked him why he hasn't made her his patni in the FULL sense yet😆...that is surely the tone in which her line went..."I just have this red thread to symbolize me as your wife...am I REALLY your wife?"😆...and Rudra looked guilty and stumped when she asked him this...the main question being she feels unsure of her place in his life now...she asks him what right does she even have to question him about Laila.

So I guess some introspection is coming up for Rudra based on what Dilsher asked him and what Paro asked him.



Things I find a bit strange:

Ok so Paro isn't actually judging him over his past...she clarified to Maithili that she doesn't judge him for a past that happened before he married her...that's quite surprisingly nice to know...but she now wants to know if he can ever love her.

Pausing here for a bit...Let's rewind, Paro...remember the days when you said you will win his love toffee deke, dhamkaa ke, sure shot any way? What happened to all that?😆...I'm just trying to figure out the whole about turn again...I was going with the assumption that Paro has such faith in her own love compelling him to fall in love with her that I never thought she would think this also...but seeing a living reminder of her husband's past in front of her seems to have compelled Paro to question if no matter what she does, Rudra will ever love her...I guess what I'm saying is I'd have liked some elaboration/qualification of how this fits in with Paro's claims of divine symbolisms and BHAGYA as she's quoted time and again...does Bhagya suddenly go POOF when you find out that your husband had an 8 year long affair and that means BHAGYA may not necessarily make him fall in love with you?


Another thing...I'm a bit surprised that Paro is more focussed on whether Rudra can love her or not considering that she herself has vowed to leave him anyways...so what is the point of him loving her or not then?😕 If she's going to leave him anyways...what will she have achieved by getting some patni haq from him?😕... Has Paro thought this through?😕 Have the writers thought this through?🤔

Bang on, your entire post reflects my own thoughts 😆 Ah well, I guess we'll see what the CVs have in store for us...

hey anu

Originally posted by: AreYaar

Ok nice epi overall...

Things I liked:

1) The anti-climactic dream...lol I was thinking this might be Rudra's dream but I guess I should have known that Paro is the one who wants to imagine him more confused about his feelings for Laila...she is jealous whether she admits it or not😆...so the dream was a manifestation of her worst nightmare...that Rudra is still hung up on Laila...


2) Rudra blasting Laila off in the morning...lol now there's the Rudra we know and love...btw Laila is getting new costumes and earrings now? I guess that proves she's here to stay...ahh well.


3)Rudra asking for chai...Paro...awww😆...he looked so cute standing all awkwardly at the kitchen door trying to figure out how to talk to Paro...and so hurt when Paro refused to pour it for him.


4) Dilsher deciding to intervene...and making Rudra realize that Paro will need time to digest this...I'm glad that Rudra clarified that he would never have wanted to keep Paro in the dark...and Dilsher asked the all important question...what does this marriage mean to Rudra...does he truly want to save this marriage...is that why he felt the need to come clean about his past?


5) Rudra-Paro's scene in their room when he tries to ask her why she wants Laila to stay...interesting convo here😆...if I didn't know better, I'd say Paro all but asked him why he hasn't made her his patni in the FULL sense yet😆...that is surely the tone in which her line went..."I just have this red thread to symbolize me as your wife...am I REALLY your wife?"😆...and Rudra looked guilty and stumped when she asked him this...the main question being she feels unsure of her place in his life now...she asks him what right does she even have to question him about Laila.

So I guess some introspection is coming up for Rudra based on what Dilsher asked him and what Paro asked him.



Things I find a bit strange:

Ok so Paro isn't actually judging him over his past...she clarified to Maithili that she doesn't judge him for a past that happened before he married her...that's quite surprisingly nice to know...but she now wants to know if he can ever love her.

Pausing here for a bit...Let's rewind, Paro...remember the days when you said you will win his love toffee deke, dhamkaa ke, sure shot any way? What happened to all that?😆...I'm just trying to figure out the whole about turn again...I was going with the assumption that Paro has such faith in her own love compelling him to fall in love with her that I never thought she would think this also...but seeing a living reminder of her husband's past in front of her seems to have compelled Paro to question if no matter what she does, Rudra will ever love her...I guess what I'm saying is I'd have liked some elaboration/qualification of how this fits in with Paro's claims of divine symbolisms and BHAGYA as she's quoted time and again...does Bhagya suddenly go POOF when you find out that your husband had an 8 year long affair and that means BHAGYA may not necessarily make him fall in love with you?


