Diary: 26 : The BILLI is Out Of The BAG! pg 142 - Page 102

Originally posted by: chicksoup

BECAUSE I HAVE TO COMMENT AND MY COLLEGE + STUPID WORK STARTS FROM TOMORROW HENCE I WONT BE THERE TO TEASE YOU AND MESS WITH YOU HENCE 😭 😭

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1. So this is a real life incident, right...but I feel you are making the wrong conclusion about it...the Panchayat was wrong...and even if that dumb rule was not there, the guy would have raped her, and she would have committed suicide! BECAUSE THAT IS WHAT HAPPENS WHEN A GIRL REJECTS A GUY USUALLY...

No i am not justifying anything, i am just telling you the jist of the episode I will tell you my views and Feminism wale anger and frustration out later in PMS. 😡 🥱

2. ANKIE,

read this carefully. i DON'T KNOW HOW MUCH OF THIS YOU CAN GRASP..I COULDN'T, AT YOUR AGE.

IT IS NOT ABOUT MORALISING OR MODERNISING...this is actually a very old concept...it might be sick to us, but this is a concept that has worked for certain houses/ societeis- considered the NORM...Two brothers having the same wife - like Panchali in Mahabharata...it is not a myth...polygamy...with siblings...or a man marrying sisters...there was an interesting movie about it...which talked about EXACTLY what you were saying...will send U the link later..

I know i have seen things, but then I DON'T WANT A MAHABHARATA OR WHATEVER TO BE RE-WRITTEN.

Its neither interesting nor anything.

The whole Idea shows how a WOMAN is supposed to be used as a DOORMAT 😡

A reason why i dont like our shatras or whatever 🥱 (we can discuss about this LATER)

My view point is, when you are showing the WOMANIYA ka POWER then there is NO NEED of her to be juggled between 2 men. 😉

Rest i liked Geet's concept 😉 😆

But when there is a tone of High Feminism. Do you think this Degrading theme will be touched?

( i will tell you my version of MaBurt in the next reply! 😆)

😆 3 . We all know who U R talking about...what U want to see on screen doesn't make us want that in real life...if U want to watch a SERIAL KILLER story- it does not mean you want to be that...or that is your fantasy...IT IS SIMPLY A CONCEPT THAT IS ALIEN AND YOU WOULD LIKE TO SEE HOW IT CAN BE TACKLED...because it can be done only in fiction. A tale like Mahabharata has at its centre a woman marrying five brothers...the same has been mentioned in The Bible..about a woman who was married to brothers and she was considered an outcast...So it simply does not have the same meaning to different cultures.

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No i am NOT talking about ONE person i am Talking about ALL.

I didnt even think about the person when i wrote this wahahhaa 😆

No baby no! I dont feel. To us, Our generation, WE LEARN WHAT WE SEE FROM THE TV THE MOVIES THE BOOKS WE READ AND ALL. The show has more youth than the older generation 😕

And trust me, The men Gul tries to bring into her shows, much a needed for the society. We need MEN like Asad/Arnav/Maan not like Akram/Vikram/Shyaam, sadly the later rules the majority now, hence Shows do act as MORAL POLICE trying to show and make the Females realize how they shoudl not fall victim to men as such.

Hence such a topic should not be trended to.

Cause falling/getting married to your Bhabi - Worse thing a show can ever show. 🤢 🤢 🤢

I can agree to Tanveer's case - Cause MAJORITY USE THEIR FRIENDSHIP LIKE THIS. But then . . . 🤢 🤢 🤢

4. SISTERS FALLING FOR IMRAN: Gul did not show Najma leching on her BIL or Imran trying to entice both sisters...THAT WOULD BE UGLY AND REALISTIC (I hope U know there are teenagers who get raped by their BILs out there and end up being a sauten to their sister...it is REAL AND UGLY..I am glad Gul did not go that way.)

What we had was Nikhat loving Imran, not knowing his connection to her sister...and Najma loving him years back, even before Imran knew Nikhat...there is nothing ugly about it...

