Uff so much discussion in my gair maujudgi :p Anyway, I read everything but I'm lazy to reply individually so I'm just gonna write my two cents here (:
Actually I'm not saying that Zoya is to be fully blamed, or Asad, or even Ayaan. I'm just saying that all of them contributed to this mess becoming a bigger mess with every passing episode, so Zoya doesn't need to keep reminding Asad every other day about his fault in it.
Zoya and Ayaan majorly screwed up by accidentally getting married in the middle of everyone and then not bothering to clarify it with Qazi there and then (No I don't buy the muqaddar crap, they could've gotten out of it pretty easily but they chose to be stupid about it). Then Asad decided to add on to the mess by insisting that Zoya go to SM despite her own wishes, so yes he is to be blamed for that.
But you see the difference here is that Asad and even Ayaan both accept that they made mistakes and they feel horrible about it too. Zoya on the other hand, has yet to admit that she even made a mistake. Sure, she was screaming I'm sorry I'm sorry to Asad as he dragged her to SM, but she only said that in a bid to stop Asad, I don't think she really meant it. Anyway, like Anushree said, despite the fact that Asad and Ayaan accept their mistakes, they haven't seemed to learn anything from it. And Zoya is definitely still living in her small bubble of self-pity to bother to learn from her mistakes.
In essence, everyone behaved stupidly when this situation could've been avoided in 896148 different ways, so I don't feel bad for anyone really. I just find it irritating that Zoya refuses to acknowledge that she shares part of the blame too. Instead, she lashes out at the brothers and victimizes herself. When will she ever learn?
So that's about the whole who's responsible for what thing, but actually I made this post because I wanted to say that I really believe that Zoya has actually accepted that Ayaan is her husband. I'm not saying she's accepted Ayaan as her husband, but she acknowledges the fact that he is truly her husband now.
See she could've said a million other things to those strangers she asked for help from, but she chose to say husband because that's the first thing that came to her mind, because that's what was already there to begin with, she just never verbalized it. She only did so in a state of frenzy, and once it got verbalized, it suddenly sunk in for her, which is why she had that conversation with Asad thereafter.
But actually if you think about it, even before Asad dragged Zoya over to SM, both Ayaan and Zoya were already feeling guilty, already feeling married. Ayaan didn't hug Humeira back in that episode, and Zoya called Ayaan for reassurance once she reached KV again, simply because internally, she wasn't convinced herself.
And now that finally showed in last night's episode, her guilt and confusion about whether she Ayaan is truly her husband or not. I really believe that they will try to work on their marriage now, but you never know, they might show anything.
Zoya's confusion I believe is truly a reflection of the CVs confusion about whether they should go ahead with a real Zoyaan track or not. Only time will tell I guess, but with the talaqnama and all already in place, we know that end game is definitely Asad and Zoya, no matter how irksome some parts of the journey till there might be.
Oops, that got a little longer than I had anticipated :p
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