Originally posted by: sujataraje
sometimes its not even about psychopath shona...even sometimes two good people together can not make relationship work ...
i have my one of best friend she...got married first among us...she is beautiful,belong to decent family and only girl child in family...
she never had any history...she was most simple and sober girl out of our group...the boy was from good family and only two brothers were there...
when we were all in delusion that she has been leading a beautiful life ...all she was tolerating crap from her in laws and her husband was good for nothing...he was not psychopath...but he was not the one with whom you can spend whole life...
she never told anyone about all this...
once after one year she told about all this to her family...but somehow they said work on marriage because its the only way..she went back tried very hard ...and then after some time she just called her parents that either to call me otherwise i wont be able to live ...
so finally they called her again...
after sometime parents tried to make thing right and said do one thing you husband wife live separately from family for some time ..once you guys solve your issues it would be easy to solve other issues together...
they started living separately from family in other city...after 6 months things became worse..and the girl lost all confidence,and lost all hopes...
she was never into studies much i mean she was not someone who wanted to have some career or etc...but finally she got divorced...went for higher studies...leads a happy and confident life ..
so its not about individual case and in india coming out marriage is considered as crime and low thing