Another thing...I'm a bit surprised that Paro is more focussed on whether Rudra can love her or not considering that she herself has vowed to leave him anyways...so what is the point of him loving her or not then?😕 If she's going to leave him anyways...what will she have achieved by getting some patni haq from him?😕... Has Paro thought this through?😕 Have the writers thought this through?🤔

Anu can i just copy paste my own thread here ?🤔🤣

Originally posted by: ttt1

hey anu

nice post!

i will re post what i posted in DR's thread

a MU is very much possible because the base of their relationship is not trust , but some delusion which broke with a reality check

dilsher i disagree with keeping the truth from paro , she needs to know

i partially agree with diisher about the timing thats the whole issue , its too early for her to understand him or his stand

he did what was best that is the another issue

actually i liked paro today , for the first time i saw a real girl , who was just jealous and subconsciously angry and demanded for security demanded for answers

rudra did whatever he thought was best , very sincere and honest attempt

paro is not angry with rudra , she is angry or rather hurt that her dream is broken , so she is questioning the base of the relationship

and she is right here , what is the base of their relationship ?????

about paro keeping laila at home , i think she is trying to get answers , she always justifies thing her way , so yeah this is her way

i think what she meant is , if its his past it shouldnt bother at all , it is not it is no point at all

underlying feeling is she is insecure , and she doesnt want to believe it is cos of laila ,

not a correct way to deal

i think a conversation is not sufficient to mend trust , i am curious how they take it from here

last para , i coudnt agree more , that is amnesia

Exactly...chit bhi Paro ki, pat bhi Paro ki😆...When she felt this was divine symbolism and Rudra should marry her and accept her, then also she was right in her own eyes...now she's found out he has a past and she wants REASSURANCE of her status in his life, now also she is right...Paro's way or the highway, basically😆...Just that THE VOW seems to have been thrown out of the equation temporarily...Guess Paro will re-insert it with a convenient explanation when the time comes😆

Yes, Paro was very human today...she was jealous, she was kinda petty with the way she refused to give Rudra the tea or talk to him, shrugged off his arm...then there was the moment when she was so touched by him cupping her cheek and telling her he can't see her in pain...many shades to Paro today...

Paro is definitely angry with Rudra no matter what she says...she will only come around if she gets reassurance now...

Well we all are the ones saying that Paro needs time...but in her own mind, her own viewpoint Paro sounds crystal clear about what she wants...as she explained to Maithili so calmly today...she wants to know if Rudra loves her, if he accepts her as his wife...the vow be damned for now😆

Originally posted by: DexterRocks

Anu can i just copy paste my own thread here ?🤔🤣

Anu Paro's awful dream. huh she thinks Rudra would stoop that low and enjoy adultery and that hug, how biased Paro is..🤣

tonight I am a happy bee, because mhaara Rudra dev came out to be all transparent, and someone else proved that how claims are easy to make and living up to the expectations are hard. moreover, I am happy that Rudra actually told her that he cares for her and only her and seeing her in that condition hurts him the most.

LOL sure you can.

Yes, in a sense Rudra was validated today...he's always been transparent in his emotions and thoughts...the bit where he tells her that only SHE matters and the way he cups her face was really intense...nice scene.

Paro was more human today than she has been so far...but if they are going to do away with the divine symbolisms and BHAGYA version of Paro for good, I would like some clarification/closure atleast.

Originally posted by: AreYaar

Exactly...chit bhi Paro ki, pat bhi Paro ki😆...When she felt this was divine symbolism and Rudra should marry her and accept her, then also she was right in her own eyes...now she's found out he has a past and she wants REASSURANCE of her status in his life, now also she is right...Paro's way or the highway, basically😆...Just that THE VOW seems to have been thrown out of the equation temporarily...Guess Paro will re-insert it with a convenient explanation when the time comes😆

Yes, Paro was very human today...she was jealous, she was kinda petty with the way she refused to give Rudra the tea or talk to him, shrugged off his arm...then there was the moment when she was so touched by him cupping her cheek and telling her he can't see her in pain...many shades to Paro today...

Paro is definitely angry with Rudra no matter what she says...she will only come around if she gets reassurance now...

Well we all are the ones saying that Paro needs time...but in her own mind, her own viewpoint Paro sounds crystal clear about what she wants...as she explained to Maithili so calmly today...she wants to know if Rudra loves her, if he accepts her as his wife...the vow be damned for now😆

ok Anu, copy pasting my huge rant over here, dont know did u read it or not, but read it now..LOL

I seriously feel and have not only felt this but pointed it out a zillion times...the cvs are moving the story ahead at the cost of Paro's character. Her attitude, thoughts, feelings change according to the story line. Paro here is the proverbial sacrificial lamb, any time they want to introduce a new angle to the story, Paro is changed conveniently, her character consistency always going for a toss. Its a shame!!