Community Suicide & Murder..Epi Sept 23 - Page 3

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Posted: 11 years ago
#21
Agree with every word you said ...you nailed it! 👏
I dont have anything to add except I hope Zoya gains the courage to stick up for herself
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Posted: 11 years ago
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Originally posted by: bheegi

After the community nikaah, today we witnessed an episode where a community suicide/murder is on it's way..


1. Nikhat- Of course the overtly suicidal one finds a knife conveniently located in her room. SM khaandan needs family therapy ASAP on 101 things NOT to do when there is someone suicidal at your home.

2. Ayaan- Instead of finding a good psychiatrist for his sister, is taking the suicidal way out himself. While Nikhat has a knife in hand, Ayaan has the nikaahnama papers waiting for him.

Oh, wait a minute- he is not only committing suicide, he is also committing a murder (read Humeira)

3. Asad- Really Asad? You are falling for Shireen's blackmail? The same woman who has insulted your mother and khandaan time and again? Today, you proved that you are really Mr. Rashid Ahmed Khan's son. He committed suicide 17 years ago and you are on your way today. On top of that, just like Rashid and Ayaan, you are murdering the love of your life. Guess, you never learnt your lesson after the Billi fiasco.

4. Ghafoor: You have disappointed me the most. One would think that being such a leader in the community, you would know your religion better. Can't you see both the bride and groom are reluctant? You were an accomplice in murdering Zainab and giving away your older daughter. Today, you are an accomplice in Humeira's impending murder.

5. Shireen: Moron #1, Selfish lady #1 and the most self centered lady is looking at the short term solution only. Do you think a person like Nikhat would not attempt suicide again? Tomorrow if Haseena bi finds some other reason to end the rishta, do you think Nikhat won't try to end her life again? You'd rather kill your son and beg before your step son, just for a bandaid solution?

The only person I liked today was Razia. At least, she gave mohabbat more importance (of course she is selfish but I loved her today😆)

Granted, Zoya made a mistake of running away without informing Asad, but does she really deserve this kind of treatment at the hands of the man she loves the most?

If Asad was really upset about her nikaah, he could have canceled his nikaah with her, but forcing her to make a sacrifice for the sake of his half sister is very irrational and suicidal for both of them.

Well...looks like Gul wants us to keep crying for 3-4 weeks. Razia, please save us...



LOL!😆

Those are fighting words Sangeeta! 😉

I think I mentioned earlier that this tamaasha will be played from the Nikhat angle, closely followed by the Najma angle, with Tanveer for dessert! (Or emetic)

I wanted to note that we now have three mothers fighting for their daughters! Dilshaad the big hearted has thrown down the gauntlet ... Getting Zoya bavk to KM. Everyone is involved in Zoyaan. Its a family imbroglio . The first step towards family unity will be *facepalm* facing down the common enemy ... Haseena. She has been a thorn in their side for long enough. The forum32 article makes sense now.

The sky has fallen on my poor Zoya! The only justification I can come up with for Asad is that he feels that she is a part of him, and so he wants her buy in to this ridiculous situation. Lame, I know!

But the Asya scene was ahhh!

