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Posted: 16 years ago
#61

I know you are married, but just imagine for 10 min's that you are not and you are still in your 20's... just go with your gut and choose the closest option to how you'd answer. And be honest!

1) You're catching up with your best friend over a glass of wine when she notices her (tall, dark and handsome!) coworker across the bar. She introduces you and you engage in a brief but flirtatious conversation. You're sure he's going to ask for your number, but then he tells you to "take it easy" and starts to head back to his group of friends. YOU:
Stop him before he gets away and ask if he wants to grab dinner sometime.
Drop by his group of friends on the way out to say "goodbye" and slip him your number.
Jump back into conversation with your girlfriend. Hey, if he wants your number, he knows how to get it.
2) You've just had a great first date. At the end of the night, you thank your guy for an amazing time and he says, "I'll call you." You reply:
"Perfect! I'm free all week."
"Ok, goodnight!"
"I'll wait for your call."
3) You've been on a few dates with a great guy and things are going really well. It's starting to feel more serious; you don't even have an interest in seeing other people anymore. You wonder if he feels the same. You:
Keep your feelings to yourself until he tells you he wants to be exclusive.
Tell him that you've decided to stop dating around and ask him how he feels about it.
Pour him a glass of wine and, in the most non-threatening voice possible, tell him you'd like to have a conversation about where the relationship is going.
4) You've been dating a guy for a few weeks and things seem to be going along swimmingly. Just when you think that this budding relationship is darn near perfect, your man starts acting out. He "forgets" to call when he says he will. He shows up to your birthday party 45 minutes late. He cancels a date at the last minute or stands you up altogether. YOU:
Leave a furious message on his voicemail letting him know what a jerk he is and threatening to break up with him if he doesn't make it up to you, pronto.
Ignore his calls for a while and stand him up on your next date. He's not going to get away with hurting you, and he needs to know how it feels.
Calmly let him know that you expect to be treated with respect and give him the opportunity to prove whether he's capable of following through.
5) We all know that nobody's perfect, but which of these behaviors can't you change in your man and should be considered "deal breakers?"
He's emotionally unavailable (e.g. "I care about you but' I don't love you / could never marry you / I don't know what love is / I never want to get serious / (fill in his 'I need to keep my emotional distance' phrase here).
He's got major anger issues (with or without the tendency toward verbal or physical abuse).
You're hopelessly incompatible with one another (you want kids someday, he never does; you want to marry a Jew, he's Catholic, etc...).
Just mark a 'tick' at the side av the right answer...and if you wanna give a brief explaination, as to why you chose that particular answer, you can do that.
Edited by DD20 - 16 years ago
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Posted: 16 years ago
#62

Originally posted by: DD20

🤣🤣🤣....lol chitu..u dont have to answer seriously..thoda natkhati pan bhi chahiye..thoda homour ka tadka hona chahiye, u c....for this test u will get 6/10....

ohh..mein tho seedha seedha reply kar di..6 ot of 10..achca marks nahi hai..😭😆
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Posted: 16 years ago
#63

Originally posted by: DD20

I know you are married, but think for 10 min that you are not and you are still in your 20's... just go with your gut and choose the closest option to how you'd answer. And be honest!

1) You're catching up with your best friend over a glass of wine when she notices her (tall, dark and handsome!) coworker across the bar. She introduces you and you engage in a brief but flirtatious conversation. You're sure he's going to ask for your number, but then he tells you to "take it easy" and starts to head back to his group of friends. YOU:
Stop him before he gets away and ask if he wants to grab dinner sometime.
Drop by his group of friends on the way out to say "goodbye" and slip him your number.
Jump back into conversation with your girlfriend. Hey, if he wants your number, he knows how to get it.this option.But I don't have wine shine ,pure bharatiya naari..wine ka smell bji ganda na
2) You've just had a great first date. At the end of the night, you thank your guy for an amazing time and he says, "I'll call you." You reply:
"Perfect! I'm free all week."
"Ok, goodnight!"
"I'll wait for your call." this option
3) You've been on a few dates with a great guy and things are going really well. It's starting to feel more serious; you don't even have an interest in seeing other people anymore. You wonder if he feels the same. You:
Keep your feelings to yourself until he tells you he wants to be exclusive. this option
Tell him that you've decided to stop dating around and ask him how he feels about it.
Pour him a glass of wine and, in the most non-threatening voice possible, tell him you'd like to have a conversation about where the relationship is going.
4) You've been dating a guy for a few weeks and things seem to be going along swimmingly. Just when you think that this budding relationship is darn near perfect, your man starts acting out. He "forgets" to call when he says he will. He shows up to your birthday party 45 minutes late. He cancels a date at the last minute or stands you up altogether. YOU:
Leave a furious message on his voicemail letting him know what a jerk he is and threatening to break up with him if he doesn't make it up to you, pronto.yar,I will ignore him totally,coz he is a jerk.No leaving msgs.
Ignore his calls for a while and stand him up on your next date. He's not going to get away with hurting you, and he needs to know how it feels.
Calmly let him know that you expect to be treated with respect and give him the opportunity to prove whether he's capable of following through.
5) We all know that nobody's perfect, but which of these behaviors can't you change in your man and should be considered "deal breakers?"
He's emotionally unavailable (e.g. "I care about you but' I don't love you / could never marry you / I don't know what love is / I never want to get serious / (fill in his 'I need to keep my emotional distance' phrase here).
He's got major anger issues (with or without the tendency toward verbal or physical abuse).
You're hopelessly incompatible with one another (you want kids someday, he never does; you want to marry a Jew, he's Catholic, etc...).
this option.
Just mark a 'tick' at the side av the right answer...and if you wanna give a brief explaination, as to why you chose that particular answer, you can do that.

