Shivkundan I know i also wanted to react in same way, that Yudi died for me
and he accepted marriage and he did all this. But then i co-relate some things
with my current life with thoughts provided by Beena di.
Believe it or not, men are more emotional than a woman. A woman can go against
any level to hold her pain but man can't do and they easily breaks down and goes
for weird step. If he would have been so strong, he would have never gone against
his father wish to marry Rani. He was emotional at that time, and chooses way which
hurted his father. But still he was in limit as a son and carried out his responsibility.
He can't choose marriage option on his own and disapproved it for many days till he
realizes that Rani and he needs that happiness. He was not looking at his and kids photograph.
But rather than photo of kid and Rani.
I had incident in my personal life when I had debate with my hubby shall I accept future onsite opportunity in UK for long term if it
Make us stay away for 2-3 years. My hubby was saying yes I should accept coz he wants to clear house loan we had so that we
Can utilize our current earning for future. There is less chances that he will onsite opportunity one in high earning country like UK, US.
But I was denying it saying I don't want to stay away from you as we just got married.
He would not be able to come with me leaving his current job. What adjective should I tag to my husband that he is being selfish
And using me to clear house loan. He doesn't want to stay with me. He doesn't love me?
I didn't accept his thought for a month and kept denying that I m not going to speak my manager
For onsite opportunity. But he was continuously insisting me, think over decision and when I thought, I found he got valid point.
I know relating this situation with Yudi-Imli marriage would be different for few of you. But it is somewhat similar to me.
I know it's easy to say that Yudi died for us. But somewhere we can't accept it easily.
If he goes away from Rani, we will still blame him that he is not caring for Rani and why caring for Imli?
And if he doesn't do that we will say he is ruining her life.
But what about other characters showed in other TV serials that they keep loving other woman though married with someone else.
Some time, life forces you take some decision you never wanted to. But when results of such decision come positive u get happy
Thinking it was right decision u took that time. But when it goes wrong, its learning for you and stand to fight against it with ur support.
We all know this YuRa decision is going to turn negative, and that will matter in end how they fight against it together.