Rashid is NOT Asad Ahmed Khan, Dilshaad is NOT Zoya Farooqui - Page 3

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Posted: 11 years ago
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Originally posted by: notagain



🤗 You said it, so beautifully, yes. Exactly to all of this.


Haha, we agree on many things...Thank you...*🤗 back*
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Posted: 11 years ago
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The Asad and Zoya story has annoyed me on so many occasions, because they take one step forward and two back, but in regards to being compared to Rashid and Dilshaad, they are a million times better.

If Rashid really loved Dilshaad as much as he says, why did he go off with Shireen? Yes I know his circumstances didn't let him stay with Dilshaad, apparently, but that's just a cop out. He should've faced all the problems with her and stayed with her, isn't that better than completely leaving her alone and creating a family with another woman? I know he probably would've ended up in prison because of the factory fire thing, but him not facing the consequences of his actions wasn't something he did for her, although he likes to believe it is, he did it for himself. That's not love. He comes first in his life, and that's fine, but he should at least admit it.

Another annoying thing is that he doesn't seem to have feelings for Shireen at all, he seems to only feel sorry for her. So why marry her and spend all these years with her if you know you probably won't ever have any feelings for her?

That's what I like about Asad and Zoya, they have stuck together, apart from the one Tanveer occasion, and Asad has always been honest with Zoya, he didn't just leave her.
Edited by butterfly15.. - 11 years ago
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Posted: 11 years ago
#23
First marvelous post!
Asya and RaDil NO comparison!
The amount of feelings, and Time they both have sacrificed for others in a unbelievable!
Zoya is always very immature for the fact that she is very mature! Her life was different yet painful just like Asad's!
She is always shown laughing, joking around, having fun, making others happy, In short YOLO because she has seen and acknowledges the worst in life! She has experienced the worst in life, She knows either all her life she can mourn over her outrageous circumstances or she can just live and be happy with what God has given her and that is exactly what she does! As cliche as it sounds she was that tad bit of light that finally walked in Asad's life.

Asad has always been very mature but yet I feel if given a chance he will and can act like a kid who totally lost his childhood because of his father! Yes, it is completely and utterly Rashid's fault for the overly serious and mature nature in Asad's personality! He was very young when his father left him, but not that young to understand what was happening. He knew from that day on that he was the only man for his sister and mother, and will have to protect, and fulfill all the responsibilities that a father or husband will along with son and brotherly responsibilities.

Saying "Opposites Attracts" isn't because its fun to say or it sounds cool but that its a very true cliche statement!
Those two who are considered opposites, fall in love, get married, aren't opposite at all but very similar but choose to see life differently! The problems, circumstances, environment everything is very similar but it is depicted differently by those two humans, Who are just meant to be!

Asad and Zoya both have had lack of parental love, or what is called a normal childhood, which made both of them click. Asad having and OCD behavior and Zoya having a OTT behavior are actually very difficult two things to get along! Asad is and has always been there for her, not letting anyone even point towards her. Zoya has always been there when Asad was crying alone in a corner to take a just a little bit of the darkness and slowly now currently there isn't much darkness left!

Asad was the father figure for Najma and Dilshad, he always consoled them yet there was no one there to console him till Zoya came!

I think i went a little off track but no one can be like them!❤️
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Posted: 11 years ago
#24

Originally posted by: A.Hajnal

"Main ne Asad or Zoya se yeh seekha hai ke..."

I am always amused when I hear Rashid or Dilshaad say that...I mean, to be Asya and do what they have done you need a MAN and HIS woman...I don't see a man in Rashid and for, to no one, not even them Dilshaad is a his...

Can Rashid stand in SM and scream ke Dilshaad meri hai, can he..??
Can Dilshaad stand in SM, Holding his hand and declare her love for Rashid...can she...??
Can Dilshaad put her trust in Rashid to protect her from SM people and the world...can she...??

No matter, what people may think about Zoya, she has always fought for her love and rights...She is a woman who knows that Asad his hers and is worth enough to be fought for...And she has always had/has the security that Asad will protect her...She knows that no matter how much he is angry on her or who much she is wrong, Asad will always stand by her and somehow will get her out of mess...