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Posted: 11 years ago
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Omg di you won't believe how happy i am to see that we are finally on the same page...more than the episode i am about being able to say yes di i agree with you completely😳
I found this episode very interesting coz it raised a lot more questions than answering them...
  • Who leaves a depressed suicidal girl alone in a room with a knife out in open like that?i am shocked how careless people can be
  • I actually felt a little bad for ayaan today...he finally thought about humeira today and i was happy to see that and honestly i felt bad for him when he was asked to chose between his love and sister and i honestly thought ha nikhat not attempted suicide again ayaan would have listened to razia and said no for the marriage...but yes i am disappointed that he can't see what his sister needs now a psychiatrist...i remember an episode after Imran had broken engagement with Nikhat where ayaan gave nikhat the best advice to try and move on and i want that ayaan back...
  • I liked how how asad was angry when Shireen first confronted him but i guess he is as gullible to tears and emotional blackmail as he was before..looks like not only ayaan a lot of people can get what they want from him..honestly di I am disappointed the way he is just letting go of zoya(i wouldn't blame her if she doesn't want to come back to him now)
  • I am really disappointed with gaffur too taht he doesn't know that this is an invalid nikaah...even razia thinks this nikaah is valid...for people who claim themselves to be culturally and religiously rich shouldn't they know that this nikaah is invalid?😕
  • Also even dadi doesn't know that this nikaah is valid😕why the hell did she leave zoya in ayaan's room?😡
  • You know di i don't get why peopel can't see that nikhat broken engagement can't be blamed on zoya nd ayaan...yes they were the trigger but haseena would have brken the relation on some other pretext had this not happened...i can't see why people can't see how opportunistic and sadistic that woman is and which sane family would want to send their daughtrer to a family where teh MIL breaks the relation on the drop of a hat...I actually felt bad ki kya in aa gaye shireen ke that jis asad ahmed khan ka wo naam bhi sunna pasand nahi kart thi aj uske samne apni beti ki zindagi ki bheek maang rahi hai...tables do turn shireen
  • Finally Razia thought about her daughter...can i just say Alka kaushal was amazing today from being her conniving herself plotting how to add a talaqnama with the nikaahnama to being a concerned mother...i thinks she was the only one who talked sense today saying that nikhat didn't love farhan and they could find someone else for her...amazing performance alka ji👏
  • Granted, Zoya made a mistake of running away without informing Asad, but does she really deserve this kind of treatment at the hands of the man she loves the most?

    If Asad was really upset about her nikaah, he could have canceled his nikaah with her, but forcing her to make a sacrifice for the sake of his half sister is very irrational and suicidal for both of them.
    This is it di...this is what i have felt since thursday and this is why i have been upset..yes zoya commited a mistake and needs to be taught a leson but like this NO...asad had no right to force this nikaah on her...he could have broken all ties with her and i wouldn't have uttered a word but this isn't right...at the end of the day what i see is he chose his sister over his love and asked her to do something that isn't easy at all...one of the hardedst thing to do to pretend to be someone else's wife...you know when you get married i believe that to be in a happy marriage you can't sacrifice your love like that..people don't get over something like that...i hope Gul shows asad'd redemption in all this by making him realize how wrong he was in treating zoya the way he did and zoya shouldn't believe that she deserved all this because she made a mistake...she should never come to terms with this...no woman should be made to believe that her being forced into a marriage is right coz she made a mistake and i hope gul shows this..
    another important question-zoya said ki "mujhe itna door mat bhejiye ki wahan se aana mushkil ho" and asad says that he didn't know things will become so bad...so am i to believe that they both didn't think that the marriage would be a temporary one but only an arragement till nikhat got married...honestly i find this arrangement of asad loaning out zoya worse than if he had sacrificed her forever😕
    please don't say we have to cry for 3-4 more weeks i can't tolerate more..
    all my hopes are on razia now😃
    Sorry for late comment i was out😃
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Posted: 11 years ago
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nice post sangeeta.
Yes, are the kazi and maulvis blind that they cannot see that the bride and groom are unwilling.

if there are guests at home, you don't take your ailing doctor to hospital, will wait for them to leave?

When Asad asks for sacrifice from Zoya, though not morally correct, still understandable since Asad can trust Zoya to not take the suicide route?

But Aayan has had first hand experience of Humeria's madness, still sacrificing your love?

Blood indeed is thicker than Love.

Let's see how thick Ghafoors blood is when he finds out about Zoya.

Now I would really want zoya to give a tough time to everyone at SM and Asad too. Go girl drive all of them crazy. I would really like a scene in the future when Gafoor and Asad both come begging to her asking her to come to their homes and she should refuse both of them.

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Posted: 11 years ago
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agree with u but not with
Asad part
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Posted: 11 years ago
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Shocking...very shocking Di. I guess, this is a first time for me I am reading a 'negative' analysis of yours in your I-am-not-so-happy wala mood. It's true though, everything you said. Thanks 😊

Today, the only character who is worth the praise was Razia.
Never ever had I thought that I would say it, but she was the only sensible person who said the right things. Like you said Di, yes she has your own selfish reason but even in that selfishness there was truth hidden. She was right when she said:
Nikhat does not even love Farhan and Humeira loves Ayaan since her childhood.
Razia is the mastermind behind the master plan and yet again she has one: divorce papers. I must say, a nice idea to get rid of this situation ASAP.

