Learn to respect one's opinion before u bash them for it(plz read) - Page 2

Originally posted by: -Shayari-

Im sorry if this has happened on my end at all. I apologize. 😳 If its something ive said then honestly im not a rude person. 😆 I just tend to get carried away! But i hope things work out and all i cam say and suggest.. from a members perspective is just dont let people on the internet get to you. They remain faceless for a reason. Cant have the guts to say things face to face so they use the internet where they can feel some sort of power and say things. They dont mean anything to you so dont let it get to youm BS it and know that ur the better person. 😛

Oh and on the gang up thing. Ive said this before. I dont think people purposelly gang up. Some do but majority dont. Its just a matter of who agrees with whom and on some cases it may be one againt 50 and on others it maybe 50 50. Its bound to happen on forums especially as large as QH. but if u feel ganging up then i would tell u to go to DT. They really are a solid bunch especially our DT. 😳

Originally posted by: stereohearts200

First of all, lemme say thank u. Abt the ganging up, yes, most ppl aren't like that, but on such a large forum as qh, there r members from newbies to veteran members like u. And it's just natural that members side with memberswho have beena around for longer, their intention mi8 not be to gang up against some1, but that's what happens, coz no 1 sides with the under dogs, aka, newbies, groupbies and senior members. But at that moment, the perosn who is hurt can't look at it in anyway apart from ganging up against them. So yeah, that's what kinda hurt me.

Originally posted by: -Shayari-

I honestly dont think its about whose been here longer more than it is about who people agree with thats all. One day thry may agree with someone whose been here for ages and one day it may be a completely new member. It depends on the situation. Yes on occasion there is ganging up. Not going to lie. There is. Its the facts of IF 😆 but on normal cases it really isnt ganginf up. Its usually just who agrees with whom. But like i said in one ear and out tyebother. People who dont have any relevance to ur real life .. their words shouldnt be taken seriously at all. 😳

Originally posted by: sheilasandhu

Oh i have been bashed one too many times but than i just don't care anymore and if i don't agree with a post i just do not comment on it to avoid any untoward bashing.

Anyways if in anyway i have hurt you knowing or unknowingly, please forgive me. It's never my intend to hurt anyone.

BTW good post and you are absolutely right in saying that most of the time it's senior members who have unconditional support from other members who would bash, insult, abuse and name call directly or indirectly to win an argument. Hang in there and be strong .

Can you give the link to your post last night. I would like to go thru it.