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Posted: 12 years ago

#41

Originally posted by: cclove
Today's episode was heavy on emotion but I'm getting to the last scene where Dilshad confronts Asad.

She likens what he's done to him being like Rashid and I think a Tanveer confrontation by Dilshad is needed.

Whatever Asad & Tanveer did/didn't do, Asad didn't do by himself. Tanveer deserves some of what was dished out to Asad today and after Zoya leaves which we know she will, I think Dilshad should ask Tanveer to leave as well.

Asad didn't deflower her ( she claims she has a husband so let's assume that happened with her "husband" already plus that witch is pregnant) so he owes her nothing and neither does his family. She had a hand in ruining everything and by allowing her to continue to live in their house is an insult to Zoya and a contradiction to Dilshad's speech.

Dilshad should tell Tanveer to leave their house.

(NOTE: I don't believe anything happened between Asad and Tanveer but everyone including Asad believes so, so on that basis, Tanveer should pack her bags and leave).

What do you guys think?

Sadly thats not going to happen..

Now all of the drama would be about Asad doing the right thing and marrying Tanveer!

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-Candz-

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Posted: 12 years ago

#42

Originally posted by: DMGFan-2b-not2b

Sadly thats not going to happen..

Now all of the drama would be about Asad doing the right thing and marrying Tanveer!

I just don't understand why they would allow her to stay after this unless it comes to the point where Dilshad wants her to go but Asad says that she stays. It's entirely possible though stupid that Asad might still let her stay after everything got ruined and the girl he loves leaves him.

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cyndu

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Posted: 12 years ago

#43

Good post!! But uske liye asad should get rid of that blind trust on that bitch!!

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Kesha_H.

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Posted: 12 years ago

#44

poor asad i'll feel so bad for him cuz now he'll refuse to marry zoya now tht tannuji led him to believe tht he is probably unfaithful just as his father was poor guy wen tannu claims tht she is preggers with his child which i am assuming she will do i hpe they get some kinda test done to c how old the baby is

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trishy13

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Posted: 12 years ago

#45

Yep I agree as well. It's not right if Tanveer stay there.

More so wouldn't Asad feel really upset and want her out of there too,. I mean she's the reason things got messed up with Zoya

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merrydock

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Posted: 12 years ago

#46

your absolutly right, Dilahad should demand that Tanveer leave, Tanveer is a guest in her house, she claims to be Asad best friend. what has she done to maintain the diginity of a guest and friend. she sleeps with him on his wedding day. Dilshad once praised Tanveer for being will behaved and having good values. does a person of good Values sleep with the person who has give you shelter in his home, on his wedding day. destroying his wedding to the girl he loves.

Tanveer has not only hurt Zoya, but has insulted Dilshad and Asad. how can she then be alowed to live in that house. even in reality such a person would be shown the door irrespective of whose fault it is.

CV's please make not that it would be horriabley awkward to have tanveer living under the same roof with Dilshad, she not only trusted her son, but treated tanveer like a daughter. and trusted her. now Dilshad has been humiliated in society her family and friends. is the Cause of all the humillation just sit accross the dinning table and make small talk with her.

just imagian taveer saying this dialogue ." Oh Khala, these men kidnapped me and then they tried to rape me, they tore of my cloths, and Jammy came to save me. and he hugged me in comfort but i was so shaken by this attack and violation by these men, that is slept with your son at the time that he should have been at the venue of his marriage. you know these things happen, after someone tries to rape you, your so shaken by the incident that you natually have sex with the first man that comes to rescue you."

psychologlist working with rape victims. will have a field day annalising this phenominon

CV's should do a little research. women who are raped or exprience near rape hate to be touched by a man, they shun sex, even with their own husbands. they suffer anxity attacks if a man so much as enter her physical space, touches her or looks at her. they probably avoide all intreaction with the men in their lives. be it father, brother, husband. being touched even in the most innocent manner causes fear and anxity in her. which lasts for months and sometimes years. and they need major councling

and here Tanveer claims she has been assaulted by a man, claims her so called husband physically abused her for years. but she has no poblem trowing herself at another man at evey oppurtinity.

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-Candz-

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Posted: 12 years ago

#47

Originally posted by: merrydock
your absolutly right, Dilahad should demand that Tanveer leave, Tanveer is a guest in her house, she claims to be Asad best friend. what has she done to maintain the diginity of a guest and friend. she sleeps with him on his wedding day. Dilshad once praised Tanveer for being will behaved and having good values. does a person of good Values sleep with the person who has give you shelter in his home, on his wedding day. destroying his wedding to the girl he loves.
Tanveer has not only hurt Zoya, but has insulted Dilshad and Asad. how can she then be alowed to live in that house. even in reality such a person would be shown the door irrespective of whose fault it is.

