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Posted: 11 years ago
Great post.
Even I was amazed at the outburst in the forum. Zoya's reaction was not wrong. Well, Zoya is immature, ziddi. Just recollected Dilshad's line in one of the earlier episode:
"When Zoya is very sad, she hides her sadness by becoming all the more brattish and ziddi". Zoya is just living her character.

I don't think Zoya will or rather should go back to KV till either the nikaah is proved invalid or divorce happens. That's why CVs are just showing excuses after excuses and the merry go round.

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Posted: 11 years ago
Well analysed...
Asad must be out on bail..efficient lawyer..so unless tanveer has an Ace up her sleeve (oops forgot she tore it)..we might just see asad behind bars this time...or not..he is influential, is he not..
As for zoya..are we getting her back...
Nikhat..hope her goodness rubs off on Farhaan...bahut jaldi tha kya yaha khayal...

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Posted: 11 years ago
Nice post
Jail track end our all prediction gone in drain.
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Posted: 11 years ago
Awesome post bheegi!
Love how you're able to look at all sides, and usually I can too, but I guess I was just to let down with today.
Reading the written update, I was upset at Zoya's outburst, and watching the episode I will admit I am part of those who bashed on her...a lot lol.
But I also saw where you were coming from and saw it in the episode. This actually made me think of it in another light. The girl looked like she was going to/having a mental/nervous breakdown. I think she's going cray cray, effects of SM seriously.
But what bothered me about today, was how far she took her reaction when she did the same to Asad just a few days ago. To me it just doesn't seem fair, and I guess that's my biggest problem. She's being made to look like the victim too much, and that was my only problem with the track and today.
She could have gone to Asad's office, waited there, till he got out of his "meeting" and given him an earful to find out he wasn't there. It would have clicked something was wrong.
While I understand her hurt and disappointment, I would be too having such hope of going back, but it not happening. But she should have at least talked to him. He showed up every other time, so it's not like he didn't want to this time.

I agree though, Asad really needs to step up, and he's been a bigger disappointment the past few weeks after Nikhat's wedding. When is this guy going to man up and learn. His reality check might come soon though when either Ayaan falls for Zoya, or he finds out Badi Bi and Shirin are up to. Yeah the family who you have sacrificed it all for, these are their true colors.

As for Shirin hearing Zoya and Ayaan's conversation, the question is what will she do now and what was she thinking? Is she going to make Zoya stay or relieve her finally? I think she's going to blame Asad and Dilshaad all over again like she usually does.

P.S I was VERY disappointed in the so called jail track. I'm STILL upset about it, I hope they don't just end it there because even I was looking forward to them showing Asad behind bars and Zoya coming and having an intense emotional jail scene where each are on either side lol.



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Posted: 11 years ago

Originally posted by: _Littles12_


completely agreed!
But then if you look logically there is no point in trying to explain something. 2 out of 10 people who comment are going to understand and the other eight will god knows how start a useless argumental topic!

What i dont understand is it really that hard to understand the difference between creative criticism and bashing?

thanks dear. It's best to ignore bullies. Next time, I will not respond to their comments because obviously their intention was not to discuss or comprehend what I had actually written. For heaven sakes, I was describing a woman with a nervous breakdown😆,,...not a sane woman

All you have to do is state your opinion in a way that does not start a fight or an argument!

Honestly, if you have time to make a post you have time to correct it in the proper way!
You can write a whole page trying to explain why the character is doing this and not that but whoever your talking to will still go like i dont care i want asya to unite!

AsYa separation was bound to happen and Zoyaan were as well! it was showed in the very first episodes!
Than what is the problem now?
If they do solve the problem in one episode and get an AsYa there will be that one hypocritical person who is going to be like it was rushed!
WTH!

I agree, this Zoyaan twist needs to serve a bigger purpose...for me that would be nothing less than at least some Ghafoor reveal or Ghafoor interaction with Zoya on a day to day basis

Yes, there are many events/situations/aspects of this track that i dont like and im pretty sure you dont either but that doesnt mean you go ahead and say unnecessary comments about the actors themselves!

They do as they are told! they really have no say!

Every person who have previously watched Gul's shows know that she has a different way of putting forth her show!

There were many posts on Zoya is acting childish or Surbhi is overreacting???

What else do you expect from her honestly?
She was forced in this pointless nikkah!
Yes it was her fault for her leaving the nikkah but she was going for Asad's sister!
Nikhat ne bhi jaan chordi!
Asad is Zoya first and only priority!
So much for her trust to be broken once again!
She's left stranded in a devastating state in this world once again!