No matter, what people may think about Asad, I think, we all agree on this fact that he has always have been a man of his words...He has always stood tall and actually fought and fights like a MAN and not back down when he has decided to fight for something/someone...

Yes, he tolerates way too much...His Bardaash ki haad BOHAT ziyada hai...But uske khatam hote hi, no matter what, he has and will have what he wants...do what he should have done for his Zoya, him or his love ones...

So, to me, its funny when Dilshaad or even Rashid think that he, they can fight the world like Asad and Zoya have...🤣

Dil-ammi:- Zoya was always been protracted by Asad Ahmed Khan, he has always been his shield, has always stood between her and the world...In the past or now, no matter how much he fights with her and has problems with her way of life, but from the time he has declared that she is his love, he has NEVER let anyone else say even a word to her...

So , DO you really, really believe that Rashid has the in him to even rise his voice for you? DO you really, really believe that Rashid has the guts and courage that your son has...?? DO you really, really Think that he will stand and fight for you from his wife, children and everyone in SM...?? Everytime...?? DO you think he can shield from the world...??

Rashid:- Well, I won't even say a word about you...I will just wait and watch you standing there and do NOTHING to protract the woman you claim to love, in the same way you have NEVER protracted her before...And as Dilshaad Asad Ahmed Khan's mother, also her Bardaash ki haad must be BOHAT ziyada...When she will get enough of bearing wounds on her soul and self respect, she will go back to her home, and Asad Ahmed Khan won't leave you alive...I am waiting for that day...😈 *Armaan's evil laugh*

Conclusions;-

To be Asad, to do what he has done, will do, you need a Zoya...Your Miss.Farooqui...😳
To be Zoya, to do what she has done, will do, you need a Asad Ahmed Khan...Your Mr.Khan...

Do NOT try to do what they have done, will do without Your Mr.Khan/Your Miss.Farooqui...It can dangerous for your self-respect, health and soul...You will be humiliated by the world and would have deep wounds on your body,heart and soul...

Sincerely,
A responsible citizen of Asya land, Qubool hai. 😃 lol

Edit:-

Dilshaad :- We can't blame her...She has always somehow believed that he will come back to her...and has lived her life waiting for him...Remember first 10 episodes of QH, when Rahid said that he will come to meet her and Asad, she has cooked everything and set the whole home, done everything, was all prepared, but he didn't came...The samething is going to happen even now...He has come back, promised her something, and she know that he is late, very, very late but still it may be this is the only chance she has, so she has to take it...

This track's from Asad's PV :- Somehow, I have always felt Asad has played the role of a father not only for Najma and Ayaan, but also for Dilshaad...He has always tried to protect her...we have seen that in the beginning of QH...He has protected her from Rashid and even lied to her about the phone call...

So even now he will paly the role of a father for her, warn her but won't able to stop her for her own happiness, He may have many scars, be don't want Dilshaad to lose the only chance she has got...But will be there to hold her and not let her fall...simple as that...😊

P.s....Link for my view/Prediction on D-R-S and SM-or-No SM track -> https://www.indiaforums.com/forum/qubool-hai/3814313/prediction-on-d-r-s-and-sm-or-no-sm-track

Well it's complete hypocrisy post. Rather there are many facts which are not stated just to show rashid in bad light. Infact rashid and dilshad are real lovers compared to the present Assad and zoya.
Edited by naina2010 - 11 years ago
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Posted: 11 years ago
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@naina2010
Well it's complete hypocrisy post. Rather there are many facts which are not stated just to show rashid in bad light. Infact rashid and dilshad are real lovers compared to the present Assad and zoya.

I beg to differ... AsYa have gone through the cuchi-coo stage of love, when they are constantly over each other! They have so gone and seen so much that there bond is too strong to have the need for the constant expression of love! Their little caring actions for each other shows that they are def ready for the next stage in life which is:nikkah!

RaDil are completely different from Asya, Rashid chose for his relationship to break from Dilshad!
Edited by _Littles12_ - 11 years ago
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Posted: 11 years ago
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Originally posted by: butterfly15..

The Asad and Zoya story has annoyed me on so many occasions, because they take one step forward and two back, but in regards to being compared to Rashid and Dilshaad, they are a million times better.


