Originally posted by: anushreemishra
Imraan may be najma's first love but it doesn't make up for the fact that Imraan was engaged to Nikhat and still don't get how can a relation that almost ended 3 years ago be compared to an alliance that Nikhat just broke a little while ago...see i get it that ayaan has on many instances acted childishly and said things he shouldn't have and that is what he did today but i can totally understand his outburst...people do and say things that they regret later even i do the same but the point is if dilshad and asad had talked to Nikhat earlier than if ayaan acted this way then he would have been wrong...and i have never seen an instance where ayaan could have asked his mother to stop talking nonsense about dilshad but he did mention once to zoya that had he been in walima function he wouldn't have allowed to get situations out of hand and today well dilshad is to be blamed too
ok anu lets take a case where there is no tanveer and her kid in whole imran life...
it would make things easy for anyone to see things in different light...
first imraan is not a bad boy ...his GF ended relationship and he went into depression...he has worst mother ever who pressurised him into marriage...he is weak man no doubt...but he is not cheap...he never misbehaved with nikhat and tried to see a new life with her though he could never raise his voice in her support because he has been suppressed by his mother and he had no moral support and will to do anything...he always liked nikhat as prospective wife because she had all qualities ...getting married to someone and seeing a new life with her does not mean you love her..love can happen later as it happens in all arrange marriages...nikhat was given choice to love imraan because he was her fiance...and he made her feel good about herself.it was not soulmate kinda love.
now nazma-can we stop insulting her love..??? right now i dont know about intensity of their love because CVs can change anything anytime..so i will comment on what i have seen till now...nazma loved man...she broke up with him due to her family pressure and that time she was selfish...people who say that three years are enough to forget your love..are wrong...you can move on but you can never forget and the will be always some connection between those two..specially here when imraan was not at any fault when she broke up..
so when they met obviously they went with the flow of feeling which were three years back...nazma was worried for nikhat but lil bit selfish too to have imraan...i see no such problems with it...you might have different POV on this..
people want to be with the person whom they love and who loves them...its simple funda..it might be selfish ...
can nikhat imraan ,nuzhat gave sacrifice where rashid should start living with dilshaad because both love each other as shireen is third person between them???no they can not..
anyways lets take a case where same situation applies to ayaan ,zoya and asad...if by chance zoya gets engaged to ayaan after some break up,..and ayaan too starts loving her...zoya also begins to see life with him though she does not love him...but if given a chance when asad and zoya meet again..and patch up...and both want to be together...wont be ask for getting them together and wish for their happiness because they are soul mates...even though we might feel for ayaan bit we wont want zoya to o back to ayaan..because we understand their love...i am not trying to compare imraan nazma and asad zoya love...later is pure and definition of love for me..while former is not that much intense for me...but if they do love each other they do...we can not just pick imraan and gove to nikhat knowing that man loves someone else...
see i have different POV because i am seeing and trying to understand every person's situation without being judgemental and biased...
ayaan has feelings for his sister ..its very good thing...but he is impulsive and shireen's blood...he does not think what the hell he is speaking...his outburst for imraan i can understand but for asad???don't see any point.. i hated when he said meri behan aapki behan..anyways i bett should not say anything on ayaan because i cant make this post more long...and pri will bash me..😆
and anu i respect ypur POV..i just tried to put mine
Edited by sujataraje - 12 years ago