This topic made me sign in oderwise i am da most silent member of dis forum.😆
I didn't read all da replies here.I am jst giving my opinion on it which i am sure many may not agree.
Nowadays,every tv and bollywood star bindaasly say dat "yes,i am dating so and so/we r in a relationship" but dere was a time when actors and actresses never told da media and obviously deir fans so khulke abt deir personal relationships.even though dey were dating someone,dey would jst say dat no it's not true,we r jst 'good frnds'.Da reason is dey don't want ppl 2 discuss abt deir personal lives,dey don't want da media,deir fans 2 know abt deir private life.Was dat wrong?
Da question is r da actors BOUND 2 tell each and everything abt deir personal lives 2 deir fans and da media?Who gave da right 2 media and fans 2 ask da actor/actress 2 ask whether dey r in a relationship?Do we become fans of an actor/actress after knowing abt his/her personal life or seeing his/her performance onscreen?
In da end of da day,dese stars r also human beings like us.Suppose ur neighbour asks u,"r u hving an affair wid so and so?"how will we feel?won't we feel dat who is he/she asking such a question abt my personal life?some of u straightaway tell jst one sentence,"that's none of ur business"and some will simply lie,"no aisa kuch bhi nahi hai,it's jst ur misunderstanding."is it wrong if we lie?what wrong did he do if he 'lied'dat he is 'single'.i saw some fans on fb getting angry at him an bashing him and asking him why did he lie.dat was jst too much.Fans shd also stay within deir limits and dey mst realise what shd be asked 2 an actor and what not.
Dis was jst my opinion.I know many of u may or may not agree wid me.Btw,i am subha.many of u by now mst hv recognised me.
Edited by subha2601 - 14 years ago