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😳..I know..I know..what a day to write that its not about passion alone 😆!! I mean here I am and I cant even think straight, forget type straight...but I stick to my guns...its not all about passion😛!!
Time and again I have heard comments about Sahil is all about passion and they are too physical. And today I had to speak up coz today is by far the hottest Sahil episode (sigh..when is it not 😳) and yet there was so much more than what met the eye...
Aahil again lied to his mother, not wanting to let her know that they are spending some quality time together. He senses disapproval there and more so...danger. He in the deepest recesses of his mind knows that he has to protect his and Sanam's precious relationship from Tanveer's blind yet prying eyes. For in his subconscious mind he fears and mistrusts Tanveer..and that is good news...really good news...
The subtle fact that even something as small as a cool breeze has to be shared together. Nothing is fun anymore for them without each other. Nothing matters or is material if the other is not there to share. They complete each other. They together share every big and small thing of their existence...its not about Sanam and Aahil anymore...its not you or me..its simply us.
The pointer that Saham belongs to him with all her heart and soul but Aahil...a part of him still has fears, insecurities, inhibitions. He still cant open up completely, unlike Sanam. Yes, he wanted to confess, he has been wanting to do so for ages, and he loves her to the point of obsession but still there is something that makes him pause. His hesitation in confessing his true feelings is a tell tale sign that he is the weaker of the two and that is precisely what Tanveer senses and will eventually take advantage of. She will play on his psyche. Aahil needs to realize his true worth, and gain confidence in their love.
And for me the most endearing part, the respect the man has for his woman. She was a bit stunned, a bit unprepared, fazed by his sudden assault on her senses. She really didn't know how to respond to the passionate advances of her man and Aahil saw her discomfort. And I loved...loved..loved his reaction. The way he apologized, withdrew, letting her know that her agreement, her wishes, her comfort and most of all her honor came first and foremost. Any red blooded man in the throes of such red hot passion can be carried away, but this man knows how to step back when his woman is not ready. For a union to be meaningful, respect is more important than love, and Aahil knows how to respect and love Sanam, which is indeed rare. For all those who labeled him as a womanizer, if this is how his sort behaves, then we definitely need more of him sothe world can be a better place for all women.😊
And last but not the least was his acute discomfort and embarrassment when faced with his two exes. That again shows he is mindful of her honor, and his role of a husband, and also of the mistakes he made in his past. But my sweetheart Sanam...muuaah...she simply took the cake when she re assured him, put him at ease and calmly informed him that past is past and now what matters is their present and future together. What a refreshing way to deal with such major issues!! What security, what faith and what trust!! Such total understanding is amazing to see on an Indian telly show. What a beautiful and progressive love story!! Unique indeed as no words are uttered yet they both know they are loved...
And the humor in the end..😆...No worries there...Sanam is one heck of a good choice and Aahil is a hell of a great catch...that's a match made in heaven. Yes, they can fight, and they can cry and they can make love and you know what...laugh together too. Their love way beyond and above the word physical...any doubts???❤️
P.S...and for all those purists who believe that passion should not play a major part in a relationship...well...they all need a reality check 😉!! There can be no love without attraction you see...😃
Kumkum Bhagya
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