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Posted: 10 years ago
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That Seher will admit or feel that she's partly responsible for ruining her sisters married life. Because I see many posts on here that are saying that ahil is stupid or its tanveers fault or whatever, but no-one is pointing out that seher is also partly responsible for ruining her sisters marriage. Everyone is blaming tanveer and ahil but no one is blaming seher.Imagine how hurt ahil will be when he gets to know that he was played by seher, fooled by his mum and sanam no2. There are a lot of posts saying that ahil needs to redeem himself if he doesn't believe sanam and he will need to fight to get his love back or whatever, but why should he when its seher also that should be responsible to bring them back together. They know how conniving tanveer is and yet still today they took their time going back to IM.How can we blame ahil for this situation, if a bride is not there on the wedding day then obviously you're going to assume the worst. He doesn't know that its not his sanam under the veil. Yet Seher gets a fee pass because she's salaams sister and zoya and asads daughter? How convenient.
AND WHY DOES AHIL GET BASHED LEFT RIGHT AND CENTRE WHEN NONE OF THIS WAS HIS FAULT AND HE WAS BEING PLAYED FORM ALL SIDES?

Everyone can make excuses for sanam and seher and sympathies with them but ahil who wasn't even part of this, gets hurt and then bashed from all you people.
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Posted: 10 years ago
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She probably will if they want the show to go as its going
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Posted: 10 years ago
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yes i do think so. Ahil was soo happy he was blushing and smiling at the thought of his wife. But what did he get.poor man. Nyc post dear and thanks for pointing it out
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Posted: 10 years ago
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Much needed post dear
i don't get why everyone is bashing ahil when he has done nothing to get bashed 🤔
ok i get sanam will suffer but it is ahil who will suffer the most in all this mess 💔

About seher i agree :)
She is a criminal and need to get punishment for her crime🥱
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Posted: 10 years ago
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Originally posted by: 07sid01

That Seher will admit or feel that she's partly responsible for ruining her sisters married life. Because I see many posts on here that are saying that ahil is stupid or its tanveers fault or whatever, but no-one is pointing out that seher is also partly responsible for ruining her sisters marriage. Everyone is blaming tanveer and ahil but no one is blaming seher.Imagine how hurt ahil will be when he gets to know that he was played by seher, fooled by his mum and sanam no2. There are a lot of posts saying that ahil needs to redeem himself if he doesn't believe sanam and he will need to fight to get his love back or whatever, but why should he when its seher also that should be responsible to bring them back together. They know how conniving tanveer is and yet still today they took their time going back to IM.How can we blame ahil for this situation, if a bride is not there on the wedding day then obviously you're going to assume the worst. He doesn't know that its not his sanam under the veil. Yet Seher gets a fee pass because she's salaams sister and zoya and asads daughter? How convenient.

AND WHY DOES AHIL GET BASHED LEFT RIGHT AND CENTRE WHEN NONE OF THIS WAS HIS FAULT AND HE WAS BEING PLAYED FORM ALL SIDES?

Everyone can make excuses for sanam and seher and sympathies with them but ahil who wasn't even part of this, gets hurt and then bashed from all you people.


Bless this post.

See it's not that Aahil would have to suffer or feel guilty for trusting Sanam or losing faith in Sanam that bothers me. (In fact, he would beat himself up over it the moment he finds out what happened to Sanam and he was unaware and while someone else was impersonating her, and she was suffering.) If Aahil loses faith in Sanam and she gets angry on him, that's fully her right.

The problem here is Seher. She will not be made accountable for anything.

We get a lame hug and reunion, with her saying she had no idea it was her sister. So what? And then Dilshad and she make sure to try their best to make everything work out smoothily--as in, get back Sanam so the wedding can take place with no issues.

Seher is now the caring sister and grandaughter, feeling righteously angry at Tanveer and Razia. Razia gets all the blame for what what's happened, and Seher's actions and role are brushed over. It's all excused because she "didn't know it was her own family." So effing what?

Here's the thing. Seher is responsible in diminishing and weakening SaHil relationship from Aahil's side. There are two reasons for this. 1) the very fact that she's not Sanam would do this anyway, meaning even if she had tried her best to impersonate, had all the correct info, and did a good job, eventually that relationship would be strained. But this would be a longer process.

2) Is that Seher's actions themselves also has led to Aahil questioning himself, her love, their love, whether something's wrong, that she's changed, etc etc. All that has worked a bit in diminishing the strength of the relationship as well.

Now we have further idiocy by Dilshad, and thoughtlessness/selfishness by Seher. She should know better than the other two that a missing bride IS going to just add on to the issues that "SaHil" had been facing from Aahil's POV. All three should know that there is a wedding that is about to take place. Especially Dilshad and Seher because they were just there. They should realize that they should get there ASAP because--hello, the bride is definitely missing!

