Some reality checks for both Rudra and Paro

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Posted: 11 years ago
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Today's episode was a major let down for Rudra, the whole aftermath has just proved to be going against him now, but i was glad to see that he still was not regretting about his confession, he is happy that he did not keep Paro unaware of his past.
Rudra, some reality checks which he got tonight. Most important one was that Paro is not the person who she claimed to be, infact she is also a human being, and her claims cannot stand tall and true for a matter of fact. It was his fault that he had that miniature hope that probably she would understand the situation. It is very much ok that she did not, but it is not ok when she is being still manipulated by laila and doubting on him. What a major eye roll moment it was . It was his fault that he could not make himself capable of his wife's trust, it was his fault that after constant denials he finally had to give up to her resolve and open up his past to her, it was very early, Rudra should have done it may be once he had assured her that he loved her, because her comprehension does not have the capacity to even understand his pleas.

Paro well, i am happy that my judgement about her was right, very much right, her actions and words are contradictory and moreover her thought process is influenced by anyone, she fails to use her brains.
This same girl, till yesterday claimed that she does not want anything from the marriage and just wants to serve Rudra, and now as he reveals the truth, the jealousy, the insecurity makes her doubt him and claim for her rights ? GREAT. this is feasible for a wife, but not for Paro who had those tall claims, what a troll.

Poor Rudra could not even believe that Paro was actually asking him that whats the problem if laila stays in the house ? even maithili was left speecheless . Paro, thats what you are great at, ensuring laila that you are an easy catch and thus in the process letting her win.
When maithili asked her about what blunder she is doing, she replies that hse need sto know that what Rudra feels for her. But did not she say to maithili that Rudra is changing, he is affectionate towards her ? Did not she claim that she trusts him ? Maithili herself was in a state of consfusion.

And, what was that hilarious dream about ? Rudra enjoying adultery and that hug, but no, its Paro who thought so low about him, a major confession about his past and the heroic image changed. The trust vanished, now he gets reduced to someone who needs to prove him his chastity ? Wow Paro.

Some reality checks for Rudra also, slowly he is being questioned about why he cares for her so much, so yes Rudra just realize the feelings you have for her and embrace them. Dilsher knew about Rudra's past and asking him to give Paro space was a good scene, but Dilsher again does not know the equation between these two, so it is not easy for Rudra to see Paro doubtful about him and still keep quiet, obviously he will try to explain her.

Lastly, that means Paro being the everwhite and innocent like an angel will keep laila in the house, because she thinks throwing laila will bring her down in her eyes. Good thinking, but then why do you expect Rudra to react all normal at Laila's presence ? He has brains unlike you and he knows her intentions, so he will try his best to keep laila away, is it really easy for him to behave nicely with laila and if he does not then that means he is in love with her ? what utter nonsense ?

Only good thing Paro did is that finally she is behaving like a human being, but CVs I am happy bee now, because i have got the irony you tried to showcase, yes paro does not understand Rudra and neither Rudra does, But Paro claims to understand him and give him a life full of love and support but question his chastity whereas Rudra damages his own image and self respect on the verge of being truthful to her.

The episode was a beauty considering Rudra's emotions, only if the scenes would be longer. Loved that he and his father had a private conversation and similarly how he asked laila to leave the house and how he claimed that its hurtful to see Paro like that.



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Posted: 11 years ago
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hey megha
this is what i was trying to explain in anu's thread ,
a MU is very much possible because the base of their relationship is not trust , but some delusion which broke with a reality check
dilsher i disagree with keeping the truth from paro , she needs to know
i partially agree with diisher about the timing thats the whole issue , its too early for her to understand him or his stand
he did what was best that is the another issue
actually i liked paro today , for the first time i saw a real girl , who was just jealous and subconsciously angry and demanded for security demanded for answers



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Posted: 11 years ago
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Originally posted by: ttt1

hey megha

this is what i was trying to explain in anu's thread ,
a MU is very much possible because the base of their relationship is not trust , but some delusion which broke with a reality check
dilsher i disagree with keeping the truth from paro , she needs to know
i partially agree with diisher about the timing thats the whole issue , its too early for her to understand him or his stand
he did what was best that is the another issue
actually i liked paro today , for the first time i saw a real girl , who was just jealous and subconsciously angry and demanded for security demanded for answers



exactly, i liked how she was real and the mask of worship and being blindly in love or trust was unfolded. reality check for Rudra and even us, that how the path is harder one.
ttt1, i was only disappointed that poor Rudra is being blamed and now asked to prove his points, when he actually has laid the truth in front of her.
It was out of my thought process when Paro said that he has a problem with laila's stay because he loves laila and probably laila is all innocent .
so laila's love becomes pure and great in front of paro, and Rudra reduced to a playboy.😕
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Originally posted by: DexterRocks

exactly, i liked how she was real and the mask of worship and being blindly in love or trust was unfolded. reality check for Rudra and even us, that how the path is harder one.

