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Perhaps he couldn't have been among those men who think a woman loses her 'izzat' if she has sex before marriage..he specially shouldn't be among these men, given how many relationships he had before marriage.Does he think he harmed those women's izzat (like he believes saif harmed nazia's)?
If he as an adult has the right to be in as many relationships as he wants before marriage then why does nazia not have that right?...one could argue that he is being a typical protective brother but all his dialogues involved the word 'izzat'...not even specifically nazia's izzat, so it could well be the izzat of the nawab household.If he was truly protective would he not think about nazia's FEELINGS and not merely her/their izzat? Would he not ask her what she wants? SHOULD he not ask her what she wants?
Now we know saif is a gold digger but aahil does not...does he? So keeping this in mind isn't he being unfair to both saif and nazia?
Yes none of the women aahil slept with got pregnant(at least something like this has not been revealed yet) and nazia did get pregnant...even if nazia tells aahil that they did not take any protection, is forcing them to get married the right solution? Can they not show that he gave her the space to make her own decisions..I always thought asad was annoyingly dominating too and I so wanted nazma to speak up! Nazia has no speaking up to do because she is happy with the prospect of maarying saif...but aahil does not know that, does he? I didn not see the whole scene, did they show aahil noticing the smile on nazia's face, did they show him asking her what she wants?
Is all of this way too unrealistic an expectation from a big brother?
If he as an adult has the right to be in as many relationships as he wants before marriage then why does nazia not have that right?...one could argue that he is being a typical protective brother but all his dialogues involved the word 'izzat'...not even specifically nazia's izzat, so it could well be the izzat of the nawab household.If he was truly protective would he not think about nazia's FEELINGS and not merely her/their izzat? Would he not ask her what she wants? SHOULD he not ask her what she wants?
Now we know saif is a gold digger but aahil does not...does he? So keeping this in mind isn't he being unfair to both saif and nazia?
Yes none of the women aahil slept with got pregnant(at least something like this has not been revealed yet) and nazia did get pregnant...even if nazia tells aahil that they did not take any protection, is forcing them to get married the right solution? Can they not show that he gave her the space to make her own decisions..I always thought asad was annoyingly dominating too and I so wanted nazma to speak up! Nazia has no speaking up to do because she is happy with the prospect of maarying saif...but aahil does not know that, does he? I didn not see the whole scene, did they show aahil noticing the smile on nazia's face, did they show him asking her what she wants?
Is all of this way too unrealistic an expectation from a big brother?