If Rashid really loved Dilshaad as much as he says, why did he go off with Shireen? Yes I know his circumstances didn't let him stay with Dilshaad, apparently, but that's just a cop out. He should've faced all the problems with her and stayed with her, isn't that better than completely leaving her alone and creating a family with another woman? I know he probably would've ended up in prison because of the factory fire thing, but him not facing the consequences of his actions wasn't something he did for her, although he likes to believe it is, he did it for himself. That's not love. He comes first in his life, and that's fine, but he should at least admit it.

Another annoying thing is that he doesn't seem to have feelings for Shireen at all, he seems to only feel sorry for her. So why marry her and spend all these years with her if you know you probably won't ever have any feelings for her?

That's what I like about Asad and Zoya, they have stuck together, apart from the one Tanveer occasion, and Asad has always been honest with Zoya, he didn't just leave her.


@Bold :- I can't even think of one plausible reason of why and how he got married to Shireen because He was supposedly "in love" with his wife and had a son of 7-8 years that time, how, just HOW he ended up getting married to a woman, had a child with her and still claims that was "circumstances" or Raziya's chaal...😲 I mean, the factory fire thing happened AFTER he came back to Dilshaad WITH Ayaan, so he was ALREADY married to Shireen...There is NO WAY he didn't cheat on his wife or more better wives...that man can't self-victimization him in this case IN ANYWAY...

@Red:- Well, you haven't watched the new spoiler of up-coming episodes, Shireen will try to leave the house and he will say that he loves her too, in his own way, so there is no need for her to leave the home...She and Dilshaad, both can have him...🤣 LOL

Blue :- True...They are honest with each other, they may not communicate or function in a "normal" couple way, but they believe and know what they mean to each other, what they are for each other, and that they are each other's...😳
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Posted: 11 years ago
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Originally posted by: _Littles12_

First marvelous post!

Asya and RaDil NO comparison!
The amount of feelings, and Time they both have sacrificed for others in a unbelievable!
Zoya is always very immature for the fact that she is very mature! Her life was different yet painful just like Asad's!
She is always shown laughing, joking around, having fun, making others happy, In short YOLO because she has seen and acknowledges the worst in life! She has experienced the worst in life, She knows either all her life she can mourn over her outrageous circumstances or she can just live and be happy with what God has given her and that is exactly what she does! As cliche as it sounds she was that tad bit of light that finally walked in Asad's life.

Asad has always been very mature but yet I feel if given a chance he will and can act like a kid who totally lost his childhood because of his father! Yes, it is completely and utterly Rashid's fault for the overly serious and mature nature in Asad's personality! He was very young when his father left him, but not that young to understand what was happening. He knew from that day on that he was the only man for his sister and mother, and will have to protect, and fulfill all the responsibilities that a father or husband will along with son and brotherly responsibilities.

Saying "Opposites Attracts" isn't because its fun to say or it sounds cool but that its a very true cliche statement!
Those two who are considered opposites, fall in love, get married, aren't opposite at all but very similar but choose to see life differently! The problems, circumstances, environment everything is very similar but it is depicted differently by those two humans, Who are just meant to be!

Asad and Zoya both have had lack of parental love, or what is called a normal childhood, which made both of them click. Asad having and OCD behavior and Zoya having a OTT behavior are actually very difficult two things to get along! Asad is and has always been there for her, not letting anyone even point towards her. Zoya has always been there when Asad was crying alone in a corner to take a just a little bit of the darkness and slowly now currently there isn't much darkness left!

Asad was the father figure for Najma and Dilshad, he always consoled them yet there was no one there to console him till Zoya came!

I think i went a little off track but no one can be like them!❤️


Thank you...😳

Bold:- TRUE...😊 What can I say more about your Asyaish post, that was beautiful...WORD everything you said...!!! 😳
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Posted: 11 years ago
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Good post.