ttt1, i was only disappointed that poor Rudra is being blamed and now asked to prove his points, when he actually has laid the truth in front of her.
It was out of my thought process when Paro said that he has a problem with laila's stay because he loves laila and probably laila is all innocent .
so laila's love becomes pure and great in front of paro, and Rudra reduced to a playboy.😕

@bold true , rudra did whatever he thought was best , very sincere and honest attempt
paro is not angry with rudra , she is angry or rather hurt that her dream is broken , so she is questioning the base of the relationship
and she is right here , what is the base of their relationship ?????

about paro keeping laila at home , i think she is trying to get answers , she always justifies thing her way , so yeah this is her way
i think what she meant is , if its his past it shouldnt bother at all , it is not it is no point at all
underlying feeling is she is insecure , and she doesnt want to believe it is cos of laila ,
not a correct way to deal

i think a conversation is not sufficient to mend trust , i am curious how they take it from here

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Originally posted by: ttt1

@bold true , rudra did whatever he thought was best , very sincere and honest attempt
paro is not angry with rudra , she is angry or rather hurt that her dream is broken , so she is questioning the base of the relationship
and she is right here , what is the base of their relationship ?????

about paro keeping laila at home , i think she is trying to get answers , she always justifies thing her way , so yeah this is her way
i think what she meant is , if its his past it shouldnt bother at all , it is not it is no point at all
underlying feeling is she is insecure , and she doesnt want to believe it is cos of laila ,
not a correct way to deal

i think a conversation is not sufficient to mend trust , i am curious how they take it from here


ttt1, paro must understand that everytime things wont go according to what she thinks , believes or percieves to be, because reality is much harder than her lil lala land. for once she is ready to give a benefit of doubt to laila and not Rudra ? how on earth that is acceptable ?

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Posted: 11 years ago
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Originally posted by: DexterRocks


ttt1, paro must understand that everytime things wont go according to what she thinks , believes or percieves to be, because reality is much harder than her lil lala land. for once she is ready to give a benefit of doubt to laila and not Rudra ? how on earth that is acceptable ?

that i agree


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Posted: 11 years ago
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I actually expected Paro to ask him this. If I was the writer, I'd have done the same thing as well. She may not want the love right here right now , but she is at least realistic enough to know that this marriage cannot go on on the basis of her love alone. I like this slightly insecure girl more than the wife who smiled at him even when he said I'm going to pray that you leave my life. As for her leaving him, I have a feeling that she REALLY doesn't want to leave. And she's trying to find out where she stands in this relationship so she can somehow reconsider her vow. Again, if I was the writer, that's what I would be going for as well. As for letting Laila stay, I think she's challenging her own fears here. She wants to trust him completely and to do so, she needs to know that his ex has absolutely no effect on him. Also a very clever way out by the CVs- if Laila stays long enough, Paro will soon figure out that she's not the innocent victim traumatized by Thakur's goons. I hope that's where this is going. As for the dream, that's her subconscious fear. Not how she thinks of Rudra. She probably thinks, even in unconsciously so, that Laila is better for Rudra than her. We know that isn't the case, but she doesn't know it. If she knew all that we know, she'd never question her standing in this relationship. Because Rudra will never let her go. He boils a the mere mention of Varun , he can't stand her silence and indifference and she's the first person he wants to see when he enters the house. All the signs of a besotted hubby. But we know that. She doesn't. So her fears are not entirely baseless.
Coming to Rudra. I think not having had a healthy relationship with any woman in his life, he didn't realize some basic things. Like a woman may be able to live with the truth that you don't love her right now. But the hope is that someday you will. Women are also humans. We may have learnt to let go a lot more than men , but we experience the same emotions of jealousy, more intensely than them sometimes. He's stayed with a mother who left him and went off to marry a terrorist. An aunt who loves the haveli more than her own kids. He had a no-strings-attached relationship with Laila. And even in the case of Laila, he failed to guage the intensity of her feelings. I wouldn't call it love. Because she seems like she's more obsessed than in love. So he didn't realize that despite all the love, Paro will take time. To process. And she will question her place in his life. If it was easy for him to leave Laila, will it be easy for him to leave her as well? Because from Paro's POV, this marriage was forced on him. If he walked out of a relationship where he was a willing participant, what's to stop him from walking out of a marriage that he wasn't happy with in the first place. Again, Paro doesn't see him adoring her stealthily or defending her behind her back as we do. So she doesn't realize he's already more than half way there.

