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Posted: 11 years ago
#61

Originally posted by: Rorschach

Shona mona, you make a post on it 😆

Ok so lets keep aside Ayaan from Asad and Zoya relation. Now tell me why Asad has to alaways work on their relation. There are two persons in any relation and effort should come from both side. Where was Zoya's love and concern when she went out on her adventure. Did She think of Asad?. Was not she fiance of Asad then but did she pay any heed to this thought. The guy had single wish of marrying her and he made it loud and clear at each and every single point even though she ran way only to give ACP Pradyman a ran of his money.

Why we always want our male leads to be epitome of perfectness but its ok for us if female lead is not perfect. When this accidental marriage happened, why story need to be twisted in such a manner to show Zoya as victim. Do we have any single monologue of her repenting on her decision..absolutely not. She was giving lecture to Imran but did she ever let Asad know her real intentions behind her infamous adventure..a big fat no.

Why its always about Zoya's pain, her suffering and her guilt. Is this because we as women could more relate with her pain.What about Asad? Is he not suffering? Is he enjoying? Let be real Zoya has Ayaan to share her grief, even to have a silly fight over salman and to joke about their so called accidental marriage to ease out the pain. Now tell me what Asad has, to whom he can share his pain with? Every one looks at him to fix the issue but what about his pain, grief and suffering. Now dont say that he deserve it for what he did to Zoya because vice versa is also true.

yaar tumhe zoya rani se bahut problem hai 😆 main yeh nahi samaj pata log wo shaddi se gayi usi baat mein kyun atak gaye hai wo gayi najma ke liye asad se mshi bola kyunki asad ne kabhi uspe trust nahi kiya yu know tanu fiasco n story is about zoya so uska pain he batayenge n she was scared jab she ran from ayaan house par nah asad miya wapis le aye kyun yaar wo uska pyaar thi na zoya ne galti ki par asad ne bhi ki wahi cheej zoya ne isliye nahi bola about imi kyuni phir pura ghar toot jata sab se pehle dilshad n asad ke paas hai ammi to share pain but he won't n sortie to say even asad bhi thik he lagta hai lagta nahi ki bahut udhaas hai
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Posted: 11 years ago
#62

Originally posted by: Rorschach

Shona mona, you make a post on it 😆

Ok so lets keep aside Ayaan from Asad and Zoya relation. Now tell me why Asad has to alaways work on their relation. There are two persons in any relation and effort should come from both side. Where was Zoya's love and concern when she went out on her adventure. Did She think of Asad?. Was not she fiance of Asad then but did she pay any heed to this thought. The guy had single wish of marrying her and he made it loud and clear at each and every single point even though she ran way only to give ACP Pradyman a ran of his money.

Why we always want our male leads to be epitome of perfectness but its ok for us if female lead is not perfect. When this accidental marriage happened, why story need to be twisted in such a manner to show Zoya as victim. Do we have any single monologue of her repenting on her decision..absolutely not. She was giving lecture to Imran but did she ever let Asad know her real intentions behind her infamous adventure..a big fat no.

Why its always about Zoya's pain, her suffering and her guilt. Is this because we as women could more relate with her pain.What about Asad? Is he not suffering? Is he enjoying? Let be real Zoya has Ayaan to share her grief, even to have a silly fight over salman and to joke about their so called accidental marriage to ease out the pain. Now tell me what Asad has, to whom he can share his pain with? Every one looks at him to fix the issue but what about his pain, grief and suffering. Now dont say that he deserve it for what he did to Zoya because vice versa is also true.

Hi suhana
Well i can't keep ayaan out of this because my post was on ayaan nd asad but yes to answer your question i am not saying zoya isn't at fault.She was wrong and reckless to run away from her wedding like that.And yes i agree it is wrong that zoya keeps blaming asad for whatever happened to her cause it was her fault and my biggest problem with this track is that zoya will not learn a lesson and this post was not to defend zoya it wasn't even to defend ayaan all i want to say is that ayaan is getting all the blame which IMO is wrong...Yes he asked asad to loan zoya till nikhat's nikaah and it was a disgusting demand but it was even more wrong on asad POV to agree to that demand because zoya was his reponsiblity and not ayaan's.
I am not saying asad is the only culprit here all three are responsible but i don't feel ayaan should get blamed the most for his proposal coz it was asad who accepted it
I believe that all three need to suffer for their mistakes and i sympathize with none😆
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Posted: 11 years ago
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Originally posted by: karan-007

yaar tumhe zoya rani se bahut problem hai 😆 main yeh nahi samaj pata log wo shaddi se gayi usi baat mein kyun atak gaye hai wo gayi najma ke liye asad se mshi bola kyunki asad ne kabhi uspe trust nahi kiya yu know tanu fiasco n story is about zoya so uska pain he batayenge n she was scared jab she ran from ayaan house par nah asad miya wapis le aye kyun yaar wo uska pyaar thi na zoya ne galti ki par asad ne bhi ki wahi cheej zoya ne isliye nahi bola about imi kyuni phir pura ghar toot jata sab se pehle dilshad n asad ke paas hai ammi to share pain but he won't n sortie to say even asad bhi thik he lagta hai lagta nahi ki bahut udhaas hai

Zoya rani se problem 😆 🤣
Karan, i dont have any problem with Zoya rani badi Syani i just tried to put forward a different thought thats all and in my opinion every one was guilty. Wether its Asad, Zoya or Ayaan, i donot give a hoot.
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Posted: 11 years ago
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Originally posted by: me2you

Tamatar!!!