Rashid is such a spineless, shameless man. You can never expect any good deed from this man. First, he marries Dilshaad, have kids with her, leaves her, have a kid with another woman, comes back to Dilshaad, then leaves again with his kid with another woman and never looks back at his first wife and kids. Never cared for them. And then he keeps crying about how much he loves his first wife, his children and all the crap. Just keep that mouth shut for goodness sake, Rashid! You had the time to show your love and care for them but too bad you didn't when they needed you. You clearly showed where your love and care lied. And now after 17 effin' years, this man comes back and tells his first wife to come live with him! Oh look at the nerve of this man! Why didn't he just kill himself before even having this thought in his full of crap mind? I can't believe this man had the audacity to ask the woman he abandoned, never stood up for, never fulfilled his promise towards to come with him! Once again, he didn't think about his children, his duties towards them or repercussions of his non-sense decision. I have no words left for this spineless man. He should just 'chullu bhar pani mein doob mary-ing.' Or Now that most of his 'children' are getting married or are already married, he should go to Mecca and repent for his deeds instead of getting back with his wifey and dream about enjoying his life.

Coming to Dilshaad, this woman has totally disappointed me. I don't wanna understand that she loves Rashid and blah blah. Even if I buy that she loves him for a moment, what about her role as a mother? How can she decide to go and live with him when she clearly knows how her son would feel about this decision! The same son who stood with her through thick and thin, the same son who helped her when her so called love left her for another woman, the same son who always protected her when her so called love couldn't, the same son who worked his ass off and built the empire her family lives off today when her so called love was busy having sex with another woman! She's certainly failing as a mother, as a woman with integrity and self-respect. She knows her son has abandonment issues. He's still not over his dad abandoning him 17 years ago, how will he deal with his mother taking such a decision against him? She's extremely wrong in this situation. Never thought a smart, self-respected woman would take such a dumb and rash decision. She is not even thinking about Shireen's children. Putting aside Shireen's karma and her kids' selfishness, after going through so much in life, Dilshaad should be the last person to be so selfish and not thinking about anyone else. I don't have any words left for her. I'm hoping against all the hopes that she changes her decision but going by spoilers it seems unlikely. I dislike Dilshaad atm. I don't know if she can ever be redeemed after this decision she has made.

Also, all these lame excuses like 'Asad Zoya ne mujhe sikhaya...' and blah blah are not working. Asad and Zoya have always stood up for each other, been there for each other unlike you Rashid Ahmed Khan! They made their choices at right time unlike you. They don't have kids to take care of. You have responsibilities, duties you owe towards your kids, you wife. But who am I kidding! When was the last time Rashid Ahmed Khan fulfilled his duties or took his responsibilities seriously? & now if Ayaan leaving house spoiler is anything to go by, you let go of your son? Why didn't you just kill yourself? Why didn't you?
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Posted: 11 years ago
#29

Originally posted by: naina2010


Well it's complete hypocrisy post. Rather there are many facts which are not stated just to show rashid in bad light. Infact rashid and dilshad are real lovers compared to the present Assad and zoya.


Rashid and Dilshaad real lovers? Dilshaad I'll buy but Rashid? How exactly? Oh, by leaving his love alone to take care of kids while he was having 'fun' with another woman? Or when he left the son from his second wife with his love without even bothering how she would feel about the whole situation? Or when he left her again forever? Or when he failed to stand up for his love all the time when people were questioning her characters? What real love? I don't see any real love from Rashid's side.

Maybe you're saying when he comes after 17 years and asks her to come live with him and his second wife under the same roof.
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Posted: 11 years ago
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Well it's complete hypocrisy post. Rather there are many facts which are not stated just to show rashid in bad light. Infact rashid and dilshad are real lovers compared to the present Assad and zoya.


@naina2010 Enlighten us with these real "many" fact...because I, we have a different definition of "real lovers"...

I agree, there has been love, But it has been one sided, always...Dilshaad was, is in love with him... (The old him when they were newly married, when Asad was not even born, in every flash-back, you see them in that time...I at least believe, she just remembers the good time and has somehow Forgot the times when he has been lying to her and has been sleeping with his new wife and got her pregnant with Ayaan)

So, if he was "in love" with her, he won't have gone and married an other woman...and had a child with her...

And then when he came back and she fogive him, and what he did...?? He has goes again to leave her with 2 children of his and NEVER even show a glimpse of his...

He had never fulfill the responsibilities of a lover, husband and a father for Dilshaad and her children...So, forgive me, but to me they or better Rashid isn't lover, has NEVER been one...

Edited by A.Hajnal - 11 years ago

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