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Posted: 11 years ago
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Originally posted by: KulfiBai

Everything you've stated is valid and I completely agree with you! Not gonna lie, I was very disappointed when we didn't get a heart-to-heart between these two but I suppose we'll just have to deal with it 😆 Dunno 'bout others, but I am enjoying this light-hearted bantering and teasing between the two of 'em!

Ideally I would've liked them to have some sort of mature conversation, I'd also have expected the dynamics between AsYa and Ayaan to have altered but it looks like I'll get neither of these things so I just gotta live with it 😆

Great post! :)



True, even I was disappointed. The only thing Asad said after she got back was that he'd never let anything come between them again, and then they kinda just decided to let everything slide haha. But yeah, you're right, just gonna have to deal with it haha, take whatever we can get for now haha.
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Posted: 11 years ago
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Completely agree with u...and yes zoya and asad is behaving like nothing happened ...but before also they were like this...after tanveer 's exit ,there was more issues than this zoyaan track to discuss abt but they just left the past and enjoyed there present...when asad said abt it zoya clearly said that it is better to forget the past if it is giving only pain...so they r doing the same now...
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Posted: 11 years ago
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Originally posted by: _vineeta_

It definitely make sense how you have put your points here.

Anyways Zoya is not type of person who hold negativity or grudges, she forgives easily and don't talk of sad things until she has to. Thats not her character..
Sometimes its better things are resolved only if they resurface, till then you get better perspective of what and how it happened and learn the other person better else anger and guilt could make situation worse. QH is not ending soon, the right time will come and some serious discussion.



Yes that is a very valid point too, that Zoya has always been very forgiving. I remember there was once she even had a conversation with Asad about how there's no point in being negative about stuff in life (which he then repeated to her on another occasion haha). And yeah, it's not completely impossible that they might bring this back up in the future, but for now I guess they've decided to bury the hatchet, until they get a better perspective like you said (:
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Posted: 11 years ago
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Originally posted by: aksasya

Completely agree with u...and yes zoya and asad is behaving like nothing happened ...but before also they were like this...after tanveer 's exit ,there was more issues than this zoyaan track to discuss abt but they just left the past and enjoyed there present...when asad said abt it zoya clearly said that it is better to forget the past if it is giving only pain...so they r doing the same now...



Ah yes, after the Tanveer episode they had that conversation where they agreed to let the past remain in the past. I guess they've decided on the same thing this time, without actually talking about it.
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Posted: 11 years ago
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Thank you for making this post! I agree completely with you. And honestly what is there to talk about? Like you said they talked it out very early in the problem (garden hug in SM). Since then they have understood each other so well. Asad understood Zoya's ordeal when she came for Farhan's haldi. Then during Nikhat's nikah they communicated so well. In the hospital once again they communicated. After that, when Asad came to SM and was uncomfortable seeing Zoya take care of Ayaan and just wanted a hug Zoya understood him and gave him that. No words needed.

AsYa's connection is extremely deep. They claimed the truth in front of everyone in SM. Both fought for each other and fought for their love. None of the people involved considered this a nikah it was always temporary. Now that time is over what is the need to sit and mope around about it? Honestly, there was nothing even traumatic about what happened. Yes it was sad and very very sad but nothing that should have damaged them in any way. And their love is above and beyond this.

Also, when did AsYa need words to communicate? Did they discuss Mangalpur after they came back?

I honestly don't see why so many people are holding it against the makers/AsYa. AsYa are back and cute as ever. Their love story is so beautiful.

Even today's episode showed it. For Asad Zoya's means everything. She has really come as the light in his life and he LOVES making her happy. Zoya is the world to him. She has filled his life with joy and happiness. Even for Zoya Asad is everything. The first thing she could think about was Asad coming and wishing her. They don't need to hug, kiss, make out to show how much they love each other. These simple gestures and the innocence and purity of their love is really what makes them unique. And like i said, AsYa are much more deep then we realize. They understand each other so well. They both had a broken past and have come together as the best medicine for each other's wounds. Asad never had joy, happiness, or a reason to smile and now Zoya makes every moment of his life happy. Zoya never had a family and some where she belonged. Asad gave her that comfort and loves her so much. He is her protector, shield, and means the world to her. If this is not an epic love story then i don't know what is. Asad loves pampering Zoya and making her happy and Zoya loves having her Mr. Khan's attention. I just LOVE AsYa!
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Posted: 11 years ago
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Fantastic viewpoint. The way you have put it...it makes so much more sense.
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Posted: 11 years ago
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Originally posted by: niki_12

Thank you for making this post! I agree completely with you. And honestly what is there to talk about? Like you said they talked it out very early in the problem (garden hug in SM). Since then they have understood each other so well. Asad understood Zoya's ordeal when she came for Farhan's haldi. Then during Nikhat's nikah they communicated so well. In the hospital once again they communicated. After that, when Asad came to SM and was uncomfortable seeing Zoya take care of Ayaan and just wanted a hug Zoya understood him and gave him that. No words needed.


AsYa's connection is extremely deep. They claimed the truth in front of everyone in SM. Both fought for each other and fought for their love. None of the people involved considered this a nikah it was always temporary. Now that time is over what is the need to sit and mope around about it? Honestly, there was nothing even traumatic about what happened. Yes it was sad and very very sad but nothing that should have damaged them in any way. And their love is above and beyond this.

Also, when did AsYa need words to communicate? Did they discuss Mangalpur after they came back?

I honestly don't see why so many people are holding it against the makers/AsYa. AsYa are back and cute as ever. Their love story is so beautiful.

