Vandu lovely post dear...but ...in anger many people say things they donot really mean or what they se through their eyes adn experience.
Madzs is not crazy...shes just tired of a marriage in which ...she had stopped being loved, appreciated..wnated or needed by her hubby as a wife a woman..instead of being teh blame bag ofr all the wrong happening...in life and being blamed for being a bad mother.
She maybe see similarities in AkkiBoos marriage....that it is exactly like her and Sunils...Akki busy with work and Boo...left to do nothng but wait...etc..wasn't that ne of Boos complaint too in her 20 oage letter...him giving more time to business then them???? Just like Sunil did with her maybe...
I think that with her experience in love with Sunil...who when building the business left her at the sides...started blaming her for all the wrongs instead of ever sharing the blame for it not being one persons fault...so for me Sunil is wrong too....
Sunil is equally to blame as he was the one to bring up Shaan again and again..bring up things that really had nothing to do with what was wrong with their marriage at all...he was trying to play the blame game...that he had being doing for the last 20 years and Madhvi the wife was atlast fed up of taking the blame as a mother for all the wrong in their marriage and kids life. Maybe she got so tired of being blamed...she backed off from being a mother too..Men can do that..with their constant nagging dear..and a woman may not conciously retaliate by being what is said of her.
Madzs has no trust in love thus she did not only bring up Shaan's marriage and love for Khanak..but brought up Akshay's marriage to Khusboo too....this shows she does not beleive that anyone can love any one at all...blame lies with Sunil too....who over the years may have being so careere driven that he completely ignored the woman he fell in love with and stopped seeing her an individual who needed love , attention, appreciation and his time too....and was not just a mother to his kids....or the punching bag to be blamed for all..that went wrong with the kids etc...
So for me...both are at fault and the only thing I noticed was Sunil brought up Shaan more then Madzs who was fighting for her rights as a woman...as being accepted as a wife....not about who is the better parnt in their relationship etc.