My problem is not that Aahil be made to repent and beat himself up beg for forgiveness from Sanam.

It's that while he's doing that, Seher-- the golden child now--will not have to do any such thing. All is well and good, fine and dandy with Seher. She hugged her badi Ammi and her sister. And she is now a caring grandaughter and sister, righteously angered at Raziya and Tanveer and giving ridiculous, hypocritical bhashans. When she kept yapping and preaching to Razia, I rolled my eyes.

I didn't hate Seher before. But I seriously think I am starting to have a distaste for the character now.
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Posted: 10 years ago
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Originally posted by: KhatamKahani


Bless this post.

See it's not that Aahil would have to suffer or feel guilty for his not trusting Sanam or losing faith in Sanam, which bothers me. (In fact, he would beat himself up over it the moment he finds out what happened to Sanam and he was unaware and while someone else was impersonating her, and she was suffering.) If Aahil loses faith in Sanam and she gets angry on him, that's fully her right.

The problem here is Seher. She will not be made accountable for anything.

We get a lame hug and reunion, with her saying she had no idea it was her sister. So what? And then Dilshad and she make sure to try their best to make everything work out smoothily--as in, get back Sanam so the wedding can take place with no issues.

Seher is now the caring sister and grandaughter, feeling righteously angry at Tanveer and Razia. Razia gets all the blame for what what's happened, and Seher's actions and role is brushed over. It's all excused because she "didn't know it was her own family." So effing what?

Here's the thing. Seher is responsible in diminishing and weakening SaHil relationship from Aahil's side. There are two reasons for this. 1) the very fact that she's not Sanam would do this anyway, meaning even if she had tried her best to impersonate,had all the correct info, and did a good job, eventually that relationship would be strained. But this would be a longer process.

2) Is that Seher's actions themselves also has led to Aahil questioning himself, her love, their love, whether something's wrong, that she's changed, etc etc. All that too has worked a bit too in diminishing the strength of the relationship as well.

Now we have further idiocy by Dilshad, and thoughtlessness/selfishness by Seher. She should know better than the other two that a missing bride IS going to just add on to the issues that "SaHil" had been facing from Aahil's POV. All three should know that there is a wedding that is about to take place. Especially Dilshad and Seher because they were just there. They should realize that they should get there ASAP because--hello, the bride is definitely missing!

My problem is not that Aahil be made to repent and beat himself up beg for forgiveness from Sanam.

It's that while he's doing that, Seher the golden child now, will not have to do any such thing. All is well and good, fine and dandy with Seher. She hugged her badi Ammi and her sister. And she is now a caring grandaughter and sister, righteously angered at Raziya and Tanveer and giving ridiculous, hypocritical bhashans. When she kept yapping and preaching to Razia, I rolled my eyes.

I didn't hate Seher before. But I seriously think I am starting to have a distaste for the character now.


Thank you for agreeing with me. I just wanted to vent my feelings out after reading so many posts about this, I wanted to know if someone else also felt the same thing as me. Thank you so much.
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Posted: 10 years ago
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Actually there are numerous posts blaming Seher for this mess. What bothers me the most is the fact that everything that Seher did will be brushed off because she's AsYa's daughter and Sanam's sister. If going to save Sanam was her only redemption, than that's just sad. She was involved in Sanam's kidnapping, she took over her life, her husband and when Sanam finally escaped, she knocked her out and handed her over to Razia's goons. So yes, she is at very least partially responsible for ruining Sanam's married life.
How convenient that Razia died and the entire blame went to her. I'm hoping that after finding out what she did, instead of giving her a second chance, he shuns her out of his life...for at least a little bit just so she realizes how much she screwed up!
Edited by Booteefool - 10 years ago
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Posted: 10 years ago
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Great post !


So its not that we havent been holding seher accountable for all thats happening but rather the cvs are hell bent on shifting the viewers focus on this new Sanam ! In an obvious attempt to mask away her vile antics through a sappy reunion and lame OTT sisterly dialogues - all in the name of redemption 🤢

Even if she does confess of her greedy ways, im sure the mahaan sister that Sanam has apparently become, will willingly forgive her 🥱 So basically i doubt we will be getting to see seher face even the slightest of penalties let alone jail time 😡
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Posted: 10 years ago
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No no seher has done nothing wrong she is asya's child her place is nxt to God. ...😡
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Posted: 10 years ago
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Originally posted by: Rockofages

No no seher has done nothing wrong she is asya's child her place is nxt to God. ...😡


Don't worry Ahil is there to get all the blame😡

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