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Two contrasting relationships - one is bound by love, the other is a samjhauta because for one of them involved, it is a compromise...only one thing was common in the two relationships and that is the family influence which forced the two relationships go on a rollercoster ride towards a marriage.. but today one marriage is broken and looks like the other one is about to break.
Asad and Zoya:
They may appear as opposites sperficially and that made them fight and be at odds with each other ever since they met... but they are actually two individuals who connect very well on a deeper emotional level and shares a similar kind of past, which made them understand each other and reach out to each other when ever in need. And along the way they both fell in love.
Their marriage was a game initially, becuase of a mother's challenge. But soon the game became real as both accepted their feelings and wanted the marriage for real.. they both are in love and were looking forward to spend the rest of their life together.. But today its fate that has played a cruel game in the name of a selfish friend and separated them...the marriage which was about to happen got broken and so does their hearts..
But doesn't they deserve to be together?
Ayaan and Humaira:
These are two indivduals who have known each other since childhood.. Humaira has always been in love with Ayaan but Ayaan always considered her as a friend.. his best friend. humaira knew it but then she always hoped that he would some day reciprocate her love. but if he could not, Humaira was content to remain as his friend.
But then their relationship status changed and tbey became engaged becauase of Raziya's evil plans.. not because they wanted it.. Ayaan never imagined getting married to Humaira and Even
Humaira would never want it if she knew that its one sided.
And today Fate has interveined and Ayaan has blurted out that he does not love Humaira and perhaps their engagemnet is about to break.
Is this right? in my opinion this what is meant to happen. Ayaan and Humaira's relationship is a samjhauta.. a compromise, an agreement.. its not based on mutual love.. and at this stage they are not meant to be together.
Today Ayaan's actions may appear as selfish and unreasonable.
But we have to understand that Ayaan is the pampered younger son of the family.. Pampered by his father and mother and elder brother.. as a result its inevitable that he is a bit selfish.. And then one day caught between the game Raziya played and his mother's illogical demands, he had to take some grown up decisions for which he was not prepared at all... the deal he initially made with Raziya was one of them and his bowing down in front of Raziya again and gettting engaged to Humaira was another one.
I agree that Ayaan should be a little more sensitive towards Humaira and her feelings but then at the moment Ayaan is too much bowled over by his own emotions to see anything else.. Ayaan feels that he is been forced in to a relationship which he does not want but he cannot say no to it as well ..
His irritation and anger at Humaira is a reflexion of his anger at himself... And today he misunderstood Asad as well becuse he is observing Asad's case through his ownself... to him Asad and Zoya's marriage is a mirror image of his and Humaira's...he feels that because of their mothers', they both are being forced into relationships which they don't want..
Asad and Zoya never agreed to loving each other so Ayaan doesn't know about their love.
perhaps what Ayaan thought was may be Asad is in love with Tanveer because Tanveer fits the bill of Asad's perfect girl.. Ayaan at least trusts Asad to the extent that he is not ready to believe that Asad would do something like this without any reason and seeing things from his perspective and his relationship with Humaira, Ayaan is reaching to conclusions that are way beyond true.. but what we have to acknowledge here is that although Ayaan's judgment is clouded because of his own condition, at least he is trying to justify Asad when every one else right now believes the worst of Asad.
When Ayaan learns the truth that his brother actually loves his museebat, this is surely going to give him a jolt.
Anyway the aftermath of Asad and Zoya's broken relationship is a blessing in disguise for Ayaan and Humaira.. because humaira finally learnt the truth that Ayaan does not love her.
Humaira needs to know this.. what will she do now? hopefully and most probably she will break their engagement.. this should happen becuse Ayaan and humaira are not in a state to get married. Ayaan needs to grow up first and Ayaan needs to be free of Raziya and take a desicion to marry Humaira which is at least based on respect towards Humaira and her love, if not love from his side.
This relationship of compromise is not right and so it should break for the time being while Asad and Zoya's relationship based on mutual love is right and so they should get together.
so what i assume is in the end what is based on love will win and what is based on samjhauta will break, to be reunited later when the time is right.
some thoughts to ponder Upon:
Some people here i should say loves to speculate on Ayaan and Zoya getting married and Asad getting engaged to Tanveer.
So now a hint of Ayaan and Humaira's engagement breaking must have made some peoples imagination run wild.
I have to say that Ayaan and humaira's engagment breaking doesn't mean that it's going towards an Ayaaan Zoya marriage.. if it breaks, its breaking because it is not right... where as Asad and Zoya are meant to be together.. so they will reconcile at Ajmer.. otherwise there is no point in this Ajmer track.
Can Tanveer claim her child as Asad's?
Tanveer cannot claim that she is pregnant immediately.. the earliest she can claim that is two to three weeks later.. befor that Asad and Zoya would unite at Amer.
Can she come much later and claim that? she can.. but what will she do if Asad or Zoya asks for a DNA test ? and wouldn't they ask for it in this day and age?
Veer Hanuman
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