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All three of them are to be blamed for the situation that they are in now. Zoya should not have run away on her nikaah day, Asad should have at least talked to Zoya before taking a decision for her and here it comes, Ayaan NEVER EVER should have asked his bhaijaan for his bride. That is just not acceptable at all.
Blame the naqli nikaah wala thing on muqaddar, fine. Nikhat's life was more important for Ayaan than anything else at that moment, fine. But, come on there were really some other ways to solve that situation. Unfortunately, that is the way the CVs wanted to do and to show.
I agree all three are at fault and they need to suffer for their deeds and so i have no symapthies with either of them
Coming back to Ayaan... He promised that it willl be just for seven days, only till Nikhat gets married. Marriage ho gaya, did he tell any of his family members about the 7 days pact? Nope. He promised that everything will be fine. How did he think he was going to do that if no one in the family knew about what was going on behind their back between Asad-Zoya-Ayaan...
Yes he was an idiot not to tell his family but why did zoya not speak up and tell him to tell his family or why didn't asad make a demand that SM people should know before he sent zoya there
But here my only point is ki ayaan made a disgusting proposal that zoya should pretend to be his wife till nikhat's nikaah but it was asad who agreed to it and honestly IMO asad was more at fault here because zoya was asad's responsibility not ayaan's
He himself does not even know how to get out of this situation so he really should not have made any promise to anyone...
yes he shouldn't have but then why didn't others speak up😕

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Posted: 11 years ago
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Yes Zoya was Asad fiance but she was ayan wife let's not forget this fact, what was asad to do.
This whole mess started because Zoya believe she can do everything.
I blame Zoya mostly for this mess, She had a right to let Asad know her suspicion about Imran and Tanveer since it was a matter of Asad's sister life. She was the one who took a step that set all of this in motion.
What Ayan Ask his brother was selfish and inhumane and I believe Asad should have said no. Even zoya could have speak up and say no.

The only innocent person in this mess is Humera. Everyone else is at fault.

Asad, Zoya, Ayan, Nikhat,Najma are all reaping what they sow, they choices you make in life has consequences and these are the consequences. I don't feel sorry for any of them.
It is time for Ayan to be a man and stop relying on his big brother to solve all his problem.
Zoya need to stand up for herself and stop thinking that Asad will always solve her problem or fix her mess.
Asad need to value what he has and also learn to say no.

No one know what destiny has in store for us, no one know our fate, this is just an excuse use by mankind to justify their action and wrongdoing. What is happening here is not fate or destiny or what god has in store for then, this was just an impulsive decision, it was a decision made in the heat of the moment without thinking of the consequences.

I hate how the word destiny and fate are being used here to force decision on people, I just plane and happiness


Completely agree
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Posted: 11 years ago
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Anu i get ur point now i have no sympathy for any one
Actually i dont care about track.
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Posted: 11 years ago
#67

Originally posted by: jogi

Yes Zoya was Asad fiance but she was ayan wife let's not forget this fact, what was asad to do.
This whole mess started because Zoya believe she can do everything.
I blame Zoya mostly for this mess, She had a right to let Asad know her suspicion about Imran and Tanveer since it was a matter of Asad's sister life. She was the one who took a step that set all of this in motion.
What Ayan Ask his brother was selfish and inhumane and I believe Asad should have said no. Even zoya could have speak up and say no.

The only innocent person in this mess is Humera. Everyone else is at fault.

Asad, Zoya, Ayan, Nikhat,Najma are all reaping what they sow, they choices you make in life has consequences and these are the consequences. I don't feel sorry for any of them.
It is time for Ayan to be a man and stop relying on his big brother to solve all his problem.
Zoya need to stand up for herself and stop thinking that Asad will always solve her problem or fix her mess.
Asad need to value what he has and also learn to say no.

No one know what destiny has in store for us, no one know our fate, this is just an excuse use by mankind to justify their action and wrongdoing. What is happening here is not fate or destiny or what god has in store for then, this was just an impulsive decision, it was a decision made in the heat of the moment without thinking of the consequences.

I hate how the word destiny and fate are being used here to force decision on people, I just plane and happiness


Completely agree

why did you copy latazia comment?that is plagarism...edit it or i will have to report you
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Posted: 11 years ago
#68

Originally posted by: moniloveasya

Anu i get ur point now i have no sympathy for any one
Actually i dont care about track.

yes me neither😆
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Posted: 11 years ago
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All three of them are to be blamed for the situation they are in and none of them are to be sympathize with...
Ayaan: Asked Asad to give Zoya to him till Nikhat's marriage... Emotionally blackmailed him... Didn't clear up things with the committee members and signed the Nikhanaama... Hid their stance on the marriage from the family... And after Nikhat's marriage too, didn't bother to inform his family that he is letting Zoya go back to Asad...

Zoya: Hides things from Asad... Underestimates Tanveer after knowing what all she could do... Act without thinking... Take things on her hands without confiding in Asad... Decides to go out on her own without informing anyone on her wedding day... Let others decide her fate and not stand up for herself... Never learn from her mistakes and blame others...

Asad: Is and emotional fool... Gives in to the whims and fancies of his brother... Is ready to sacrifice anything for his siblings... Forced Zoya to sign the Nikahnaama and gave her away to Ayaan... Didn't take her back after the wedding...

All of them have done mistakes... But at least Asad is owning up his mistakes... But what is Ayaan and Zoya doing? Ayaan messing up things even more by hiding things from his family and Zoya putting all the blame on Asad and acting all bechari...😡
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Posted: 11 years ago
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Originally posted by: anushreemishra

yaar aise to had zoya not run away from her nikaah to sab kuch theek rehta but everything can't be blamed on her can it?😆

had hai yaar hum abhi bhi zoya ke nikaah pe atke hai usne bola mr khsn nahi jana but mr khan ne bola jao agar ek baar asad uske liye bolta kisi mein himmat nahi hota zoya se kuch bolne ka after all he is asad ahmed khan
Edited by karan-007 - 11 years ago

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