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Posted: 16 years ago
#64
hmnn..okz....not bad...8/10.....lekin yaar chitu...itna boring kyon....maaza karo zindagi ka....jeene ke hai char din...2 din gaye..2 din to haina...tumhare paas...
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Posted: 16 years ago
#65

Originally posted by: Chits1

Dear Lovely,

I plan to exit MOTW..I don't believe I have bashed or broken the forum rules.you asked the question abt what change you wanna see in IF,I replied..now if you feel the reply is not right..too bad..I don't like being dictated.you should accept whatver reply MOTW gives..and not try to change or dictate..I don't think,I broke the rules,The majority of members agree to that.
Also,if you want to rule like hitler,frankly,there is no fun at all.If you feel,I have broken the forum rules,kindly forward my post to an adult mod,like vijay and if he tells me I am wrong,I humbly accept my mistake.If not,I am sorry,I am not interested in becoming MOTW(bali ka bakra).you may make someone else instead.If I have to answer acc to the forum rules,which are way too...this and that..sorry,I don't enjoy it this way..the whole fun of MOTW is gone.That being said..I quit.
Sorry my dear friends,I won't be able to reply to yr questions,until this problem is solved.😊


Omg, Chits you being serious wow. I am sorry abt what happened.
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Posted: 16 years ago
#66
Ok..Here are some serious questions....Part 1 av 3 of Sach Ka Samna..take your time..Remember, U can skip ONLY one Question, only if u want to. Just write "PASS" at the side av that particular question...and be honest.
What are your family values?
Do you always wanted one kid?

How were you raised and would like to raise your Kid?
How do you feel about your parents?

What are your spritual values? Do you intend to be in Heaven?

How do you use your finances? are you a spender? what assets do you think are of most importance?

What are your attitudes toward sex and romance? Are you a pleaser?
Define the term "Marriage"?
What are your goals? how have you achieved them thus far, and how do you hope to achieve them?
Is your husband possesive about you, due to some reason? If yes, mention what?
Are you a possessive person? Do you have an anger problem?
What is your philosphy of life? what would you like out of a marriage?
Is it easy for you to laugh? are you an affectionate person?
Is it easy for you to cry? When was the last time you literally cried?
Tell me Why I have to be your friend? Any special qualities you got that others don't have?
SKS Part 2 will be coming later...
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Posted: 16 years ago
#67
😉
Edited by DD20 - 16 years ago
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Posted: 16 years ago
#68

This is my first post on this forum. No I didnt watch the show but I am here to say congrats to Chits. She is a one member whom I have interacted with the least and yet dont know why I admire and like her a lot. LOL.

Chits dear, my best wishes and you may not remember me but I always remember you and i mean it.
A song for you
[YOUTUBE]http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=ogTuSkMWo4I[/YOUTUBE]
tanaz_aka_DD thumbnail
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Posted: 16 years ago
#69
^^THE SONG U HAVE DEDICATED TO CHITS..ITS MY FAV SONG..I LOVE THAT SONGGGGGGGGGGGG..ALSO HAVE ON MY MP3...😊
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Posted: 16 years ago
#70

Originally posted by: pinkisluv91


Omg, Chits you being serious wow. I am sorry abt what happened.

can't believe that chits is really serios..😆😆.kya karun yar..yeh sab bolna pada..but now issue solved and I am back to my usual masti..😆😆😆

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