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Posted: 11 years ago
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Originally posted by: SanayaIsBest

@guinea, I googled SS and see your point. But still has her memory been totally erased?

I guess, we have to just justify what they are showing and accept it.



maybe if she thinks she has to feel sorry for herself, then she wastes some feelings.. so i am trying to relate to this syndrome.. so maybe she simply does not think about herself as she has a severe case of this! So she forces her mind to be a blank n think only to empathize with her captor?

i wish i could message GH n see!

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Posted: 11 years ago
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Originally posted by: princessunara



so u don't think that Paro would have remembered Bindi n Nandu jija when Mailitili n Suneri talked about sisters? Think about her Masa, n Thakurainsa who SHE had to leave? and Mamisa who in a way just like Rudra's mom left her by refusing her existence?


Paro is a more of a positive kind of person.. Some people cant take tension They want or you can say seek happiness and peace in very small things.. So she is happy that way.. After all trauma shes gone through now she is getting peace in them..
And to your question.. I saw paro's change of expression when they told her about sisters.. But you cant show FBs in all scenes .. It will take away the beauty from that very particular scene..Same goes. with the letter scence as well.. There she is feeling the pain of young Rudra. But she is paro .. Who is unconditional, and unselfish by nature.. which makes her different from other person/ girl..

I am surprised you didnt enjoy todaysepisode.. It was paro all da way.. For the first time i felt paro is coming out of closet and dominate their relationship..





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Posted: 11 years ago
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Originally posted by: SanayaIsBest

@guinea, I googled SS and see your point. But still has her memory been totally erased?

I guess, we have to just justify what they are showing and accept it.


Nahin baba memory hasn't been erased ..but emphathy with captor ie rudra is more . However pls continue thinking and beleiving what you do ...I am not trying to change anyones mind here . 😊
She is numb to her pain ...and a lot of articles have mentioned the SS as an underlying theme of the show , I am not creating it ...
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Posted: 11 years ago
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Originally posted by: Guinea


Sunara ...I kinda had a eureka moment today ...and I truely beleive that is the storyline of this love story. Vicky has said this several times on her post ...
You know I am a huge sanaya fan but in this show ...sanaya is playing the role of paro and she has to stay true to the script. It definately is a layered character ...which will metamorphise with time.

The line with chachsa said " paro needs to shut her eyes and open her brain " was not too mock her or expect too much from her ...tmrw I think we may get the plate scene and paro's brain will start ticking ...



well see if this is the path they r taking where she will eventually erupt as u say i think i can think differently and actually put up with this! I didn't know that this was a serious possibility this being Indian TV n all!!
Its not that its Sanaya, i jsut cannot relate to Paro anymore cz i don't understand why she behaves the way she does! that is what was messing with my head..

Now i will allocate everything to this then.

ah i don't think that the plate incident will be so, cz she will think its a regular intruder as the man's back is turned to her n he will run off the moment the plate hits her. n any case here he acts as a regular intruder, as he doesn't see Paro either,
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Posted: 11 years ago
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Strongly agree with the bad points, the writer whomever he or she is, needs to balance the emotions, pain, flashbacks and reflections more realistically. Rather than just show the male side. I as a viewer need to see her pain too, missing her loved ones, just because those two girls are nice to her doesn't mean that she will ever forget where she comes from and thank god for them, and as a viewer again, I find that totally lacking as I am sure does the majority of the audience.😕 🥱
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Posted: 11 years ago
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Originally posted by: nainasharma123


Paro is a more of a positive kind of person.. Some people cant take tension They want or you can say seek happiness and peace in very small things.. So she is happy that way.. After all trauma shes gone through now she is getting peace in them..
And to your question.. I saw paro's change of expression when they told her about sisters.. But you cant show FBs in all scenes .. It will take away the beauty from that very particular scene..Same goes. with the letter scence as well.. There she is feeling the pain of young Rudra. But she is paro .. Who is unconditional, and unselfish by nature.. which makes her different from other person/ girl..

I am surprised you didnt enjoy todaysepisode.. It was paro all da way.. For the first time i felt paro is coming out of closet and dominate their relationship..



sorry dear this explanation doesn't make any sense to me at all.. but this Stockholm Syndrome explanation Guinea di gave makes sense to me..
So i think i can relax n expect it to go this way.. it at least makes sense n makes me look at it in a way i can accept her behavior.

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Posted: 11 years ago
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Originally posted by: Guinea


Nahin baba memory hasn't been erased ..but emphathy with captor ie rudra is more . However pls continue thinking and beleiving what you do ...I am not trying to change anyones mind here . 😊
She is numb to her pain ...and a lot of articles have mentioned the SS as an underlying theme of the show , I am not creating it ...

really have they mentioned SS being the underlying theme here? Phew! That gives me a break then! Thanks for clarifying that. So her life is compartmentalized into pre-Rudra and post-Rudra😆 I can enjoy this show better knowing this now.
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Posted: 11 years ago
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Originally posted by: princessunara



well see if this is the path they r taking where she will eventually erupt as u say i think i can think differently and actually put up with this! I didn't know that this was a serious possibility this being Indian TV n all!!
Its not that its Sanaya, i jsut cannot relate to Paro anymore cz i don't understand why she behaves the way she does! that is what was messing with my head..

Now i will allocate everything to this then.

ah i don't think that the plate incident will be so, cz she will think its a regular intruder as the man's back is turned to her n he will run off the moment the plate hits her. n any case here he acts as a regular intruder, as he doesn't see Paro either,


Sunara ... i recently saw highway which is totally based on the SS ...maybe thats what triggered my thought . What I feel is right now , the story is not of two sane , strong willed ppl . One definately is ( rudra , though sanity can be questioned ..) the other is a trapped victim who has numbed her pain and is dealing with her life by just surviving ...each day as it comes.

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Posted: 11 years ago
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Originally posted by: Guinea


Sunara ... i recently saw highway which is totally based on the SS ...maybe thats what triggered my thought . What I feel is right now , the story is not of two sane , strong willed ppl . One definately is ( rudra , though sanity can be questioned ..) the other is a trapped victim who has numbed her pain and is dealing with her life by just surviving ...each day as it comes.


ok i am downloading Highway tonight.. will watch sometime tomorrow n see.. this is kinda exciting if this is the case! it will be a nice thing to watch!!
thanks di for taking me out of my own depression!! 🤗 SS hmm.. what were the articles?

i probably read them too, but not knowing what the syndrome was myself i doubt it ever registered in my head.

finally after abt 2-3 weeks i kinda feel happy about the whole thing then!

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Posted: 11 years ago
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Oops..Again unhappy..
Kyun bhai aaj toh paro chaa gayi thi.. She was really too good today..

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