She is not always right in her ways but her intentions are always honorable and always geared towards her undying love for asad

Put yourself in her shoes for a second and think about it
If the only person you have in this world is the love of your life
and first your forced in such a relationship that you could only
witness with the love of your life but all of sudden you have to do because he asked you to do it!
Flashback that you told him that you would take a bullet for him!
Than finally when you think its done, over you can finally be in his arms again another
incident pops up!
after two tries when you try again and he doesnt show up?
what do you want her to happily eat an ice cream,
How could she go to the KV house when the whole society is now practically aware of her and Ayaan's nikkah! Now there wont be any taunting or "Badnaami"
sorry went too far but everyone is bashing zoya and i dont understand why
i would understand if she didnt show up then by all means kill her but she did come..

IMO, she went back to SM because she knows he will eventually come there to fetch her...again she went for him, not because she has feelings for ayaan as some people are interpreting

Maybe i am saying too much! But i dont understand all the diction being used to describe any topic! Thanks ...enjoyed reading them😃

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Posted: 11 years ago

Originally posted by: fanraya

Well said Sangeeta, I agree with you, Awesome post, Zoe acting childish as she is just frustrated, things are not going well at all for her, every time she tries to get back to Asad something happens, so it was not unexpected, she is going burst really soon, and i am really waiting for that, she should just fire that Badi bi and Shrien nautanki, just tell them what the whole deal is if this selfish Ayaan can not open his mouth, I really want her to blast everyone in SM. Overall I have no idea what the hell is happening in QH, the same old Billi ki nautanki, Dilshaad missing in action. Same rona dhona. Everyone seem to be moving in circle. The whole plot is lost, I hope Gul knows what she is doing.. Story is not moving ahead, it is just moving in circle.. I am just sick of all these unrealistic tracks.


I agree, it would be nice to see her channel her outburst against the SM waalas but unfortunately, we always take out our anger on the people we love the most or are most comfortable with

Yes, Gul and team are playing ringa ringa roses these days😆
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Posted: 11 years ago

Originally posted by: DevikaRavish

Hi Sangeeta,

Nice post.. I was not happy with the episode and not with the actions of Zoya though.. I thought she could have waited at KV door step instead of going back to SM.. .

but your points made me think in a new angle.. Yes for all the trauma she has gone through.. it was just a small outlet...

ASYA are one soul.. She definately acted like his wife.. and she trusts him to come and take her.. Asad will not let her down unless he faces any other circumstances...I think the jail track was very much hyped.. let us see if Asad returns back to jail.. If Zoya gets to know the reason, am sure, she will just walk out of SM caring for nobody to reach her beloved and see to that he is fine... This scene was necessary since this will lead to Imran-Tanveer's truth revelation to Asad...

What I feel is Zoya cannot go back to KV as Ayaan's wife.. It will be proved that the nikaah was invalid and only after that she will be able to go back as Asad's mangetar or his bride... Hopefully in Tonight's episode Ayaan and Zoya reveal to the family about their deal and how they landed up in the community hall and what their priorities are...



Thanks Devika. Zoya really w ants to go for sure but she really wants asad to take her back home respectfully. No woman wants to beg to be taken back. I think that's why she didn't wait outside KV or go to his office

I have a feeling she will get talked into this rasam also- Asad will come and see that, get upset and leave😕

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Posted: 11 years ago

Originally posted by: niki_12

Di i completely agree with you. Even though I am not married, I am sure if I were in Zoya's place i would have done the exact same thing. It is very justified. Yes, I may not have gone back to SM but that was a plot point and Gul's brain.

Thanks Niki. I know you are a very mature person😊. Of course we know SM is her maayka and till Ghafoor reveal happens, she will continue to return there but yesterday, I felt she returned back to SM as she knows asad will eventually come looking for her at SM
Anyways, i guess the purpose of jail was so that this sneaking out does not happen.

I hope they continue the jail track...like CC says, everything happens in 3s in QH😆
Honestly, the reason i feel this back and forth is happening is because none of these 3 idiots are finishing this correctly. Ayaan/Zoya need to tell the family and Asad needs to come get her from SM (in front of everyone). So I am guessing they are building up for that and most likely Asad will take her away in Gaffur's presence.

yeah, i think they want the DDLJ style here. Where is Tej Sapru???
Honestly i know i have been complaining that I wish Asad take Zoya away and the sher emerge and all that but I realized Asad is in a sticky spot with what haq does he take Zoya back? So IMO there will be some pushing point soon (perhaps invalid nikah/presigned divorce papers) with which Asad will come and rightfully claim Zoya as his and take her away. Otherwise what does he say to the people of SM? I am thinking invalid nikah because Zoya's name will free them from the trap just like Zoya untangled the bracelet.

