Originally posted by: ddFan2012
Hope this helps to see it differently. Just my POV...doesnt have to be the way you see it. My comments to Diya's post.
the doll scene was a favorite of all times RR , i thought it was a very strong scene to be put for 3 minutes
the explaination was vague and uncalled for , isnt he angry with her for killing his dad , sorry attempt
sumer was brilliant , awesome tadka of humor
Paro and her confusion was another step forward. Paro does not know what it means to be in love. She has been questioning herself quite often. First it happened in Dilsher's room and then the googly that Rudra threw at her with Sumer's proposal triggered more feeling of what he really means to her beyond just a rakshak, a hero and her admiration for his BSD bravery.
from paro's POV it is highly humiliating and hurtful to be traded like this in front of the house , every more hurtful that the only most important person in her life did it , so shouldnt she bne angry ,hurt , or something , she was unmoved , and she was more focued on the forgivness part
why didnt she question him, or did she , well i didnt notice
Even before seeing the doll she did not want to marry Sumer. And then Rudra's behaviour confuses her all the more...him not allowing Sumer anywhere near to her. Then telling her I know you won't marry him.
rudra wants her gone cos she see her like his mom compares her to his mom , the woman who had the most impact in his life , very scary to imagine there is another woman who would do the same to him , he is scared and wants her to percieve him as a jallad , then why explain about the doll , where was his fear
Don't marry that scum. Just go away from here. That was weird from a guy who just threw a proposal a few minutes ago. It explains exactly why Rudra made that marriage offer to Sumer. The previous day in Dilsher's room, he questioned her after he saw how much effort she was putting into getting his father healed. He did not want to build that closeness anymore not just with him but his father too. He had to put a stop. Send her away. Strike a deal, she wanted forgiveness for which she would do anything...and he would use it as a means to push her away. Also make her HATE HIM for it.
true my explanation too but where was his guilt , fear , i didnot see any
And Paro caught on to it. She questions him, "would you really forgive me if I were to marry Sumer?" He hesitates and then answers yes. And then his holding her shoulders goes on with his usual rant on pretty women.
subxoncious fear of imagining paro might actually end up with sumer , this time it is different
again no dialigues or attention to put it across
He has seen that admiration in her eyes for him and she can see that he has feelings for her. They both are at the threshold of an emotion they both don't want to name. Paro is more open about it and is on her way to ACCEPTING it as the WILL of Bholenath.
He realizes and then changes his tactics to BSD style. Offering the joda to goad her into marrying Sumer. The doll falls and again she sees his vulnerable side
This is exactly what makes Paro go to him. . His telling her the doll meant so much to him and was his only consolation in his shattered and battered childhood. Again the instinct of nurturing comes forth...it's like...Bholenath gave me my answer...you are my chosen one...and look I am the one who befriended you...so I can still be you friend. I can heal you. I am ready to take on all your anger, your pain and embrace it. The sindoor is only an external element.
what made paro go to him should be love , feeling of belonging together , that is what it was i dont know
You see in the precap clutching the doll in one hand and sindoor in the other, she is all starry-eyed, her voice all soft a kind of joy that she found herself to be the friend he always longed for and feels close to even now.
The only worry is his public rejection of her proposal. Though I feel Paro is not too worried about that. Such things do not hurt her. he has publicly claimed her his to be wife. From Chandangarh to Birpur everyone knows they were supposed to be married. So what's the big deal if it is an awards ceremony. How the CVs are then going to play it out is yet to be seen.
About her being the witness and he providing protection has definitely being forgotten by the CVs. They need to address it. Like he speaking to his seniors that he is not ready to provide that to her. It may just play out tonight. Hopefully Major speaks to him about it. That she is his responsibility however much he hates it.
One more thing though I so wanted Paro to accept Sumer's proposal (just so that Rudra faces the reality of losing her) it would go against her character. It's not in her character to just go on and marry every second guy coming her way. Her values now remain intact. Her loyalty is something way beyond Rudra can imagine. And now with this public proposal, it reaches to a point of taking the chance of even being publicly humiliated.
If I have to sum up her character Paro is a very saintly woman of today. All pure white. Plus she has patience which is her very big virtue, nerver give up attitude (kitchen scenes).Extremely selfless... It's all about give give give, without expecting anything in return. You could say too good to be true for a man like him. But only something so white can heal something so dark as Rudra.
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dd
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