Mr. Khan, Mr. Khan, Mr. Khan... Okay you care about your sisters but to sacrifice your love in order to save your sisters life is not the best solution.

Btw, I still don't get it how on earth his sacrifice will help Nikhat's rishtaa...just because Haseena broke off the relation? Oh sorry, I totally forgot, that Haseena Bi's sons are the only guys in Bhopal. So yeah, bechari Nikhat has no choice, I guess...

Shireen - since when is the duty of a elder brother to sacrifice his love for the sake of his sister's rishtaa? Is that the only farz a bhaijaan has? What happened to put some sense into your sister's mind? What happened to make your sister understand that this is not the end of the world? What happened to explaining to whole situation to your sister? What happened to consoling your sister and tell her that she can get a better MIL than Haseena Bi?

I don't even want to comment on the others.

My heart really went out to Zoya in the last scene. She does NOT want this lekin phir bhi woh bechari (yes, right now she is the bechari) is being thrown like a ball from one side to the other.

Razia said let this situation go on for a few weeks and after things will get better (send Zoya back). If the CV's can drag a track of the nikaah within 10 days to one month, then I am sure they can drag this track for a good three (God forbid) to four months...


The greatest mistake we humans make in our relationships; We listen half, understand quarter, think zero, and react double.
(If only the they would think about this one...than none of this would have ever happened...)

Edited by me2you - 11 years ago
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Posted: 11 years ago
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Here are highlights after watching today's episode..
I really wonder still Razia is trying or planning here for Humaira or to keep Zoya away, I felt she want latter really more. She sounded more worried about Zoya. She is still same pathetic and selfish mother I just hope she is better player of the evil games she has been playing all of her life..
Gaffur, he brought Zoya today in home for his fake reputation, will he do throw her for the same too later? Again it will be good Zoya see him for what he is with no biasness.
Shireen, I had some sympathy for her till yesterday but today lost it completely, I thought so far she didn't see Zoya so her state she wasn't aware of, but today?? Poor girl, was literally hanging on her love, her eyes had nothing but pain crying out loud and she didn't see that? Amazing na, how woman can be so oblivious of other woman's pain
Nikhat, wont say anything as I have sympathy fr her, she has been used and pushed too far to come back. And the culprit is still smiling read Haseena, she played with her like evil dices in Mahabharat, just like mama Shakuni. She need help but before that she need quick fix solution and that's what her bros are doing..
Asad and Zoya both really are paying for the mistake they did unknowingly, Asad said "didn't know things will blow so much out of proportion", did he mean Nikhat here? They both had part in her situation today, Asad forgot the confession of love for Imran by Nikhat only, and Zoya didn't let him think and rush, plus she knows even Najma's life is screwed up. Actually I really hated both of their attitudes and approach in NajRan track, but know all that mistake make sense. Writers were really setting the stage for this track, I like when writers plots can be connected at some point.
In all I liked the episode. No Tanveer or Haseena and pure emotions from all brilliant cast.
I am not worried about nikaah nama at all, remember Ayaan is getting married to ZOYA FAREED only no Ms Farooqui. Today also maulivi asked Ayaan, Do you accept your marriage with Zoya(no last name)😛.
Their sacrifice will beat this Muqaddar ka khel in the end and intensity of love will be even stronger for anyone to break later. I hope we don't have to indulge into Zoya's dialog "itni door na bhejde ki main waapis naa aa sakoon"😕. These future dialogs wonder goes how far.
Edited by _vineeta_ - 11 years ago
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Posted: 11 years ago
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Originally posted by: Missvishtoofani

The only person I liked today was Razia. At least, she gave mohabbat more importance (of course she is selfish but I loved her today😆)

Granted, Zoya made a mistake of running away without informing Asad, but does she really deserve this kind of treatment at the hands of the man she loves the most?

