Originally posted by: Laila2009
You proved me wrong...but does that mean i hated him as a person? That is going to extremes. I did not like the choice of actor cast in the role...it simply as that...the choice I did not like...now, are you going to beat me up for the rest of my life because I do not look at your favorite actor the way you do? I hope not. I still do not find him attractive; however, he has come to fit his part well. As a fan, I would have thought you'd be happy but instead, you've spent the entire threat dragging up issues and pretty much ruining a thread that actually sent some praises. I think if you want to make peace; look at what is said now, instead of assuming things.
She did not spend the entire thread dragging up the issue. She herself is not trying to get this thread closed and is careful in how she is replying. She first replied to what was written in your OP and yes addressed an issue more generally, but you can't blame her for that especially when I've seen you do the same thing in another thread here.
No one is saying you have to find him attractive. But as I said, give the fans some credit. What you said about KVB would not be left standing if it were said about someone else. Neither she nor anyone tried to stop you, she just voiced an opinion based on what you yourself wrote.
And furthermore, all of this is just continuing to derail the thread...and you blame her for it, but you are actively participating in each time you reply (which yes applies to her, as well as me here, but don't blame her).
Finally, I think the least you could do is understand and see that no one here, not even the ones who disagree with you on KVB are trying to start anything up and get this thread into any trouble. And I guess that's the double-edged sword here. We all agree that criticism are fine so don't get overly touchy, so it keeps happening again and again, which is fine but it's not the case for/with everyone, so it becomes skewed and unbalanced. Then when someone jumps in to reply and defend a bit, you find it problematic--but completely ignore the fact that there are many who would disagree with another statement of yours but if we chose to point that out specifically and write the same way you did regarding KVB, there would be no sparing or mercy given for our views and comments.
And with this, I am sure this will be continued. I tried to not say anything and hoped the matter would die down, but you keep putting unnecessary blame and accusations on her, so I had to jump in.
Edited by KhatamKahani - 11 years ago
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