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Augustina thumbnail
Posted: 11 years ago
#21

Originally posted by: DexterRocks

I just have one objection with your post .

why is laila called a dirty woman ? only because she is a nachnewali, which was her job ? she was not as lucky as Rudra or Paro to have a family and bring her up. She has become independent as a woman, and that does not make her dirty at all.

and is she dirty because she slept with the man she loved ? well thats perception and will vary, because from her background, she has no reservations, plus she thought that was the only way to serve Rudra.

It is ok if Paro so ever innocent and pure, thats how she is , but laila is anything but dirty.

and if paro cannot accept the relationship, then good for her, atleast she will come back to her human self.
whatever happened between laila and Rudra can happen between any woman and man, and everything dont get dirty only because the man has found his soulmate. and see the purity here is again intact, atleast Rudra has enough guts to explain about his complex relationship with laila to his wife.


Thanks for sharing your opinion dear. plz don't misunderstand my motive of writing the post. By calling her DIRTY I did not mean Laila a dirty woman for her profession or her physical relationship with the man she loved, its BECAUSE the evil mind and intention she has!!! Even Rudra never believed her ever, he's always aware of her nature, he mentioned it many times and he always tried to avoid her but she is an obsessive woman who do not care the man she thinks she loved do not has any feelings for her not even he ever respected her. That's why I think she degraded herself by all means!!! and Rudra is equally guilty because he took advantage of her but did not give her any right not even some respect!!! No Strings Attached kind of relationship should be from both sides, but in their case he always knew Laila loved him, then why did he continue this with her?! 8 years is not a matter of joke!!! Rudra telling Paro himself is obviously something courageous, I did not object on that, I just said no matter how much courageous its from Rudra's side, its always an infinite pain for a wife to bear that truth!!!!
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Posted: 11 years ago
#22

Originally posted by: ..Shanae..

I would like to comment on what the pupose of this post was!

I agree with u. I've been reading so many posts saying paro shld over look it etc. But I wanna see some "human emotions" as u said.

Nyc post.

Ps. For people taking the comment of 'dirty woman' to heart, plz dont. Thts nor the purpose of the post and neither does it mean what u guys r taking it to. I think by dirty she meant laila has bad emotives.
Chill people.


Thank you for understanding my TRUE motive of writing this post.
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Posted: 11 years ago
#23
i m really feeling bad 4 paro men will never except a woman if she did the same such a hypocrites
Augustina thumbnail
Posted: 11 years ago
#24

Originally posted by: prettypri

To be very honest when Paro initially wanted to marry and live her life with Rudra she actually compared him to shivji and herself to Parvati and he clearly said he is a human being and not GOd and a flawed human being at that!

And whatever relationship he had with Laila is a thing of the past...when he was an animal as he himself said...Paro is aware that he wasn't perfect but she hasn't tried to look at him as a flawed human being..hasn't actually tried to know what his life was like or who was in it before he entry!

And she knows Laila loved or loves Rudra and tried to kill her because of that but she still allowed her into the house saying it was a thing of the past and she is secure in the knowledge that she is Rudra's wife and no one else matters!

In fact more than reacting to the truth of a physical relationship before marriage I would have thought she would be uncomfortable with letting a woman who she clearly ins had feelings for her husband,stay in the same house...over his objections! But she did! And she has actually developed a friendship with Laila and isn't even listening to Maithilis warnings!

So how Paro will react to Rudra's revelation is a mystery given the above...it could go either way depending on what aspect of her nature js sought to be portrayed!

She will probably distance herself and be shocked if the intention is to bring Rudra down from the pedestal she has put him on...but if they want to persist in showing her as selfless and innocent then she will probably not react strongly!

And yeah since Rudra was an equal partner in that relationship it wouldn't be right to call Laila dirty for any reason!


Thank you for sharing your opinion with me. I loved your analysis and understood what you meant. About calling Laila a dirty woman I did not mean she's dirty because she slept with a man but because of her evil nature. Plz understand.
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Posted: 11 years ago
#25

Originally posted by: deepika09

I would agree to your post to some extent bcaz this is what i feel too being a girl n being a girl like paro who is so pure ,how can a girl forgive her usband easily who had a relationship wwith other wooman for 8 yrs n that too just physical realtionship n what if d relationship was before marriage n what if he is a man ,just thing about a girl doing d same thing n then also u guys will say the man should forgive her no na then why diff rules for man n woman n if i would have been on paro place i would not have forgive him easily now its rudra time to run behind paro n paro should be trying to maintain distance from rudra n rudra getting restless..


Agree with you
Augustina thumbnail
Posted: 11 years ago
#26

Originally posted by: SamanthaG

Yes I'm sure that Paro will be hurt by Rudra's confession.
But I know that she will easily forgive him, coz that was his past.

We cannot hold something against someone for what they did in their past. But damn my heart is sore for my Paro


So is mine 😭
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Posted: 11 years ago
#27

Originally posted by: TitliBaisa

@Augustina I am with you yaar...I don't want that Laila to interfere in Parud's life...Iss Laila ki toh😡I don't want that tyaag to be in favour of that Laila...NO WAY...NO NO NO🤢


Me too Yaar 😭
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Posted: 11 years ago
#28

I fully support the fact that - why is Laila called a 'Dirty Woman'?
Just because she did not win the ovarian lottery!!
She is in a profession just like you and me.

How Paro reacts is how the authors see her.

Believe me, there are people like her, and that is the only reason that the world is surviving on hope!
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Posted: 11 years ago
#29

Originally posted by: nims6

i can totally understand your feeling..yes its difficult to hear something like this from your beloved one..even though it was before their marriage it will hurt..and yes i dont want to paro to be totally okay with it..atleast this time ..


I am glad you understood what I meant. I just said any girl would be deeply hurt and Paro should be hurt not immediately forgive that's it!!!! I did not say Rudra cheated her, I said no matter it is a relation before marriage, a 8 years relationship is not something a wife can digest easily!!!
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Posted: 11 years ago
#30
@Augustina Big wali hug🤗🤗🤗🤗🤗🤗🤗🤗🤗🤗

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