Wow. That was LONG. Sorry for boring you.
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Originally posted by: SS88

I actually expected Paro to ask him this. If I was the writer, I'd have done the same thing as well. She may not want the love right here right now , but she is at least realistic enough to know that this marriage cannot go on on the basis of her love alone. I like this slightly insecure girl more than the wife who smiled at him even when he said I'm going to pray that you leave my life. As for her leaving him, I have a feeling that she REALLY doesn't want to leave. And she's trying to find out where she stands in this relationship so she can somehow reconsider her vow. Again, if I was the writer, that's what I would be going for as well. As for letting Laila stay, I think she's challenging her own fears here. She wants to trust him completely and to do so, she needs to know that his ex has absolutely no effect on him. Also a very clever way out by the CVs- if Laila stays long enough, Paro will soon figure out that she's not the innocent victim traumatized by Thakur's goons. I hope that's where this is going. As for the dream, that's her subconscious fear. Not how she thinks of Rudra. She probably thinks, even in unconsciously so, that Laila is better for Rudra than her. We know that isn't the case, but she doesn't know it. If she knew all that we know, she'd never question her standing in this relationship. Because Rudra will never let her go. He boils a the mere mention of Varun , he can't stand her silence and indifference and she's the first person he wants to see when he enters the house. All the signs of a besotted hubby. But we know that. She doesn't. So her fears are not entirely baseless.

Coming to Rudra. I think not having had a healthy relationship with any woman in his life, he didn't realize some basic things. Like a woman may be able to live with the truth that you don't love her right now. But the hope is that someday you will. Women are also humans. We may have learnt to let go a lot more than men , but we experience the same emotions of jealousy, more intensely than them sometimes. He's stayed with a mother who left him and went off to marry a terrorist. An aunt who loves the haveli more than her own kids. He had a no-strings-attached relationship with Laila. And even in the case of Laila, he failed to guage the intensity of her feelings. I wouldn't call it love. Because she seems like she's more obsessed than in love. So he didn't realize that despite all the love, Paro will take time. To process. And she will question her place in his life. If it was easy for him to leave Laila, will it be easy for him to leave her as well? Because from Paro's POV, this marriage was forced on him. If he walked out of a relationship where he was a willing participant, what's to stop him from walking out of a marriage that he wasn't happy with in the first place. Again, Paro doesn't see him adoring her stealthily or defending her behind her back as we do. So she doesn't realize he's already more than half way there.

Wow. That was LONG. Sorry for boring you.


that indeed was a very nice take and no I am not bored at all.

I think you have misunderstood my rant, I am a happy bee as i mentioned, because for the first time Paro behaved like a human being, she is bound to be jealous and insecure, i wanted that reaction from her. What made me more happy that, somewhere it is proven that Paro has not understood Rudra as she claims to be, that she believed that she did but certainly the situation enlightens the opposite . What disappointed me was that she is jealous and insecure, but she thinks she is not, she thinks Rudra is being insecure. She must understand, that now the ball is in her court and not Rudra's, but she is still thinking that she has nothing to do but Rudra has. And for once, i did not and will not justify that she can give a benefit od doubt to laila but not Rudra . Can i ask why ? thats absurd if someone tells that because she thinks that the marriage was forced on to Rudra, but did not Paro tell maithili that how Rudra has changed now and how he has won her trust . So her words do not coincide with her actions.


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Where is the question of him walking out came when Paro herself is going to leave him after his recovery , Where this insecurity came in a Wife when wife herself has decided to leave his husband 😕

Is not she going to walk out ?


yes she is walking out, but i think ss88 meant that Paro wants a surity about that will Rudra ever walk out from the marriage ? certainly the vows Rudra took, is haunting Paro now, which was conveniently forgotten by both of them till a day before.
and as you said, why does she even want to ensure about Rudra's feelings, when she herself will leave him ? Won't that hurt him ? does not she realise that, she will be playing with his emotions then ?
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Originally posted by: DexterRocks

exactly, i liked how she was real and the mask of worship and being blindly in love or trust was unfolded. reality check for Rudra and even us, that how the path is harder one.

ttt1, i was only disappointed that poor Rudra is being blamed and now asked to prove his points, when he actually has laid the truth in front of her.
It was out of my thought process when Paro said that he has a problem with laila's stay because he loves laila and probably laila is all innocent .
so laila's love becomes pure and great in front of paro, and Rudra reduced to a playboy.😕

Agree. .even I don't like it when paro said that why he is so bothered about laila. ...poor girl doesn't know much about laila. .

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