I don't know re, I am running out of words to explain but to me the charm remains more when its still pending, once it happens I won't say charm goes away but that anxiousness kind of wanes, the thrill of wonder lessens!! Ok iss ke aage main nahi boloongi but somehow the drama, charm, the thrill, anxiety, apprehension, the need, desire, want, looking forward to, is at its peak when the pact is still intact!
Anyway will see what Adi have in mind.