CV's please make not that it would be horriabley awkward to have tanveer living under the same roof with Dilshad, she not only trusted her son, but treated tanveer like a daughter. and trusted her. now Dilshad has been humiliated in society her family and friends. is the Cause of all the humillation just sit accross the dinning table and make small talk with her.

just imagian taveer saying this dialogue ." Oh Khala, these men kidnapped me and then they tried to rape me, they tore of my cloths, and Jammy came to save me. and he hugged me in comfort but i was so shaken by this attack and violation by these men, that is slept with your son at the time that he should have been at the venue of his marriage. you know these things happen, after someone tries to rape you, your so shaken by the incident that you natually have sex with the first man that comes to rescue you."

psychologlist working with rape victims. will have a field day annalising this phenominon

CV's should do a little research. women who are raped or exprience near rape hate to be touched by a man, they shun sex, even with their own husbands. they suffer anxity attacks if a man so much as enter her physical space, touches her or looks at her. they probably avoide all intreaction with the men in their lives. be it father, brother, husband. being touched even in the most innocent manner causes fear and anxity in her. which lasts for months and sometimes years. and they need major councling

and here Tanveer claims she has been assaulted by a man, claims her so called husband physically abused her for years. but she has no poblem trowing herself at another man at evey oppurtinity.

@Bold exactly, any way she tries to justify what has "happened" between her and Asad will still make her look bad.

@Red Exactly even if she wasn't nearly raped, the condition he found her in sends the message of assault at least. Women who have been abused and especially a woman who was "abused" by someone they have had a close relationship with [her fake husband] wouldn't just sleep with a man right after that happens, regardless of the relief of being rescued. They shun any intimacy. Some women are scarred from the experience. From her dialogue when she told Asad that Zoya wouldn't understand when he got up to chase after her [Zoya] she makes what they"did" seem mutual and that maybe she's been wanting him for so long that she took the opportunity. Anyhow you spin it Tanveer comes across like the call girl that Razia referred to her as in front of Haseena, Imran and co.

To allow this woman who essentially wrecked their home still stay in their house as a guest after Zoya leaves wouldn't be right or realistic. To let Asad shoulder all the blame for this incident isn't fair. Tanveer is equally as culpable and should receive the same treatment. Asad is Dilshad's only son and he got slapped and insulted for his actions in front of his entire family. Tanveer is not family, she's a guest and friend and though Tanveer has been close to the Khan's since childhood, when she came to stay with them after all this time, even though Dilshad has been fond with her, she treats Zoya more like a part of the family than Tanveer. So Tanveer shouldn't get the easy way out in this aspect while Zoya and Asad suffers.

Edited by cclove - 12 years ago

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Laila

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Posted: 12 years ago

#48

You have used pretty mild words, I would love to see Dilshad,Asad and Zoya all throw Tanveer out of the house after a public humilation...But I guess we will have to live with wishful thinking...Nothing of that sort happens in Gul Khan's dramas...

Tanveer would be really downright cheap and disgusting if she continue to stay at the Khan's residence...Although she cant fall farther than she already has in my eyes ...

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-Candz-

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Posted: 12 years ago

#49

Originally posted by: Edella17
You have used pretty mild words, I would love to see Dilshad,Asad and Zoya all throw Tanveer out of the house after a public humilation...But I guess we will have to live with wishful thinking...Nothing of that sort happens in Gul Khan's dramas...

Tanveer would be really downright cheap and disgusting if she continue to stay at the Khan's residence...Although she cant fall farther than she already has in my eyes ...

I may have written this with mild words but in my head the words I have about Tanveer is anything but mild. 😆

I agree too that it would really be cheap and disgusting to stay in a house where you're essentially a home-wrecker. If Tanveer feels she's getting promoted to Dilshad's DIL after this she is sadly mistaken. Still dreaming. She may have torn AsYa apart for the while but she also defamed herself in the eyes of people who thought only good about her. When I think of how Dilshad had praised Tanveer's character to Zoya in the start of her track, i roll my eyes at the irony.

Edited by cclove - 12 years ago

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Meaningful

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Posted: 12 years ago

#50

Well, Dilshad and Asad have this problem, and that is what is making them vulnerable to outside vultures like Tanveer, Razia and all.

And the problem is - they are not able to get out of their past (Rashid saga), and live in the present.

What ever situation arises, Dilshad goes into her '17years pehle, this is what happened to me and my children mode'. She forgets, that 17 years have passed, time has healed their wounds and her little kids then are grown up self sufficient adults now.

Same is the case with Asad - what ever little situation occurs, he will go into the mode, of ;my dad abandoned me, my little sister and my mom. i grew up without a dad and all.

And outside vultures like tanveer can clearly see and sense this. So, it is very easy for them and to plot and play against these people. Till they come out of this and learn to live in the present, they are not ready for the challenges of today.

Dilshad (more than Asad) is a loser.

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