But still they are running after a Guy 🤣

Okay not 😆

I agree it could have been worse, but then 😆

Anyways, i didnt like the way they killed Najma's cute character. 🥱

I had such HIGH HOPES 😭 😭

5. The only ugly thing is that Tamatar wants to marry a guy who was romantically associated with her sister...even if he denies having loved her, it is clear she had feelings...HOW DO U RESPECT A MAN LIKE THAT? The answer is, she is NOT MATURE...she is not thinking..it is the smae as your best friend going around with teh guy WHO DITCHED YOU...horrible...but, they will get bitten back...In Najma's case, not too badly, because she did not seek the alliance...she was blackmailed into it and SHE WAS WEAK NOT TO STAND UP, NOT TO SEE...BUT PARDONABLE!

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I hope they show some Morality in the Character by the end of the track.

6. BROTHERS FALLING FOR THE SAME WOMAN:

What were U expecting when U read the synopsis? In the initial days...

Actually I want an answer from all of U...

I NEVER THOUGHT ABOUT THE SYNOPSIS ACTUALLY 🤣

For me it was is and will remain ASYA FOREVER and i will stick to it always.

Cause from the first Look of the show

Zoya was with Asad. Ayaan was with Humera.

No matter what it was AsYa and AyRa ⭐️ 👏

I dunno why people took it so SERIOUSLY 🤢

And still take it 🤢 🤢

7. One brother marries and divorces...the girl has no regard for him...he wants her back...BUT SHE HAS MOVED ON...and the other brother cannot stand girls like her...RESISTS HER, BUT THEY END UP FALLING IN LOVE..

QUITE A BIT, LIKE GEET! (Except that there the brother never had real feelings, though he got her pregnant...NOW THAT IS A SHOCKING THING TO EXPLORE...and I am proud Gul did it. Very few people will have the guts to proceed with a heroine pregnant by another man's child.)

I never thought any thing like that. I never thought of ZoYaan only. 😆

I will tell you, i always thought this -

Zoya and Asad get married - Zoya is preggys - Bang comes the truth of her father before she can tell Asad that she is carrying her child - Asad disowns her - Zoya leaves the house - Goes on to live alone (or siddiqi house) where she understands how hard life is - She moves out of the house before her child comes to the world - goes back or stays in the same city and takes up a job which turns out to be Asad's! - Asad cant throw her out and Zoya cant leave the job - Aghast wala Love 😆 - Asad realizes she is carrying his child - wants to reunite - Zoya doesn't want to - and they finally do while Asad tires his best to win her heart - and they do when she is about to deliver - After that Razia ka khel 😆 😆

Sorta like that 😕 😳

How is it? 😳

8.The same concept, now in QH: Zoyaan marriage is IMPOSSIBLE...When it came to his sister, Asad bowed down to Ayan's wishes...because they are soul brothers, really. He definitely loves him more than Najma...because he was Ayan's anokhi maa...for those tears...which he WAS NEVER TO NAJMA, since they had their mother...so AYAN IS ALWAYS SPECIAL...no matter how stupid or selfish or undeserving he is...

But Ayan is in love with Humeira...so this track can only happen if Zoya cuts off all her ties with Asad (or vice versa) and she helps Ayan to make Humeira jealous (Wohi old theory!😆)...and Asad tries to reconcile, but finds Zoya is busy with someone else..and if that someone else is his bro, how would he react?

WHO WOULD HE CHOOSE? HIMSELF OR AYAN?

And this will be a realisation for Asad that he does not have to think twice about it, because ...ZOYA IS ABOVE EVERYTHING ELSE FOR HIM...his mother, his sister, his brother...YOU KNOW WHAT...99.9 pc, even this will not happen...😉

👏 Good i will make a point next reply too 😆

😳 9. What is ugly to U is still a cultural norm in many places, like I mentioned.😳 And very much a respected relationship...in those cultures...😆

And MOMMA GUL KNOWS WHAT IS BEST FOR HER BABY. And SHE KNOWS IT IS NOT 'THE UNMENTIONABLE!'...(And with the sis triangle, like I said, what I find unpalatable is Najma's eagerness...which she is already getting nervous about...and will soon be rectified...so I don't have a problem with it.)

REST ASSURED!

HAPPY?

And I was too lazy to make a post on this!😕😆 Might as well have, and got bashed more...

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Gul knows AsYa sells the show nothing else does. 😆

If had to be ZoYaan - Ayaan should never have had Humera paired with him 🤣

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Brownie points ⭐️