Even today's episode showed it. For Asad Zoya's means everything. She has really come as the light in his life and he LOVES making her happy. Zoya is the world to him. She has filled his life with joy and happiness. Even for Zoya Asad is everything. The first thing she could think about was Asad coming and wishing her. They don't need to hug, kiss, make out to show how much they love each other. These simple gestures and the innocence and purity of their love is really what makes them unique. And like i said, AsYa are much more deep then we realize. They understand each other so well. They both had a broken past and have come together as the best medicine for each other's wounds. Asad never had joy, happiness, or a reason to smile and now Zoya makes every moment of his life happy. Zoya never had a family and some where she belonged. Asad gave her that comfort and loves her so much. He is her protector, shield, and means the world to her. If this is not an epic love story then i don't know what is. Asad loves pampering Zoya and making her happy and Zoya loves having her Mr. Khan's attention. I just LOVE AsYa!



OMG this legit made me cry, Nikki :')
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Posted: 11 years ago
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Originally posted by: niki_12

Thank you for making this post! I agree completely with you. And honestly what is there to talk about? Like you said they talked it out very early in the problem (garden hug in SM). Since then they have understood each other so well. Asad understood Zoya's ordeal when she came for Farhan's haldi. Then during Nikhat's nikah they communicated so well. In the hospital once again they communicated. After that, when Asad came to SM and was uncomfortable seeing Zoya take care of Ayaan and just wanted a hug Zoya understood him and gave him that. No words needed.


AsYa's connection is extremely deep. They claimed the truth in front of everyone in SM. Both fought for each other and fought for their love. None of the people involved considered this a nikah it was always temporary. Now that time is over what is the need to sit and mope around about it? Honestly, there was nothing even traumatic about what happened. Yes it was sad and very very sad but nothing that should have damaged them in any way. And their love is above and beyond this.

Also, when did AsYa need words to communicate? Did they discuss Mangalpur after they came back?

I honestly don't see why so many people are holding it against the makers/AsYa. AsYa are back and cute as ever. Their love story is so beautiful.

Even today's episode showed it. For Asad Zoya's means everything. She has really come as the light in his life and he LOVES making her happy. Zoya is the world to him. She has filled his life with joy and happiness. Even for Zoya Asad is everything. The first thing she could think about was Asad coming and wishing her. They don't need to hug, kiss, make out to show how much they love each other. These simple gestures and the innocence and purity of their love is really what makes them unique. And like i said, AsYa are much more deep then we realize. They understand each other so well. They both had a broken past and have come together as the best medicine for each other's wounds. Asad never had joy, happiness, or a reason to smile and now Zoya makes every moment of his life happy. Zoya never had a family and some where she belonged. Asad gave her that comfort and loves her so much. He is her protector, shield, and means the world to her. If this is not an epic love story then i don't know what is. Asad loves pampering Zoya and making her happy and Zoya loves having her Mr. Khan's attention. I just LOVE AsYa!



Wow girl, this is one wonderfully passionately written post, I swear this deserves a thread of its own. I honestly was just thinking of it from a practical POV for both Asya and the makers, but you brought it to a whole new level, I didn't even consider the emotional depth of it. And you've said it all, I have nothing to say other than bravo! <3
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Posted: 11 years ago
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nice point of view... all the 3 points are very valid...

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Posted: 11 years ago
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Firstly BRILLIANT post 😳 Thanks for the PM <3 I had seen this topic through my phone and had decided I'd come on and reply 😆
I agree entirely.. like I said in one of my posts before that Asad and Zoya have already communicated. They both have met a number of times in the last few weeks. There was a time when Zoya was angry, Asad was guilty, they spoke it out and hugged each other conveying the need and desire to be with each other. The other time they met and had a confrontation, Zoya was reeling under the guilt of going against her own belief, making a mockery out of marriage and also was pained to call anyone but Asad her 'shauhar'. She vent her ordeal to Asad, and Asad who is such a believer of traditions also made her realize that love goes beyond everything. Zoya was yet trying to balance her emotions, giving importance to a duty of not hurting the family in SM and surpressing her desire to just run away to Asad. But when Asad walked in through SM, stood up for her, for their love, and she realized that she was indeed HIS FIRST priority now she got the strength to fight too. They both wanted to be together, that was the universal truth for them, because they both knew they both had made mistakes and both were suffering because of them, but they also knew they had learnt a lesson and wouldn't do anything ever again that would cost them the amount it did this time.

Asad and Zoya have never communicated much to each other, they've only spoken, whether in fights, in their bickering, in their nonsensical banter or just merely talking anything. But have they needed to communicate? NO

Asad hates his dad, has issues in trusting others, has had a huge burden of responsibilities from a young age hunching his back now, and this burden constricts him in expressing. But HAS he ever told Zoya that in clear words? NO .. BUT Zoya knows of it, she knows exactly what he feels and why he does. She knew it even when they hadn't realized they were in love.

Zoya has always been an independent girl, because she never really had a choice. She is an abandoned child, and surely she might have wanted someone in her life to prioritize her, someone to pamper her and make her happy, but does she say it? NO .. BUT slowly and gradually realizing this in their relation Asad has become that person for her whom she depends upon and who wants to protect her and always does. (sooner or later, before people point out anything 😛) When the Tanveer fiasco happened, their relation had just begun, so they sat down and had a number of conversations dealing with the issue and got over it. But they immediately set on to pamper each other so that they could spend time together and a happy time together and clear the mess their life was. NOW their relation has taken mighty steps ahead, they no longer need to communicate to each other to make the other understand their feelings.

Some people do not need to communicate, their actions do the needful. Asad and Zoya know each other too well to express anything to the other at every given point. They've been more about feelings than words and this has been the highlight in their relation from the very start.

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