If Asad was really upset about her nikaah, he could have canceled his nikaah with her, but forcing her to make a sacrifice for the sake of his half sister is very irrational and suicidal for both of them.


hmm ua r8 Razia pls save Asya yaro...ab sb kuch tmhare hath mein h!! 😆

yeah zoya doesn't deserve tht kind of treatment yar 😭


Can't believe we would all be rooting for Razia one day😆
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Posted: 11 years ago
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Originally posted by: -KSGsmitten-

Awesome post but I disagree about the Asad's part. But then, I know I'm baised. 😆

Asad is in an avoidance-avoidance conflict and has no other way out of this for now. He cannot possibly choose his love over his sister's life. He is just being true to his character which is emotional and selfless.

I understand where Asad is coming from. He can sacrifice his love for his sister- that's his prerogative but why force Zoya into a relationship she doesn't want? Even if Zoya had an accidental nikaah, if she is saying she doesn't want to sign it, leave her alone yaar. I know people would say that he considers Zoya an extension of himself...but is it fair to Zoya?


He is giving something which is dearer to him than his own life.
I know Zoya is being wronged here and this mess, although somehow her fault, does not serve her right. She does not at all deserve this.
But neither does Asad although he is choosing it for himself. 😔 But what if they can't find another solution and Nighat actually dies? Would AsYa then ever be able to live happily in spite of being together?

He can make sure he is firm with haseena bi, throw money on her face, take Nikhat to a doctor, call his psychiatrist friend (if he has any)...find another sitable boy for Nikhat, He could have done may other things to help her sister. Why sacrifice your own happiness? An unhappy person makes everyone else around them unhappy...did he forget his post Billi SR days?


I think Shireen purposely kept that knife in Nighat's room to put on that show to emotionally blackmail Asad. 😆 Seriously, who leaves a knife in a suicidal person's room ??!
I think no one's to be blamed here. Sub muqaddar ka khel hai. 😆

Everyone at SM needs family therapy...sab pagal hain wahan😆


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Posted: 11 years ago
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Originally posted by: _vineeta_

Thanks Sangeeta for analysis..

I dont know feel atleast few mistakes they can avoid, Nikhat near knife is one of those.
Asad, are they again putting him back in Rashid's shoes, didnt they tried it before at second nikaah attempt with Billi pregnancy? Why he keep sacrificing his love for any random person who seek it from him.

Asad should realize that by sacrificing his love, he will be back in the doldrums and there is no guarantee that Nikhat will not attempt this again. Also, he might lose Zoya forever. He is being an emotional fool
Gaffur just fell in prestige trap again thats all, didnt they say they were planning to honor him, but taking it over his daughter's happiness? Its good Zoya see the true colors of father on her own without being prejudiced by hatred that he was accomplice in her mother's murder.

yes, that's the one solver lining of this track...she will se her father's true face before any biases creep in
Razia has aways been most brainy in QH, and sure reins will be in hands again. Just wait till she figure out the root cause of whole issue..

I loved Alkaji's acting and Razia's words of wisdom today😆
I am appaled at badi Bii more actually, why is she there? Whats her purpose in QH, dont they say grand kids are the Interest and more closer to heart than the Principal? Why she has no compassion for any of them, so many lives are getting ruined here, cant see Rashid reliving in his both sons

Did she forget how AsYa saved her life on Eid day?
And no Zoya never deserve such punishment, what is her crime selfless love? She didnt run for herself. she ran for Asad and his family only..

even if he is upset with her about leaving on nikaah day or feels betrayed, he can't force her to do anything against her wishes but after watching the epi, I feel he is not mad at her and his statement baat itni bigad jaayegi was very very confusing...he is not thinking right atm
Edited: After readin updates I feel Asad doin all for his own guilt really? He said Miss Farooqi i didn't know that ,ke baat itni barh jaye gi, he realizes he overlooked Nikhat's feelings before and now is sacrificing Zoya?
Dilshaad is right, he didnt do sacrifice, its Zoya who did it and for what loving him, saving Najma? Wonder how the mess will be cleared, hope Razia used her brain AGAIN..

The worst part is that these Qureshi brothers didn't deserve such a big sacrifice...they have ruined so many lives

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