Hope so...or if asad is in jail again, zoya just runs away without giving any importance to SM. razia then instigates ayaan to dissolve the nikaah
Anyways I am glad they did not drag this out-i am going to look at the glass as half full rather then half empty. Hopefully something good can still happen by 1st anniversary since the F32 article hinted us being happy soon as well. Had they dragged jail then that would have been difficult.
I would have preferred the jail to this current ringa ringa roses game😆

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Posted: 11 years ago

Originally posted by: webuser7

@Meriaashiqui and @Nkapoor3

I suggest you read all of Sangeeta's post and not base your opinion on one or two posts. In the past, when pretty much the whole forum was spewing anti-Asad, Sangeeta has defended the character and his emotional baggage.

IMO, she is one of the few unbiased and positive person on this forum. She is mature enough to not worship a telly character blindly but chooses to opine the way she interprets it.

While you are completely entitled to your opinion, there is no reason to be sarcastic or condescending. I truly didn't see any Asad bashing in this post. But then that's my opinion.

Here are some sample links for you. I suggest you check it out. You may change your mind about the TM's general perspective.

http://www.india-forums.com/forum_posts.asp?TID=3733893
http://www.india-forums.com/forum_posts.asp?TID=3717946
http://www.india-forums.com/forum_posts.asp?TID=3740115
http://www.india-forums.com/forum_posts.asp?TID=3742525
http://www.india-forums.com/forum_posts.asp?TID=3744557
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http://www.india-forums.com/forum_posts.asp?TID=3712527
http://www.india-forums.com/forum_posts.asp?TID=3711563
http://www.india-forums.com/forum_posts.asp?TID=3688664
http://www.india-forums.com/forum_posts.asp?TID=3687703
http://www.india-forums.com/forum_posts.asp?TID=3666699
http://www.india-forums.com/forum_posts.asp?TID=3653403
http://www.india-forums.com/forum_posts.asp?TID=3643388
http://www.india-forums.com/forum_posts.asp?TID=3637615

I rest my case.



This is the sweetest thing a friend could do RK. Lots of hugs for you but as you can see, the bullies have probably not bothered to open any of these posts. In fact, I went through them and interestingly, most of them are pro Asad😆

I have had more Zoya empathy posts since she was dragged into signing the nikaah naama for obvious reasons. But that's what Gul wants, right?
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Posted: 11 years ago

Originally posted by: rendezvousvin

Great post Sangeeta... All our predictions about the Jail track went down the drain... It didn't last for more than a minute...

as some people are saying, hope he will return to the jail...let's see. But if that was it, then Zee is really getting desperate


I completely understand Zoya's outburst, but my problem with her, rather the CVs, that there is no character growth in her... She is still immature and after going through so much, she still doesn't use her brain and try figuring out what exactly happened for Asad to not show up... Fine, she called at his office and the receptionist said he is in a meeting, but doesn't she know that he is a man of words and will never break his promise, at least without a reason... Doesn't she know him that much? And why always blaming Asad and behaving as if she is all innocent? If Asad is wrong, so is she and Ayaan, then why put all the blame on Asad? We all thought that AsYa is way past MU, but Zoya disappointed me today...

I agree with one part- Zoya has not had a chance to grow at all with this track. Does she have to go through more pain for that to happen or will it happen only after she finds her abbu???
REst- she just had a nervous breakdown and none of us are sane when that happens


I am disappointed that Asad being a business Tycoon can easily be trapped like this... He very well knew how far Tanveer can go and still he just wanted the police to just warn her... And he told the police that he knows her from his childhood days and she keeps coming to his house after being forbidden several times... Why can't he tell the inspector that she is blackmailing him to marry her? That she tried killing his fiancee many a times?... How long is he gonna just warn her?...

yes, i was disappointed that he just wanted a warning for her.

How long is Ayaan going to keep promising Humeira and don't do anything to fulfill it... How long will he take to tell his family that Zoya will be going back to Asad? How long is he gonna sit and watch Zoya performing all the duties of a wife and a DIL?

Ayaan of course is the biggest culprit here...u know my opinion on that

All in all, I am very much disappointed with the CVs and their way of writing... We are just going round and round and round and round... No progress towards anything...😡

I agree...I am getting vertigo now😆

P.S. : Sorry for my rant Sangeeta... But I am really upset with the current track...who isn't?😕

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