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Posted: 14 years ago
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Friends, thank you all for posting such awesome discussion topics on the forum today!!😆😆😆 Reading them I felt that I shud emphasize a certain very Good Point of the show which is probably its POV is that the show is not SKIN DEEP!!.. It dares to and has succeeded in fighting and standing against the so called norms of our modern society..
1. Beauty is not skin deep!! A woman does not have to be a fashion model to be a star in a show or to bag a good looking guy..she can win him and US over with her charactor, her charm, her simplicity, her humility and her Intelligence!!
2. People will give you and treat you with respect if you are smart and Intelligent and respect yourself and others and not if you are Rich, Snotty, look down on others, think that doing any work is below yr dignity..I esp., hate the class talk!! 😡😡
3. Standing on your own two feet is more important than feeding off yr parent's earnings no matter how rich you are...its called Khuddari!! I loved that track..where has it gone??😭
Thats the main reason I started watching and am still watching..so Please CVs get back to the main track again and stop wasting time on Non stuff!!😃 Venting!!...
If you agree or not please comment!!...😊

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Posted: 14 years ago
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I cant beleive this stuff still goes on in India.I mean in the States and in Canada too there is sometimes this divide but it's understandable coz your living in a foreign country but i cant beleive indians would say that about their own race.They themselves know that they are dusky and then they go on critisising and discriminating against people who are just like them.Laughable really.
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Posted: 14 years ago
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Originally posted by: sharmida

I cant beleive this stuff still goes on in India.I mean in the States and in Canada too there is sometimes this divide but it's understandable coz your living in a foreign country but i cant beleive indians would say that about their own race.They themselves know that they are dusky and then they go on critisising and discriminating against people who are just like them.Laughable really.

Yes, you said it!! Extremely unbelievable and laughable...In fact the other day I heard over the radio here a discussion abt fairness creams having a major market in India and that other countries wud like to get into that market too..felt very embarrassed!!..
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Posted: 14 years ago
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yes sehju it does hold good even today especially to females
have felt it in younger days everytime when some fair relative girl will be compared with me in relatives places by some old grannies advising to use traditional medicines...though i am brown or wheatish only
my dad is dark., but he is so kind hearted and nice that never ever thought of his color..
but as i grew up i learnt these are all some peoples mean views and no essence in that.. so gave up totally thinking on those lines...
after a long time today.. thoughts on these things..
yes simi so true i hate this class comparison too especially it exists too much in india.
.i have seen it personally many times.. as if the so called upper most class are directly from heaven and others are all from earth..
and the way those women act in high class marriages is so horrible at times..
however i must say many people have changed for the better as well..they have learnt value an individual mainly on the talents and other qualities rather than status and looks etc.,
but still a long long way to go seeing all those fairness creams and treatments promising fairness infact i have come across a few celebrities i guess Aishwarya rai bacchan is one who have refused to endorse a fairness cream..
I hope the changes would be in eveyrones mind soon after all the indian colour is brown/wheatish and not fair.
and ofcourse these class differences have no meaning at all these are all man made barriers..
Edited by sshriyaa84 - 14 years ago
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Posted: 14 years ago
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Originally posted by: sshriyaa84

yes sehju it does hold good even today especially to females

have felt it in younger days everytime when some fair relative girl will be compared with me in relatives places by some old grannies advising to use traditional medicines...though i am brown or wheatish only
my dad is dark., but he is so kind hearted and nice that never ever thought of his color.. but as i grew up i learnt these are all some peoples mean views and no essence in that.. so gave up totally thinking on those lines...
after a long time today.. thoughts on these things..
yes simi so true i hate this class comparison too especially it exists too much in india..i ahve seen it personally many times.. s if the so called upper most class are directly from heavena nd others are all from earth..
and the way those women act in high class marriages is so horrible at times..
however i must say many people have changed for the better as well..they have learnt value an individual mainly on the talents and other qualities rathr than status and looks etc.,
but still a long long way to go seeing all those fairness creams and treatments promising fairness infact i have come across a few celebrities i guess Aishwarya rai bacchna is one who ahve refused to endorse a fairness cream..
I hope the changes would be in eveyrones mind soon after all the indian colour is brown/wheatish and not fair.

Yes dear, I agree with all U say.. living here in the US, where class and color of skin are taboo topics nowadays, I have been asked numerous times by Americans abt the class problems prevalent in our society and I am forced to explain it and have a tough time doing so..I begin with ancient history😆
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Posted: 14 years ago
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exactly simi..
thanx dear for ur reply wherein u ahve metntioend how the other country persons get to see us.
class differences it existed in age old society
o.k.fine those daysa re gone.
why should this exist in these days of democracy ., socialism and high technologial highly educted society..
what if peopel are not rich and only middle class what it they wear
second hand dresses what is wrong in that? as long as
they are human and wonderful persons..
what role has a thing called money which is purely man made do in these things of thedefining the personality of a person.
well atlease we people think of all these things as inor and not at all of any importance that is enough.
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Posted: 14 years ago
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Exactly, Shriya🤗
thats absolutely nothing wrongin being middle class or wearing 2nd hand clothes..aren't we supposed to recycle!!😆
The most important thing is to be comfortable in yr own SKIN!! and be happy with yrself..thats all!!:) Once you have that you will not care or worry abt what others say!:)
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Posted: 14 years ago
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society can be a *****

you know my little cousin's wear my clothes and they don't say anything. they just know that their tayi gave it and tto them its new! they get so excited to wear them its so cute. and i feel so proud to see them show it off.. there is nothing wrong in second hand clothes! i've worn it too.and if there were more in my size, i'd wear it again!

u no a couple years ago, my cousin's aunt gave her skin bleach.. she said tum isse use karna .. tum khoobsorat lago gi.. i was like W*F!! and before my grad party, my aunt was like why don't u use jolen (bleach) i was like AM I UGLY??NO! i have been taught to fight like this but my cousin has not so she just stayed quiet .. its vv disgusting actually and i wish people would stop!

be proud of your heritage, your background, ur family, and most importantly URSELF..INCLUDING UR LOOKS.. u dont wanna be another michael jackson(plastic)lol no offense if i hurt anyone iW*H that..
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Posted: 14 years ago
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A useless plastic piece is racism

It never decays, but pollutes

The safe environments

With accumulation of

Filth in the society

I really hate racism, in everywhere😡😡😡


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Posted: 14 years ago
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Originally posted by: amrita2010

A useless plastic piece is racism

It never decays, but pollutes

The safe environments

With accumulation of

Filth in the society

I really hate racism, in everywhere😡😡😡


Me TOOO!! Run away from it!!😡
Ppl who are racist or talk abt class usually have very Low Self Esteem!!

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